Some of mine I could keep this up for a long time

[berry]

I hardly ever post, but I do always look at your thread. Thanks for keeping up with it!

[himind]

I can see you 've got a flurry of messages as soon as you threatened to stop posting.Do you need any more reason?

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

Thanks to all of you special thanks to echoes and sbbe for their words each time I am down. berry aren't you that goregous young sub that was posting shots of herself that made drool all over myself? You earned the right to just look and may I say thank you for the pictures.

Any ways here are today's photos

Russell

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

Why is it that so many subs think that they can tell a Dom what to do in the regular part of the relationship and get upset when the Dom does what he feels is right?

Russell

[Guest 91108]

ah.. I'm having subbie problems of my own right now Sir_Russel, I can definitely understand your comment.

[submissive sugar]

*smiles* Because Sir Russel not ONLY are we subbies ... some of us are wives, mommies, career women, daughters, sisters, ect ... sometimes we just need a little reminding of what hat we wear with our signifigant other.

I LOVE this pic. http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/at...1&d=1172190509

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

Wolfscout me too and worse is she is now 2,000 miles away. Hard to take a crop to her, which I think is what she really wants.

submissive sugar reminding her what hat she wears can be a lot of fun inperson but when seperated and she is feeling sad because I am not with her she acts out in ways that she would never do in person

Russell

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

I think it is funny how I still feel the chain of a Master's responsibility for his former slaves doesn't lessen for, me atleast, due to miles or time. Oh well, I guess that is just a minnie rant or a lesson not sure which.

Since no one is willing to ask for a theme you all are stuck with those I select.

A favorite pastime of mine is clips, pegs and clamps so it is today's theme.

Russell

[StillBehindBlueEyes]

Sir Russell
Thanks for the pictures and thanks for the theme. Clothes pins are just the coolest sex toy. I wonder if they too are against the law in Alabama?
Sbbe

[fantazmaster]

Don't leave out Georgia,Mississippi and Texas ,as these states as well as Alabama have similar "sex toy" laws! Colorado, Kansas and Louisiana all had similar laws that were not upheld in one court or another and were struck down.
http://www.newsvine.com/_news/2006/1...s-sex-toy-case

Sir Russell
Thanks for the pictures and thanks for the theme. Clothes pins are just the coolest sex toy. I wonder if they too are against the law in Alabama?
Sbbe

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

Leave it to sbbe to start a quiet rant on state law.

Russell

[Ozme52]

Today's Post

Why is it that so many subs think that they can tell a Dom what to do in the regular part of the relationship and get upset when the Dom does what he feels is right?

Russell

Because, no matter how well trained, people want to know their opinions have been considered. Do you act/appear to have listened and considered their opinions? Do you explain why you went with the choice you made? That may be all that's required...

But if you proceed, "appearing" to not have considered their input... well, that's the road to discontent... regardless of whether you're dealing with 'nillas, doms, and even subs.

[anectdote]

I once had an employee come in to tell me their idea. He had no sooner gotten about 7 words out of his mouth that I realized he was absolutely right. (Intuitive leaps are one of my fortes.) So I told him "You're absolutely right. Go do it that way."

He got really upset. I asked if realized I was agreeing with him and yes he did... but more important than that... he had just wanted to tell me his idea and have me listen. It was the telling and interaction and for some reason my listening that was important... regardless of whether or not I had agreed.

I learned a big lesson about human nature... after all, that's what I expect of others when I have something to say. So I have since always had very happy staffs... because I listen, consider, and then do what I want to do anyway.

[/anectdote]

[Sir_Russell]

Ozme52

I agree and I listen better then most, part of my professional training as a problem solver requires it, but mine probably formerly mine hears what she wants to hear and then what she wanted to hear becomes fact. Leaving me with the choice of punishment or release. This has been an ongoing issue with her so release may be the only way out and save my sanity.

I listen to her know her as well as anyone has ever known her according to her, but her trust issues may just be too much for my love and desire to overcome. She doesn't realize that each time she goes off on one of these tangents based on a misunderstanding that when I explain things to her that her rejection of it is an affront to me and all I hold dear. My honor, her respect of me/us and her pride in me.

A year of training and explanations haven't really changed the way she responds when stressed. I wish it was different

Russell

[Ozme52]

Some truly are not suited to being submissive... regardless of their stated desires. Ususally, in those cases, the one they deceive the most is themself.

Good luck to you Russell.

Oz

[Guest 91108]

Sir Russel... i had a very similiar problem twice in the last three years with " friends " .
Sometimes the answer is that 'release' for your own sanity as you put it.
otherwise you'll be no use to the other person down the road. Or you could become resentful. I did that with one.

[StillBehindBlueEyes]

Sir Russell
It's hard when you have to make these big decisions. I hope it all works of for the right.
Smiles about the quiet rant. I went on and saw how many states have this silly law. I am so aggrivated, you'd think people would have better things to do with their time.
Sbbe

[Sir_Russell]

Your rants are almost as nice as your legs sbbe.

I agree it is sad that in today's world that this country is marching backwards in allowing people to live their own lives their own way as long as it doesn't affect the public in general.

Russell

Some extra pictures in honor of sbbe legs

[Guest 91108]

...
I agree it is sad that in today's world that this country is marching backwards in allowing people to live their own lives their own way as long as it doesn't affect the public in general.
...

