No drum roll, please. I'm new and still finding my way..

[crikey_2004]

Hello everyone, My name is Mike and I'm an amateur writer that has found his love in erotica, (specifically writing BDSM stories), despite typing with just my favorite two fingers. I live in the outback of Ohio and originally hail from New Zealand.

I'm not rich and famous (poor and unknown is a better description), but I'm well known locally because people seem to remember me in a good way after I've met them just once (man that sounds big-headed, but it's true, I promise!!). Maybe it's the accent?

I've been in the U.S. for seven years and am still not sure what I want to be when I grow up. I know I'm running out of time for that now, because I've just turned 39, but being a self-diagnosed adult A.D.D.'er, I'm going to wait for my body to catch up with my years before I make firm plans.

I believe I'm straight, but as a result of some of the things I've done in my past, pinning the 'straight' label on me just doesn't sit exactly right. I have no idea if I'm a Dom or not, because I like to please, but if pleasing someone means tying them up and spanking them, I'd volunteer in a heartbeat. I'm hoping someone will help me figure out exactly where I fit in, in the larger scheme of things, because it's really beginning to bug me. I'm married and have been since 2 weeks and 3 days after meeting my wife online, however there has to be a new phrase that describes our relationship because vanilla is way too spicy an adjective.

Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea some females in the U.S. actually read erotica without getting all angry at the author and not only that, they even have sex; sometimes before marriage, sometimes actually after, and sometime even, all by themselves! Can you imagine?? If I didn't set a schedule and force my wife to submit (in the dark with the lights off) to a trip around her body culminating between her legs once or twice a month, I'd have had hairy palms years ago. She's 20 years older than me and that's her excuse. She's sticking to it. Period! But you get the idea

Have a great day everyone and I look forward to hearing from someone who can relate to my issues!
Mike

[Rhabbi]

Hi and welcome to a new world Mike.

[cadence]

Hello again Mike, hope you are well.
Hope you enjoy the forums.

And welcome, ms_epp and maye

[Flaming_Redhead]

This place is full of useful information. I'm sure you'll find lots to help you find your way.

[TheDeSade]

Hello and Welcome!~

[gagged_Louise]

Hi and welcome, so nice to find a fellow writer. Hope you'll take the time to sneak out some of us depraved dwellers in this place too - this is as much a lifestyle community as it is a forum for bringing up technical questions within bdsm. I've met more nice and amazing people here than on any other s/m forum I've been to.

[cariad]

If you promise not to tell, it is not only in the US that there are females who "actually read erotica without getting all angry at the author and not only that, they even have sex; sometimes before marriage, sometimes actually after, and sometime even, all by themselves". Rumour has it that they are infiltrating not only each continent, but also each country. Me thinks there is a PhD waiting for someone there...

Welcome to forums Mike, and I hope you find at least a little of what you are looking for.

cariad

[slaveangel{HM}]

hello there Mike. Welcome to the Forums. I hope you do enjoy your time here and have lots of fun! Don't forget to drop by the chatroom too!

[crikey_2004]

Thanks for the welcome! You know, I secretly suspected as much cariad (Wonderful name! Does it have a specific meaning?). Not only are people here friendly and informative, but they can be so humorous as well... it's better than TV any day! The one problem I've got now is, "When is it a good time to get offline?" I guess I forgot to mention that I figured out I'm obsessive/compulsive too... but where are my manners...

Anyone for coffee? Really, coffee is great, it's fantastic! It's one of the wonders of the world! And you can never get enough of the stuff, so do drop in for a spot! Too many cups a day is not a good remedy for a hyperactive personality I guess, but what the heck!

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[Stone]

hello and welcome