So long but not Goodbye

[Psynymph]

caged- what threats of physical violence do you speak of?

[orchid]

cariad,
i think you are doing a great job of dealing with a touchy subject
i am pleased that this thread has been left open, as obviously, there are many things that people feel need to be said.
i just hope that it all works out in the end.

[Widget]

If there is any threats please message an admin right away, we need to know. All I meant by closing the thread for a time was exactly that. Not deleting or stopping everyone from speaking but giving a time out to it. I may not have put it as well as I could have but I think Cariad has summed it up in her follow up posts. I see that things are being much better in terms of manner since then and I am not in any way as I said earlier against people talking about how they feel, only the thread slipping into an arugument about who did what. I think we can all agree thats not helpful.

Again however if there is threats we need to know and please PM one of us.

[caged]

If there is any threats please message an admin right away, we need to know.

Again however if there is threats we need to know and please PM one of us.

My mention of threats seems to have caused confusion, let me clarify. I was referrring to Delia's reference to 'threats to my physical safety' on an early page of this thread.

[Rabbit1]

once again I will say this ---Chat and the forum just share a server ---they are run by different Admin and mods ----their rules are not the same as our rules because it is a different type of site ----if you have a beef with Chat then you need to contact AC who is the admin in chat---or Tiger who owns both the chat and the forums -----if you have a beef with the forum and how it is run then you need to contact me or one of the Admin here or Tiger

This is not the place to air out your problems with chat ---most people could care less what goes on there ---if you do not like the chat site do not go there----

Post like this serve no real purpose here ---other than a bitch and complain and usually stirs up others ----then someone starts flaming ---and member end up banned ----so I am closing this thread ---and I do not want to see any more like it ---like I said you have a complaint about chat ---contact AC or Tiger ---you can contact Tiger at webmaster@bdsmlibrary.com