There is no doubt in my mind that the people have lost rights and freedoms during the last 40+ years.
Most of them are too uneducated to notice it.

[fantazmaster]

I agree with your point Wolfscout,The sad thing to me is all the time wasted in passing a bill through a state assembly or legislature,then once signed into law the tax money wasted on defending such a law in the various courts in the states concerned.I have no doubt that the sponsors of such bills as this sex toy law,upon passage ,use this passage as a reelection feather in their cap in their home district ,appealing to the conservative element in such a district.Meanwhile that state's far larger problems often go largely unsolved as little of substance gets through the legislature .Ok so the prisons are overcrowded and schools are crumbling from disrepair,but no matter our town is safe from sex toys!

There is no doubt in my mind that the people have lost rights and freedoms during the last 40+ years.
Most of them are too uneducated to notice it.

[Warbaby1943]

Sir_Russell I love the pictures of the Oriental girls. It amazes me because I used to have every on that I have seen you publish and then I decided to get rid of them before anyone in my home found them. I must have had at least 1800 of them that I destroyed. There is one I wonder if you have and it shows an Oriental lady all bound with a very large and heavy rock laying on top of her tied and crossed legs while her head is tied in a bent over position to the stone.

[Sir_G]

There is no doubt in my mind that the people have lost rights and freedoms during the last 40+ years.
Most of them are too uneducated to notice it.

Ummm have you guys read the patriot act. Now that is one scary peice of legislation. It says you will give up you constitutional rights to allow the governmant to protect you from "terrorism".

They're doing it to us here in Australia and the sad thing is we don't have your constitution (to protect us) and the precious freedoms that your founding fathers granted each citizen as a matter of birthright or being an American citizen.

This is just my point of view and not meant to be an attack. I feel it here and I know you will eventually if not already.

Respectfully
G

[Sir_Russell]

fantazmaster, Warbaby1943 and Sir_G

Your all right. The patriot act was one of the worst thing ever done to this country. That at the time no one seemed to blow whistle or scream bloody murder just goes to show why we are in such decline here. They have ruined our school so that we would have more controlable people, then they brainwashed us through tv and our vaulted news reporters didn't do their jobs.
Now we are in a mess that will take decades to get out of.

I am proud of what my country stands for but I am not proud of how we have behaved.

Warbaby I have a ton of asian photos if I find that one I will post it.

Russell

[polarbear9889]

Today's Post

Sometimes I wonder if anyone beside a very few are actually interested in this thread. At least enough to say hello. Right now about 130 people a day visit and about 7 comment.

Russell

Sir Russell, for sharing so many interesting pix and your histories. i've only been away for 2 weeks and come back to find so many new pix. Lovely!!!
Your hard work is deeply appreciated. Please (pretty please) don't stop. :-)

Patriot act? i completely agree with you all. that's why CNN is no longer my choice... how does one brainwash American citizens about the terrorists? how about broadcasting what other citizens feel about the things done by the US government to their countries?
it's sad, really!

Without disrespecting you all, i would like to go back to fun topics and looking at mmmm pix.

~polarbear

[StillBehindBlueEyes]

Love the pictures. So agree with the words.
Here's a link to the Fishnet stockings you asked for.
Giggle,
Sbbe

[Sir_Russell]

Very Very nice sbbe. I think we will all agree to that.

Russell

[orchid]

wow!
after a recent reformat, i have finally had the time and the extreme pleasure of revisiting this thread from the beginning. Sir Russell, your photos and your histories are simply amazing.
thank you again for sharing both
respectfully,
orchid

[himind]

Ozme52

I agree and I listen better then most, part of my professional training as a problem solver requires it, but mine probably formerly mine hears what she wants to hear and then what she wanted to hear becomes fact. Leaving me with the choice of punishment or release. This has been an ongoing issue with her so release may be the only way out and save my sanity.

I listen to her know her as well as anyone has ever known her according to her, but her trust issues may just be too much for my love and desire to overcome. She doesn't realize that each time she goes off on one of these tangents based on a misunderstanding that when I explain things to her that her rejection of it is an affront to me and all I hold dear. My honor, her respect of me/us and her pride in me.

A year of training and explanations haven't really changed the way she responds when stressed. I wish it was different

Russell

I think even good subs at times feel overwhelmed by the enormity of their submissiveness.Maybe when other stresses are too high,they tend to take it out on the one relationshp that is most dear to them,and that seems to the dom as insubordination...of course it's true that some are just deceiving themselves but hard to say what's what in such cases.I prefer to withdraw a little,and see what develops. A true sub always come back all the more penitent and you can punish her/him as you see fit...

[Havensov]

I agree with himind on this. If the sub is having allot of outside pressures that are affecting his/her behavior in the D/s relationship. Letting them lose to blow off steam, not reacting to these action, and to a point ignoring them until the realize what they have done and come crawling back. Then deal with it rationally as a Dom.

just my 2 cents.

[Sir_Russell]

Today's Post

Yes, it worked and I hope it will stick, I do love her a lot.

Funny she assumes that I have subs falling all over me here. I guess I could but I don't want them I want morgan. Everyone keep their fingers crossed till I can finsih mom's affairs here and move to Colorado.

Russell

[himind]

You asked for some themes.How about a wedding one?