Unsure submissive

[Charityy]

I'm not sure exactly what I am looking for, but I do know I need spanking and humiliation to be a bigger part of my life. I've experienced both playful and disciplinary spankings in the past, but by current boyfriend has only done a few playful spankings. I miss the discipline in my life, but am happy with my relationship with him and love him, so I was thinking of trying self spanking. Eager to poke around!

[Sirs_GoodGirl (Whyteknyght)]

My master makes me self spank, when i displease him. It seems to work very well and i do not take it easy just cause its my ass im swatting.....Being long distance kind of makes it a necessity. Perhaps you might find someone here who is open to providing that kind of discipline, without interferring with your relationship? Pretty sure there are people that could help you "poke around"....

[Charityy]

haha, I hope so too!

[Mr. Big]

Ithink i have what you need Charity. If you are Interested,please email me at scotlad219@yahoo.com

[emeralds]

Hello Charityy.. I understand your position.. I am also in a lovely relationship with a man not comfortable accepting that role.. And truthfully I don't think I want to change they dynamics of our relationship ... He has made small adjustments for me.. And we continue to talk and explore.. So who knows where we will end up.. Communication I think is the key.. : )
Good luck x

[lorem angelum]

I haven't been doing this very long myself, but I have a wonderful Sir who has taught me a lot about the Lifestyle. The most important thing he has taught me, with this type of relationship or any, is HONESTY. If you can't be honest about your needs with the one you love, how can you keep a any type of relationship together. You say he has given you "playful" spankings in the past, be honest and tell him how you really want him to spank you. You might be pleasantly surprised when he complies...*grin*. I hope you find what you need and want, plus much happiness...*hug*.