Masters Please introduce yourselves here

[Rabbit1]

Hi I am Rabbit1---and I am a Master---trained many subs and will try to answer any questions you have for me.

[DeDomMaster]

Introduction: I'm a 25 year-old straight male dominant living on the West Coast of the USA. I've been lurking in the Library since at least 2000. A few months back I started talking with a woman who was a "sassy sub" as she put it, and had spent a great deal of time thinking about dominance and submission and sadism and masochism and things of that nature. And I never did. Sure I had deep dark secret fantasies (okay, they're really somewhat vanilla), and I acted out some of my desires with willing partners, yet nothing ever made me stop and think about that aspect of myself. So I decided to commit and become a member of the community & learn from ya'll.

Recent History: My last 'serious' relationship imploded quite spectacularly four or five years back, in part because I wasn't truly comfortable with my need to dominate. Since then I've been living the life of a bachelor and quite enjoying it. I was a pariah as a lad; it shocked and amazed me that a woman -- any woman -- would want me. After I'd sprouted and filled out, I discovered that I was what the vanilla world would term 'a catch'. Yet such a world holds little attraction for me. Having had revenge sex with a very silly number of women, including some light to moderate BDSM, it was pointed out in the Spring of last year that I was just possibly a sex addict.

Well, we couldn't have that! To give up such control over oneself to an all-consuming addiction? The very notion was and is abhorrent. So I went cold turkey and have been celibate for roughly 9 months. It was of course hard at first; my first reaction when bored was to go get laid. Sometimes I'd find myself in my car en route to a meat market (read: location wherein women go to be picked up, generally a bar), or discover myself picking up women at the local college or in the supermarket. I'd flirt with a female for awhile, then discard her before anything happens, because that's not what I truly wanted.

Awakening: Before I started my quest for sex, I was uncomfortable with my sexuality and that of others. I felt my needs and desires were somehow wrong or inappropriate, because I was raised in a very vanilla world. The first time I spanked a girl I was 18 -- and it was magical. After that, there was no turning back. I am not an 'ass man'. Yet now the second thing I check out on a woman is her bottom; wondering how it would look when bright red; how she would feel when bent across my lap; how her cries and moans would sound in my ears.

Interests: Far more important than physical dominance is mental domination, IMO. Given my physical characteristics and training, it's quite easy to control a woman. That presents no challenge. But to mentally spar with a woman; to have her submit without your ever laying a finger on her? Ah, now there's a special task. And rewarding in it's own right, for submission is a gift to be treasured. The look in a sub's eye after she's taken her punishment for misbehaviour -- or when she's performed a task to the best of her ability and you praise her and reward her -- that's what really gets me going. For me, pain, pleasure, the whip, the crop, a gentle hand, a kind word, a stern glare or a tender kiss -- these are all tools to accomplish the task at hand.

I don't understand sadism; so I won't be able to help you there.

Bondage? Ah, but that's a game you play with someone you trust. Regrettably, my awakening came about after my last relationship ended, so I am unfortunately no expert there. I've owned handcuffs since I was 19, and used them on a number of women, yet only in a playful manner. Rope work is fascinating from an asthetic standpoint, yet for me to devote myself to it would require the sub to be truly needing it. Leather? Laytex? These options intrigue me, though I don't understand why. Strictly a novice here, I'm afraid.

Submission? Not from me, thanks. Yet I crave it from others, particularly women.

Relationships: In the fullness of time I expect to find a playmate, a sub, or a slave who I just might happen to come to love. I crave the special bond that develops between a Master and His Slave or a Sub and her Sir...yet am I ready for such a step? 'Tis a huge committment, not to be undertaken lightly. If I meet a special woman, then so be it. For now I am content to learn and grow as a master and explore BDSM with your aid.

I look forward to getting to know you, and welcome any aid, advice, or questions you may have. Feel free to contact me via PM about just about anything.

Warmest Regards,

DeDomMaster

[fantazmaster]

My name is Fantazmaster and I am a Male Dominant.One thing I discovered over the years that many have ideas for a fantasy or story in mind that is not complete.Collaboration via e-mail and chat,I am often able to develop these partial ideas into a more complete form.Many of these custom works are kept confidential by request,which of course I honor by not publishing them.I have been fortunate to have two femsubs grant me permission to publish two such stories here on the site,which are examples of this type work.The first is "Karmals Saga",which reflects the femsub's desire to be put into some extremely harsh settings and conditions.The second,"A Flat Surprise" was written for a femsub who had a consuming desire for adrenalin provoked by the shock of surprise and fear of the unknown.
Both of these stories involved a lot of correspondence back and forth and eventually and sadly both stories froze when I ceased to receive input from the subjects of the stories.

Certainly if any of you have such ideas you wish developed,I invite your inquiry.Here are the links to these two stories should any care to peruse them:
"Karmals Saga"
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/s...p?storyid=3688

"A Flat Surprise"
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/s...p?storyid=3725

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Hi I am Rabbit1---and I am a Master---trained many subs and will try to answer any questions you have for me.

