Submissive/Slave Names

[Tiny45]

You really cannot go wrong with simply "pet".


During playtime, every vile, degrading phrase I can think of comes out. But then again, I probably lack maturity :P

Pet is a nice generic term of endearment which happens to have some D/s signifigance.


Lets see, I'll shit out a nice little acronym for it:

Painfully Extended Tenure? no, needs context
Pet Eats Tar? hrm, definately no.
People Earn This? actually, I like that a lot, being that it is a name and all. Would work well for a sub who enjoyed humiliation... "PEOPLE have names, dear pet. Maybe one day a little *insert derogatory term* like you can have one too!" mmm
Pussy Endures Training? Hrm, sounds forced and vulgar, but I do like it.
Pet Enduring Training... we have a winner! if anyone ever askes me what 'pet' means, after I beat them in the head with an obvious stick, this is the acronym I will give.... yes.

For me, its just a nice way to affirm position in the relationship.


Also, i've come to find out that the southern 'darlin' has possessive connotations to some people. I'm southern, I call the teller at the super market darling.... *shrug*

[BDSM_Tourguide]

My dad used to call me that when I was like three or four years old and it kind of just stuck. So, I am passing on the family tradition to my wife and, soon enough, my daughter.

Besides, it's kind of funny to call her that in front of her parents. Her dad especially gets a kick out of it.

[jazz]

OMG TG... Fartknocker!

i haven't heard that since i was a kid....You grow up in southern United States or was your Dad from Southern states? I did, and i thought that was term only used there...i have never heard it anywhere else.

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Born in Louisiana and lived most of my life in Louisiana and Texas. Not obvious or anything. LOL

[Cleo671]

Being bilingual can be a good thing when it comes down to 'names'. While English terms such as 'whore', 'slut' and 'cunt' do have an impact at the same time other words that I know in my own language go the extra mile, and these words pretty much mean the same thing as the above words, but the pronunciation and emphasis (in the way they are said) can make them very erotic indeed.

Example being in my language, a word (it might come across as 'weird' here), 'gamias' which means the 'person that penetrates the other person' in masculine.. so when the person with you is in the act of penetrating you (if your a woman or man say..) when they say 'who is your .?. ' in the language while they are 'engaged', it would directly translate to 'who is your 'fucker' ' but it's much more and becomes 'lost' in the translation.

And I have an itty bitty problem with this, because I find that in my language I will get 'turned' on or mentally aroused much quicker (or find it more stimulating) whereas in English, there is the limitation to 'whore' , 'slut', 'bitch'.. etc.

something I'm working on constantly..

[Finding_Fantasy]

I have always had a facination with other languages (sadly I know only English and sometimes I even have troubles with that!! lol) but I have always been intigued by Ancient Egypt. At one time I went by a hadle called netchit ma Ra. I can't rememeber exactly what it meant for it was several eyars ago but netchit did have to do with slavery/ owner ship.

[Cleo671]

Ra, is the only thing I remember back from doing Ancient history in high school, denoting the 'sun' or sun god.

this link might help, but there are so many hieroglyphs!


http://www.fnspo.cz/mmm/egypt/hiero/7.htm

[Finding_Fantasy]

Thanls, Cleo. Actually the place I got the name from was a book filled with hyroglyphics with the translation below. Ma I believe means with. Ra I knew about. I actually have the eye of Ra tattooed on my wrist.

Unfortunately when I tried the link, it did not work.

[Cleo671]

http://www.fnspo.cz/mmm/egypt/hiero/1.htm

sorry about that, this one I found still on my pc history, but I had to type it all in for it to come up.

Hopefully it works.

[Finding_Fantasy]

Yeah that one works. Thanks Cleo. I will have to take a look at it when I have a little more time.

TG and I were talking about it the other nigth and He says he believes it means something like servant/slave belonging with Master(Ra)

[pussy_cat]

My Master calls me "soldier" or "commie" (great for "interrogations"). He likes it when i wear camo and combat boots. He also uses sweetheart and pussy. i'm glad i have a Master that accepts my militant side.

i guess the best way to come up with an original name is to celebrate your sub's uniqueness rather than trying to mold them into a cliche. Still, sometimes its hard to come up with something completely original.

[Learn Humility]

I chose a name for mine which embodied her foremost characteristic:

cock lover victoria

[jaeangel]

Oh right... Let's not forget the most original, or at least at the time, name I (or possibly someone I knew) came up with, to date: pookie. I still get a chuckle at that one.

Believe it or not, my Hubby calls me that! when he's feeling randy and wants me in bed, he'll call me 'Pookie'. And then I turn around and call him 'Babykins'. I just have to remember not to call him that around any other male, or his ego will get bruised.

[jaeangel]

Take a look at my username and guess what my girlfriend/life partner/sub (I love being PC, not) is named...

Right on, good one.

I came up with Beloved after alot of thought and after it had been brought to my attention that I hadn't come up with a name for her. We had been using the aforementioned "Angel" but that was her name as in, "I'm your Angel, Master" that she had come up with. Being that I was very new (and still am but learning all the time) I hadn't considered the "name" thing. So after alot of trying to figure out something fitting and not having much luck, I changed my tact. I asked myself, "What is she to me"?, answer is that she is Beloved or beloved if you prefer.

