The Switch in me

[Kitten-Pi]

Hi, I am new to this group but I decided to come right out and talk. I have been a sub for a long time... but I am in a serious relationship now with a complete missionary lights off kind'f guy. Now, my female master was never around to seriously controll me so I never got to learn how she does it but we did discovour I've got a nice mean streak just right for being the dom.

Now here's the thing... I know what I like, but I don;t know how to play it onto other people, I've been given the opertunity to own a couple guys too and the idea just facinates me but I don;t know how to go about owning them

Yes I admit it I am a newb *smiles*

I know the spanking, I know the bondage, I also know how to get blood play (yummy) but I just don;t know how to be all that controlling and exciting.. any ideas?

[BDSM_Tourguide]

One questions: How old are you?

[Kitten-Pi]

I am 19, and yes if you got I was young from my horrific spelling that's perfectly alright. I'm translating spanish to english and I will look like a child. Working on it though.

[slavelucy]

To be honest, Kitten-Pi, i'm a little confused by what your question is, an di wonder if that's why you've had no responses.

Could you clarify what it is you're asking? Are you saying you've done the sub thing and now want to try being the dom? If so then i'd strongly recommend having a good look through the forums in general, you'll pick up lots of ideas on there, both from a phsycological and a pratical perspective.

If there is a specific question though, please do ask it.

sl