[Barton]

Hello! My name is Barton. I am a male dom and sadist. My slave is the very lovely Katmandu who is also my wonderfull wife. I have been involved in BDSM for a few years. I like to incorporate pain into most of my scenes as it pleases me to do so. I would say that I have a fair ammount of pratical experience in real life, my slave and I strive to practice BDSM 24/7. We have tried the standard things like ropes and candles, but also like to play with whips, floggers, needles and have had fun with edge play. Since I am also one of the founding members and help administer the BDSM Academy I also have a fair ammount of experience in online BDSM.

If anyone should have any questions for me please ask. I check things every few days and would be glad to answer or comment on anything asked.

[Aesop]

Hey folks, Aesop here! I'm male and dominant and have a problem taking anything too seriously. Probably because of that I seem a lot sillier than most of the other dominants 'round here - but rest assured I have my tall, dark, and whip-happy side.

I've been involved with bdsm in some form or another for about a dozen years. I've married my submissive and we live with our three kids. I have a wide variety of bdsm interests and have developed a host of skills to keep my wife and I happy. Anyone who is a member of the BDSM Academy has seen me in my dominant role and knows I'm a stickler for details and kinda strict when it comes to having my commands followed. My interest right now is focused mainly on mentoring new dominants as I think that we as a community need people to show newbies how it's done. Not that I think my way is the best, but it's gotta be better than the, "On your knees, bitch."-in a chatroom no less - crowd. I also happen to be one of the moderators of the library forums so any questions about the forums, bdsm, or anything else will be answered post haste - or at least really, really fast.

[babygirl2320]

Hello! My name is Barton. I am a male dom and sadist. My slave is the very lovely Katmandu who is also my wonderfull wife. I have been involved in BDSM for a few years. I like to incorporate pain into most of my scenes as it pleases me to do so. I would say that I have a fair ammount of pratical experience in real life, my slave and I strive to practice BDSM 24/7. We have tried the standard things like ropes and candles, but also like to play with whips, floggers, needles and have had fun with edge play. Since I am also one of the founding members and help administer the BDSM Academy I also have a fair ammount of experience in online BDSM.

If anyone should have any questions for me please ask. I check things every few days and would be glad to answer or comment on anything asked.

hi my name is babygirl2320 aka butterfly well im actually still searching but i do have a Master. but still looking for information on bdsm and well so far i have only found to be playing and learn ing at the same time but i need more info on the matter before i go into it further. i just recently became hip to the idea about a month ago and im still curious.i would be really grateful if you could help me out with any information you may have

[Barton]

But Aesop silly is fine. This is supposed to be fun afterall!

[Aesop]

Thank you! That's what I thought.

[Mastermike]

My name is mike I have been in the lifestyle fro just about a year and learing as I am going. I am '0 brown hair and eyes medium build and 175lbs. I am into sopanking and humiliation and am willing to try anything ounce. I have a verity of intrests outside bdsm so I am constantly busy

[Master Bane]

Hi, my name is Master Bane, and I am a Daddy Dom. Oh wait… is this the BDSM anon room? Yep, I’m a Daddy dom. Don’t cringe; I have no desire or kink that involves children.

I first got into the lifestyle online about 5-6 years ago. After a few sessions online in chat with someone, she and I met in person and it just seemed to flourish from there. I have known a few submissives that were wonderful women, but just like dating or having a relationship, they just did not work out.

In researching and testing the waters in the BDSM lifestyle I found many things that I just did not understand. While I craved some aspects of the lifestyle, other parts of it just did not seem to fit. I stumbled across a few different pages about age-play and the Daddy Dom / babygirl relationship, and I found what I had been looking for. I love nurturing and guidance part of what I have found in this aspect of the lifestyle, and in this I found my place. I don’t play at this, this is just who I am, and it is a part of me. I have no desire to go to a play party and “hook up” with someone that I don’t know, and spank them. To me, a scene is as sensual and powerful, as making love. There is a deep connection and feeling of energy when it is done right. When with the right person, I get lost in the scene. There may be music playing, people watching, it doesn’t matter. When I get into the scene, it is only she and I. The music ceases to exist, and the people just fade away.

That’s enough about me for now… take care and be safe.

Master Bane

[Spike]

My name is Dave, but i like to go by the nickname Spike. Im the proud boyfreind to the lovely girl who goes by the name of SpikesKitten. You may have seen her around the forums. Im a very dominant guy and i love to tie my girl down and then torment her with vibrators. Ive been looking around on this forum for only a couple weeks now but im loving it already. Very informative.

[ineeditnow111000]

I'm interested in speaking with you as I'm new to this whole arena.

[Sir_Russell]

I too am a new Daddy Dom after decades of being hard core I find it is fun with my new love to give her more space and freedom. She is very intertainingly new to the life and I am finding that it is fun to put her over my knee often for when she earns it or mostly because we both love it.

[shwqa]

Hello my name is Steven and I am 18. This is the first time I have done anything so I don't really know what to do but I am having fun learning.

[Aesop]

Welcome Steven. Glad to see you here. We've got some excellent resources in the posts and people on the board. Ask any questions you like, we're a friendly bunch.

