hey

[Cookie84]

hi,
been here a few times.mostly for the stories

thought id say hi.
in a relatiohship. my partner does not really know about my sub side...or he doesent know how to deal with it.

so when the mans at work i surf the net in secret.

glad to of found this forum.

*wave*

[Euryleia]

Welcome to the forums.

[ladyboy]

My partner doesn't know about my submissive side either. She doesn't know my secret desire to be a woman. Which as far as I'm concerned, I'm really one inside.

[Veridical]

That's not a good way to deal with your relationship though. If you have needs that aren't being fulfilled by your partner, you should talk to them about it and try to resolve it, not sneak around behind their back and try to fill the need yourself. It leads to other things, not to mention shows a great deal of disrespect and distrust to your partner.

[ladyboy]

I'm sure you're right but it's sort of like telling your partner your gay. You just don't know how they will respond. They may just decide to pack up and leave. Telling her I don't like her cooking is a lot eaiser than to tell her I want an operation to have breast implants, dress up like a girl go to parties where I get tied up and totured.

[Veridical]

I can completely understand and empathize with your fears, however, it will be found out sooner or later. Wouldn't you rather it be from you than from someone who you thought you could trust to tell, and then they tell her behind your back?

[MrDom]

hi and welcome

[DarkDreamMaker]

Hi and welcome to the forum

[Tufty]

Hello and to the Forums

[crazy_grrluk]

hello and welcome to the forums

cg and S1

[icey]

welcome cookie

[denuseri]

wellcome to the site

we are so very happy to have you here, the forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom

feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand

hope to see more of you soon
have lots of fun exploring the site
hugs and kissess
denu

[Ozme52]

If it's a relatively new relationship, tell him now. The sooner the better in my opinion, lest you grow restless in the long run.

If it's old and established... this is a more difficult decision to make.

Good luck... and enjoy.