BDSM Vs. Vanilla r/l?

[Ruby]

Ruby,
It's been said that God is a woman, and after reading that - Are you the Goddess? Thank you for making me lugh and see sense
~kisses~
Asia
xxx

I like to think there's a little bit of the goddess in each of us.

Look how wise you are to put on an invisible chastity belt.
That's such a great idea.

Hugs and kisses back to you.

XXX OOO

[Asia]

Firstly, welcome back Asia! This is the first thread of yours that I've posted on since your return, and I'm glad that I can uncross everything that I've kept crossed for the past month. Oo ah. That's gonna hurt in the morning.

Right, now to talk about this thread! There have been other BDSM vs Vanilla threads, and maybe this is my inexperience showing, but I could certainly see myself in a wholly vanilla relationship, if I really loved the gal in question. If I did a Tojo and showed my eventual partner a bunch of bondage mags and she crinkled her nose, I could happily see out the rest of my days with only the odd look at this site when she wasn't looking.

As for your boring guy, Asia, I'm sorry he was so dull, but I'm sure he must have been nervous and you may not have got the best from him. It'd be a brave man here who wouldn't be nervous the first time with you!

Now, if you'll just excuse me while I forge my birth certificate to make myself more than a few months older than you...

Q xx

Hey honey - I realised something so obvious after I'd written this all down, that when I first met my man (now my ex), it took him a long time to get into what I was into and I never pushed him or made him do anuything - he was naturally dominant but certain things, he simply would not do - it had completely slipped my mind. And Q *laughs*, he did admit to me that when we first got together, that night, I scared him with my 'ways' - I must learn to be shy *laughs*
Great to see you again honey.
Asia
xxx

[Asia]

Ruby honey - you are so damn lovely *hugs*
~kiss~
Asia
xxx