Whatever name you choose, I think at least, it should mean something to the giver and reflect the bearer of the name.

The Latin word for 'Beloved' is 'Amanda', which happens to be my r/l name (that does not give anyone the right to use it in public forums, however, please refrain from doing so.)
When I write a BDSm story (not that I've written many; most of them were written in my head and stay in my head) I tend to try and use exotic names. Any astronomer might recognize some of these:
Albali or just Bali: 'The Swallower'
Andromeda: 'the princess'
Adhara: 'the virgins'
Cassiopeia: 'the Queen'
Agena/Gena: 'the knee'
Mira: 'miracle' or 'the wonderful'
Columba/Colombe: 'the dove'
Gemma: 'the gem'
Arrakis/Arra: 'the dancer'
Cursa: 'footstool'
Lyra: 'harp'
Sorry. Just disconncted ramblings. But if you want a name for your sub, maybe try finding out what their own name means, and use that, or try a variation of that. It connects them to you, and yet still allows then to be themselves, in a way most people wouldn't recognize outside of the relationship.

[duktig flicka]

Sweden never had any concept of sex or sexuality being bad, so there's no "bad words" associated with sexuality, such as fuck, whore, slut etc. The worst swear word in Swedish is "jävlar," meaning "devils.". Sweden has very, very recently acquired "hora" taken directly from the English word "whore," but that's as far as it goes and it's very rarely used.

That's why we always play in English. "Kneel at my feet, you little devil," for some reason, just doesn't turn me on. Imagine that.

[kittenfemme]

*giggle* Oh, I don't know. I think being called my Mistress' little devil could be fun. It has a sort of cute, sassy, sexy appeal.

And I love your avatar duktig flicka! Too funny.

[duktig flicka]

Maybe once in a while, but when that's the worst name you've got, it will get a bit old. And thankies!

[punksub]

I have noticed, while lurking about online, that many dominants tend to name their submissives/slaves one of the following names:

From a subs point of view, I think that there are often repeated names (this referring to vulgar, or demeaning names, not pet names) because there are not very many names to be degrading, and if the dom/domme and/or sub enjoy to call or be called degrading or humiliating names then the word bank is not very large. I do think however that pet names have a much wider variety. Angel is used quite often but for all the repetive one i think there is about an equal number of unique ones. My mistress, has quite a few names for me. The degrading one is slut which is used a lot. But her pet names for me are shmoopy or pookie. i dont know for sure...but i do not think those pet names are extremely common.

[kittenfemme]

shmoopy! LOL! That's far too cute. I hear pookie often enough, especially from Dominants who are puppy training their submissives, but not shmoopy. I love it.

[Mobius]

Maybe we can expand this thread by discusing vanila names that sound submissive.

Like:

Tina
Tifiny
Brook
Shelly
Sherry
Sally
and of course
Holly

What would a Dom fem name be?

[Curtis]

Natasha, Alexandra, Catherine (Katrina would be more sub). Hell, maybe even Magda. Generally speaking, polysyllabic names sound "stronger" in a woman and so do Slavic names.

[Sunshine]

OK, well my name here has been rubished in the first instance - Sunshine. To be absolutely honest the name comes the from Morcambe ane Wise song which is very British.

[coy]

a new way to look at people when you hear their names.... this has certainly made me think over names and compare to personalities.... oddly enough they kind of follow each other... at least with the folks I know.

My name is Cecilia... I prefer cc .... NEVER thought about that any further until this evening. weird.

[Chuckdom19]

(snip)
But her pet names for me are shmoopy or pookie. i dont know for sure...but i do not think those pet names are extremely common.

Pookie is the name of Garfield's teddy bear (in the newspaper comics).
There's a cat in the comic strip "Mutts" who occasionally changes words by adding 'shm' to the beginnings of them.

[jaeangel]

My hubby calls me Pookie, and he loves cuddling. I guess I should change my avatar to Garfield's teddy bear!

I call him 'Babykins'. His 'second head' is Mr. Happy.
Does anyone have pet names for certain body parts?

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Does anyone have pet names for certain body parts?

That's a different thread, sweetie. If you really want to know, then you need to start another thread for that question.

[Chuckdom19]

My hubby calls me Pookie, and he loves cuddling. I guess I should change my avatar to Garfield's teddy bear!

I call him 'Babykins'. His 'second head' is Mr. Happy.
Does anyone have pet names for certain body parts?

Most often, when talking about others' poor behavior, we talk about thinking with the wrong head.

My youngest (22) somehow has named her fanny "Abe". God alone knows why.

[Kelli]

I've recently taken on a new sub, and my creative juices just aren't flowing today (others are in abundance Right now her name is pet, any other ideas?

[Chuckdom19]

I've recently taken on a new sub, and my creative juices just aren't flowing today (others are in abundance Right now her name is pet, any other ideas?

How about "precious"?

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I've recently taken on a new sub, and my creative juices just aren't flowing today (others are in abundance Right now her name is pet, any other ideas?

Be creative... or vulgar. Whichever works for you.

I always recommend names like "juicy cunt" and "blonde bitch" (if her hair color is blonde, but any descriptive, not commonly used nomer would probably work well.