Submissive Ideas

[wiredup2006]

First of all a Big Hi to all of you. This site has definetly helped me.

I never thought I would enjoy being submissive , but kinda got into it online with a girl 3 months ago. we slowly explored and I had fun , never thought she making me wear panties would ever turn me on , but it did )

Now I am still new to all this and so is she , but I was wondering if you guys have some ideas of what we can do , right now we are still in the online phase of things.

so far , what we have done is that she has made me act a like a a puppy, get on all 4s , walk aroud , drinkin/eat from a bowl of water , put a leash , verbal humiliation and the latest was panties.

Some of the things I donot liek were : physical pain , things up the ass and dirinking cum etc.

I guess you can call me a lightwegith BDSM , but I guess thats what turns me on.

ONce again I will greatly appreicate if you guys have any ideas.

Thanks

[Sextoymaker]

Well 1st you probably need a custom locking collar. You may consider a food dish WITH your name on it. You also may start with a small anal plug to get you used to the ass work that is probably going to be a big part of your training. Seriously you may need to get your mind
set to get used to the idea of ass play.

[wiredup2006]

Well 1st you probably need a custom locking collar. You may consider a food dish WITH your name on it. You also may start with a small anal plug to get you used to the ass work that is probably going to be a big part of your training. Seriously you may need to get your mind
set to get used to the idea of ass play.

Thanks for all the suggestions buddy, no offece intended but I think everyone has some prefrerences and the idea of Ass Play just does not attract me all, I dont know I guess it is just not for me.

[I1985]

Hello, welcome on board. And I agree with you, there probably as many lifestyles as people here. Just about everybody is into different things, some may like assplay, others not... There are painsluts here, but also those (prob most of us) that aren't, and use pain as a punishment. Although light pain is quite common I think (nipple clamps etc).

Just take your time to find out what you do and do not like. And find someone to share it with. And maybe over time explore things you might not really like at first, but that's all up to you...

[Sextoymaker]

Yes I was being a little sarcastic. Do what you like and nothing more. Mild or extreme do what you enjoy I know I do. Sorry for the implication. Still the food dish I thought was original.

[wiredup2006]

Yes I was being a little sarcastic. Do what you like and nothing more. Mild or extreme do what you enjoy I know I do. Sorry for the implication. Still the food dish I thought was original.

Thanks for the ideas. My next sesions with her is on the 11th , I am travellig before that so am wondering what else I can do.

[wiredup2006]

Yes I was being a little sarcastic. Do what you like and nothing more. Mild or extreme do what you enjoy I know I do. Sorry for the implication. Still the food dish I thought was original.

Thanks for the ideas guys. I have my next session with her on the 11th, travelling before that so am wondering what I can do in that.

[Sextoymaker]

Thanks for the ideas guys. I have my next session with her on the 11th, travelling before that so am wondering what I can do in that.

You can anticipate.....

[buzzy]

you might not like ass-play for now but she does?? It is a training thing to get used to it and really enjoy it. YOu should start with an enama to clean yourself out and reduce the pain. then yes start small and work your way up. A friend told me you never what you can take, now up to a 21/2 in dildo with plenty of astroglide and loving it. You might also explore nipple play with clothspins and clover clamps and of couse there's the ever popular cock and ball torture lol. Hard to get into bondage, whips, flogger and alike over the net but do continue exploring and have fun take care

[nowgirl]

If you look in the Knowledge Base part of the forum, you'll find lots of informative threads... there's one called "checklist" by swtsubmissive that's helpful... some of the checklists are pretty involved but it might give you a good starting point for ideas.

Have fun!

[rce]

One suggestion is never to masturbate unless on the express direction by her. This works even between your sessions.