[Tojo]

Hello my name is Steven and I am 18. This is the first time I have done anything so I don't really know what to do but I am having fun learning.

Welcome Steven- don't go thinking any of us know what we're doing either....


Tojo

[submissivewife]

Watch it though, Aesop bites......(still haven't seen those shot records!)

Ooooppsss, I'm in the wrong thread to be bait him....I am going to go now.

[Aesop]

Pay no attention to the woman in the post above. She tells people that so she can keep all the bites to herself.

[MasterBluePrint]

Good afternoon.

Im Master BluePrint, a 22 year old from the South of England. I have been interested and learning about D/s for around 3 years now. Thought I would introduce myself as I may bring a different viewpoint being the age that I am.

I have a long-term girlfriend that is unsure of the lifestyle so until she is ready or able to give me an answer I continue to learn and grow which is where this forum comes into play.

Hope all are well and speak with you all soon.

BP

[ces3]

Im the master of sipgirl who is also my wife and mother to my children. We love each other to no end and the lifestyle gives us an even deeper feeling of undeniable and unconditional love. Besides that we really enjoy pleaseing each other and I enjoy torturing my little whore{wife}!!!

[MasterVenom]

Hi, my name is bob. My slave is on here named DevotedSlave. ive been in the lifestyle for about a half year...so in quite new, and quite intrigued by it. i wish to learn as much as i can...

[Aesop]

Welcome to the forums Bob. If you have any questions don't be afraid to ask.

[DevotedSlave]

Thank you Aesop. i will gladly ablidge if necessary.

/edit/ sorry, my slave was still logged in. this is MasterVenom

[Brosco]

hi, my name is Brosco and as I get closer to fossilhood I find it harder to remember how long I have been doing this.

I have the usual variety of kinks (not any real extremes) and have been a sub and Dom in r/l. Online I also enjoy playing, but only as a Dom (lol.. to date anyways

My one really big kink is Orgasm - tease, denial and control. Cum-on-demand, multiple O's, extended denial - man, this is my favourite topic and I talk for hours. This doesn't make me an expert, but I am an expert in what I like, and I am yet to receive a complaint from those that have been on the end of my torments.

I will happily answer any questions that are in this area, and I can proudly say that with my techniques, I have even taught females to cum when they have had difficulties doing so.

Brosco

[Ozme52]

... I have even taught females to cum when they have had difficulties doing so.

Brosco

One of the most enjoyable pasttimes I know of.

And later, the look of amazement when they first become multi-orgasmic is oh so erotic!!

And finally, when you can torture a woman by not letting her stop orgasming, that really turns my kink-crank!

[Guest011909]

hi, my name is Brosco and as I get closer to fossilhood I find it harder to remember how long I have been doing this.

I have the usual variety of kinks (not any real extremes) and have been a sub and Dom in r/l. Online I also enjoy playing, but only as a Dom (lol.. to date anyways

My one really big kink is Orgasm - tease, denial and control. Cum-on-demand, multiple O's, extended denial - man, this is my favourite topic and I talk for hours. This doesn't make me an expert, but I am an expert in what I like, and I am yet to receive a complaint from those that have been on the end of my torments.

I will happily answer any questions that are in this area, and I can proudly say that with my techniques, I have even taught females to cum when they have had difficulties doing so.

Brosco

Oooo! You've got my attention! Is there anywhere for postings regarding technique? I have trouble having orgasms sometimes.

[greeneyes]

Pretty New Here. I;ve Only Been In Chat Rooms.how Does One Begin?
I Just Know That This Is Something, This Desire, This Pull That I Can No Longer Control. I Don't Even Know If I'm Posting In The Right Spot

[_ID_]

I am Dominant - Have a question, go ahead and ask. Be warned however. Know that you WANT to know the answer, cause I will give it, regardless of it's distaste.

[The Wizard]

I am a Dom who has lived the lifestyle in fantasy and reality since before i knew the proper terms to describe my fetish.

In those early years i struggled within the weirdness of my own needs & fantasies but have sinced realized it is merely the way i'm wired.

Now i'm comfortable in my Dom orientation and have sinced vowed never to take on another strictly nilla partner ever again.

Primary interest include Bondage,Blindfolds,Temp. play, reluctance role play, Orgasm withholding/denial,multiple orgasm, tasks,spanking,outdoor scenes and firsts of any kind.

I strongly believe in checklists for my submissive partners, if more extreme activities are desired in a scene i will ramp up to the occasion if possible.

The Wizard

[her_Joe]

I'm old as dirt and have been dominant all of my adult life ... but only knew the word for it in the past few years and have spent a lot of energy realizing that my instincts were solid all along.

I'm not sure I'm qualified to provide "answers" but I sure can share tales and experiences, make suggestions, and give some thoughtful (if not guaranteed accurate) advice.

I too am a Daddy Dom, so long as you will allow that to occasionally develop a fairly hard edge or two. I'm not too much into posturing by anyone, and that's why this is one of my preferred sites to visit.

HJ