Remote/online D/s

[Evan_]

I have a lovely pet who likes to please me. So far she has taken pictures of herself for me, involving various requests, and she has fulfilled a few low-intensity assignments that I have given her, including performing certain acts with her husband that she does not typically perform (nothing crazy, just bringing her out of her shyness, really), or having her call me and bring herself off in various ways. The most interesting thing about her, that continually intrigues me, is that she will do almost anything I ask of her. She has a stressful job, and these assignments allow her to give up every bit of control to me. She derives the greatest pleasure from my reactions to her completion of the assignments. I have offered bonus points for completion before the deadline, and she responds wonderfully to this.

I'm looking for ideas for more assignments that I can giver her. They can involve pictorial ideas, maybe video (she's working on figuring out her digital video camera), writing assignments, or anything else you can think of. Any ideas at all?

[goodlilcowgirl]

just a tip on the video... if you send online you will have problems with size so keep the video to under 30 seconds or up the minute max... I've found that out the hard way & its extremely frustrating knowing you cant send/reiceve a video thats ready & waiting on you

[Evan_]

Thanks for that tip. I am aware of some technical solutions around that, but it's still a long way off.

No suggestions, cowgirl?

[Hime]

How about getting her to play "Master of Her Own Domain" (as in the Seinfeld episode) for as long as she can hold out? I know it's worked on me in the past, with a long-distance bf.

[Tojo]

It sounds like she must trust you & feel comfortable, otherwise it wouldn't work. Everyone is different, so what works for one wouldn't work with everyone.
My suggestion is to get to know her. Do a bit of 'life story' stuff, which I've started recently. Find out more details of what her turn ons, or turn offs are, her darker fantasties, & perhaps a little more of what she wants from the relationship.
We're in the process of rewriting our contract of 'slavery'- as she said we were a 'both a little eager at the time' we wrote it.
Myself I feel that there's only so much you can do physically in an online relationship- last time we got back to basics as it were.
Whatever you do, have fun & keep it a bit light. I think much of what is on sites such as - http://www.submissiveloving.com/ relates to online relationships.
Hope this helps.

Tojo