My Introduction

[blue 2]

Hello to everyone, I am sort of to all of this! being BDSM and forums. I know I have a submissive nature and would love to explore it,this seems like a really nice place to do that. Any help would be greatly appreciated I truly love reading these forums.

[RangerSixGolf]

Wow, what can I say about Y/your wonderful site, great stories, forums, just had to add My name to what looks like a wonderful group pf P/people. I have enjoyed the personal photos and story ideas that some of Y/you have been coming up with.

Thanks again

Ranger

[slavelucy]

Wow, what can I say about Y/your wonderful site, great stories, forums, just had to add My name to what looks like a wonderful group pf P/people.

Aw, what a nice thing to say, thank you RangerSixGolf, and welcome to you, blue 2 and all recent new folks.

sl

[SummerMagic]

Hiya, I've been reading the stories for a while now, but only just joined the forum lol.

I'm Rach, married with erm.... 6 kids lol.

I play sub to hubby's Dom.

Nice to meet you all

Rach x

[DiamondMuse]

Hello everyone. You'll have to forgive me for being potentially shy around here. Just looking over some of the threads posted on this forum gave me some shocked moments. ^_^; Actually, though, I've been searching for a place like this for quite a while where I can be totally honest about myself and my preferences and not have to worry about being considered weird or far-out or whatever. I'm fairly...innocent is the word, I guess, because I've never had any sexual experience or in fact gone beyond kissing. But I know myself well enough to know that BDSM is something that really excites me and that I'm probably submissive by nature; someday after I've gained some experience I'd like to possibly try a BDSM lifestyle, though I've no idea how I'd go about it. In the meantime, I guess there is one benefit to being a virgin...adds some extra spice to my fantasies.

One more thing. I don't know if anyone would be interested, but I figure this is the place to ask--I'm interested in starting an online relationship with a Dom...I know I'm a rank novice but I figure if I ever want to get into an RL BDSM lifestyle, this is a good place to start. Please PM me if interested.

[NaturalSub]

Hello, my given name is Laura, but the name I choose, and the name I have been given is Ally's little one.

I am 22, and a female collard slave. I have only just, as in a matter of days, been collard, which is something that I have wanted for a long time. We started off in a RT relationship which very quickly grew into a D/s relationship. Unfortunately, due to His work, He has had to go away for a while. Before He left, we decided that it would be best if we split up. However, we missed each other too much and have now decided to continue my training online until he gets back.

Under His direction, I have joined this site, and I'm so glad that I have done. I spent most of last night reading old posts and looking around the site, it feels like I have finally found somewhere where I can be myself and not be censored for it!

[submissivelola]

Hi Mistress I am new and really lost on this site.

Everytime I login, there is a new member that has joined.

<peering around in the dark corners>Where are you? Please, join in, we won't hurt you - well, unless you want us to, that is! And even then, you have to beg first.

Tell us who you are, where you are, your special interests and delights - you know, anything.

And if you're a sub, looking for an on-line MIstress, let me know ...

[BDSM_Tourguide]

One more thing. I don't know if anyone would be interested, but I figure this is the place to ask--I'm interested in starting an online relationship with a Dom...I know I'm a rank novice but I figure if I ever want to get into an RL BDSM lifestyle, this is a good place to start. Please PM me if interested.

Muse,

Check out the Personals Forum to post or reply to a personal ad.

Otherwise, have fun and play safe.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Hi Mistress I am new and really lost on this site.

Lost? In what way?

[Lookielu]

Hi all
I am not truly a "virgin" member but I haven't really posted much. I am kinda shy but here goes:
I am a sub although it feels strange to write that. I have felt this way a long time but never really knew what to call the feelings I have. When I was about 19 I went over to my boyfriend's apartment at the invitation of his roommate. He told me X would be home after work and than we could all go out into the city. I came over and the roommate was there with a friend. I know this all sounds naive and I was but maybe there was more to this looking back. I waited and we drank and danced and I was genuinely having a good time. It was summer and pretty hot and their fan didn't cut it so I decided to take a bath. I felt pretty comfortable there having stayed over with X many times. Surprise, surprise when the roommate jimmied the lock and came in. I was about to shout when he put his finger over my lips and said ssh "It's okay". He started kissing me grabbing at my tits sucking on them.
I could have done something at this point but didn't. He stripped and got into the tub. He started to fuck me - hard - it was like someone had turned on a switch to give me my voice back. I started crying and screaming for him to stop which of course he didn't until he came inside me. I was hysterical by now but also feeling guilt (after all I didn't really try to stop him in fact when he demanded I lift my leg to allow him to get deeper within in me I complied.)
While i was crying I failed to notice his friend enter the bathroom. Now I screamed louder telling him to get the fuck out! He was a tall physically large guy not fat but imposing and very quick. Before i could react he slapped me a few times very hard drawing a little blood. My screams shrank to whimpers as he fingered me roughly. He fucked me almost brutally with me only softly crying not even pushing him away. I am sure they planned more for me but to their surprise my boyfriend came home much earlier than planned. There's only a bit more to this melodrama so I'll spare you, but needless to say X was furious with me! I had always felt disgusted, ashamed even depressed about this experience. But just under the surface was an undeniable feeling of being turned on being used like a whore by those men. This had exacerbated my self-loathing. Stumbling on to this site and reading the posts and stories, I see myself differently and have some peace of mind.
I understand myself - I am a sub and maybe a bit of a humiliation slut. Sorry if this is too long.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I understand myself - I am a sub and maybe a bit of a humiliation slut. Sorry if this is too long.

I don't suppose you called the police and had the two individuals arrested for rape, did you?

Incidentally, do you feel like a submissive and a humiliation slut because of that incident, or do you have other reasons for feeling that?

If a rape was your trigger to begin feeling submissive, then I would recommend therapy, and not BDSM.

[femmesub4Mistress]

Point noted about newbies not posting, manners would not permit me to ignore such a remark. Tell you all something of me eh, let me think..Well I'm a gentic Female,I'm gay since the year dot, self outed sincwe my early twenties and as I am now...46, I am long time gay gal. Things were going along just as normal a fewe yrs back when a chance encounter with a Gorgeous Female who just happened to be an actively practising Mistress.
Well when she went back to the states about 6 months later, she left behind what surely was the oldest newbie in town. Finding a replacement is however provinf to be not so simple.Perhaps the rest shall give me a new burst of enthusiasm.
enough for you???
its all your getting , for now anyway
xxx
caroline

[Shy_Girl]

Hi everybody. I am new here and to BDSM as well. I stumbled on it quite by accident one day and found it ...interesting and so here I am... not really sure what else to say, so hi!

[spike]

Hi all.

I've been reading this forum for the past week or so, joined yesterday, came back tonight to post an introduction, spent two and a half hours just reading the Introductions thread, then half an hour composing an introduction, lost that introduction when I clicked Preview because I was no longer logged in, and am trying again.

I'm a Brit (Hi to all the folk from the Colonies here!), fat, hairy, entering my mid-50s, divorced, living alone, intelligent (Master's degree ), funny, literate, hate housework, every subbie's dream !

I have very limited experience as weekend dom to a fine girl who, after a few months, dumped me because of my lack of ambition, and then, in quick succession (at least it seemed quick to me), got a very well-paid job in Brussels, married an Austrian aristocrat, and phoned me up to tell me she'd submitted to him. I got over it. In the past five years my health has deteriorated sufficiently that any further sexual relationship BDSM or otherwise would be awkward, certainly painful (my heart), possibly dangerous (I guess my heart could literally break). While I probably won't get over that, I am at least resigned to it.

I've been reading BDSM literature since the Story of O came out, so I found the story side of BDSM Library very soon after I got a home internet connection but I only recently realised there was a forum too. My, what a big one you've got . Recently I've been reviving my writing ambitions and as many of the story ideas I've been getting lately fall within the general BDSM area, this seems to be the place to be.

So I've joined for conversation on stories, insights into real BDSM psychologies, and just to have somewhere to mouth off about the subject, not to solicit partners for any kind of real-life nookie. Hard luck.

Spike

[bateman2112]

Hello Everyone. Been lurking for a bit now and felt like I should join. I know I may seem young for this lifestyle, and in truth I just may be. I've done a couple self-intros similar to this at real life functions and I'll end with the same note here as I did there, I don't know just what you want to know, ask me questions and I'll answer. Not terribly dom like but after spending a portion of your life training as a head shrinker what can you do?

Additional
Questions I will not answer(phrased however you like)
Where I live (full address). What my full name is. My background(flexible, I'm not going to drop the full story on a total stranger, get to know me, and let me get to know you before you ask).
Anything I missed, I'll let you know.

Bateman2112

edit to clarify a point

[Aquilegia]

Hi Everybody.

I have been reading these boards with a big grin on my face! At last I have found a place where I feel I could fit right in. The boards are full of friendliness, humour, and good sound advice.

I have been dying to add my bit to some of the posts, but I thought it would be more polite to say hello first.

I have been marreid to my wonderful, sexy, strict, and very handsome Master, Vadnor,(He made me write all that!) for thirty two years, and he has been in control for about fifteen of those years. We were Master and slave for years before we knew that other people lived the way we do.

I wear a collar at weekends, but cannot during the week because I have to help earn our living. Life does get in the way!

I am looking forward to reading loads of the stories, and posting lots in the forum.

[interestbound]

Hi to all. I am very new to this and quite uncertain of my likes and dislikes. A friend suggested I check you out and see if I can't learn more about myself. I must admit that I've had bondage desires and fantasies since childhood. I have finally decided to explore them.

[slavelucy]

I have been reading these boards with a big grin on my face! At last I have found a place where I feel I could fit right in. The boards are full of friendliness, humour, and good sound advice.

Aw, what a nice thing to say, and a great compliment for everyone here.

i thought i'd say a special hello Aquilegia, as i also live in Cheshire! (yikes, there's 2 of us, how will the Cheshire set cope?! )

Welcome to you and too all who have recently made an intro, good to have you with us.

sl

[spike]

Didn't I say? I live in Cheshire, too. Small web!

Spike

[slavelucy]

Didn't I say? I live in Cheshire, too. Small web!

Spike

Yikes! Three of us huh? *grins* At this rate, we could take over the county! *evil cackling*

sl

[Abe Froman]

uhmmmm... long time listener, first time caller..

Greetings,
I am a sometimes author (okay, only two stories on ASSTR, but I'm still negotiating the time for more) and enthusiastic reader of the fine fiction I'm finding here.

My personal kinks are bondage, blackmail, humiliation, modification (especially BE), use of latex, lingerie and other specific clothing pieces as part of submission, and well, the more I read the more enjoyable things I find.

Thanks for the great library.

[harshlove39]

hey im also a new member here and would like to get to know some of you. im sort of new to the scene i know im sub i love the feeling of submitting to someone, giving up my free will, and knowing that if i do anything wrong i must take the punishment. i am also looking for an online master. i hope that as time goes by i get a chance to talk to most of you out there and mayb have some fun with some of you . ok that's all i have to say for now bye

[greedypuss]

Hello everyone, I am very knew to this board and new to whole scene. I discovered my interest in bondage recently and am keen to explore further. I am not from Cheshire like a lot of those on here! I hail from N.Ireland actually and am not sure how to go about finding others with the same interests as myself. I admit that while I do like having my hubby submit to my whims, I also like to be restrained and forced to submit to him. Only occasionally though!!!

[PopeRozen]

Hey everyone!

I actually started posting in the Lifestyle section before I came here, no disrespect to the mods intended.

Here's a little about Me:
I'm 22, a college student, and have been in the lifestyle for about 2/2.5 years. I'm still new, still learning, looking foreward to meeting people for friendship and fun. I have a girlfriend who is also my subbie, we are in a very open relationship, and have been together for one year and 9 months. I like floggers, rope, wax, needles, spankings, various forms of sensual stimulation (licking, biting, tickling, scratching), and I'm sure lots of things I haven't inflicted on my poor little girl yet!

Can't think of anything else, so Peace!

[erotic_nibbles]

<---peeking in very cautiously

Hi to everyone

This is my first time here, and first time posting....I'm female...28....submissive (for the right type of man).... and very curious about this site and the people here

I've read the Code of Conduct and a few of the threads regarding such and frankly I'm a bit intimated by all the rules that seem to apply here on what you can and cannot post....but I'll see how it goes

I'm also a bit confused about whether or not I should even start a new thread....so if I was supposed to add on to that other post for new people..sorry....I wasn't sure so I did my own

[Mobius]

First of all Welcome aboard. The rules are mostly common sence. They basicaly mean be nice to others.

Yes there is a thread for new members and I am sure the moderators will move this post to that location for you.
It is located here http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...&page=15&pp=40.

any way glad to have you here and look forward to hearing from you.

[Lord Douche]

It's okay nibbles, you'll get your spanking soon enough for posting in the wrong area
Welcome to the forum! The CoC shouldn't bother you as long as you post responsibly, so don't worry about it.

Thread Merged with New Members
LD

[erotic_nibbles]

Thank you for the welcomes ...and thank you to whomever moved my post for me

~~Nibbles~~

[Lord Douche]

Thank you for the welcomes ...and thank you to whomever moved my post for me

~~Nibbles~~

My pleasure, Nibbles
LD

[erotic_nibbles]

My pleasure, Nibbles
LD

Oh did you move my post for me Lord Douche?.....I sent a request to BDSM_Tourguide asking if he would be so kind as to move it...so I thought it was him, but wasn't for sure.....soooooooo thank you Lord Douche

After I read Mobius' reply and then this thread (which took me like 2 1/2 hours by the way )....I realized I had indeed posted in the wrong place...sheesh...not here but like 10 minutes and already in trouble!

~~Nibbles~~

P.S. Welcome to all other newbies such as myself