Cr - Love It Or Hate It?

[Aussiegirl1]

Warbaby and I are looking at doing some CR soon, and I am interested in how others feel about CR.

I have to admit I was supposed to start a period of CR at the end of last week, but due to a number of different factors it didn't happen. One of those factors was me becoming very emotional about the prospect of CR. Since then Warbaby and I have had lots of chats and I am feeling a lot better about attempting CR in the future.

So, what are you thoughts on CR? Is it something you love, dread, endure or maybe even look forward to? Do you know when it might happen or how long it will go on for, or is that simply left up to your Dom/me to decide? Has anyone else gone to pieces at the mere thought of CR? What do you think the sub and or the Dom gets out of the experience of CR?


Looking forward to finding out more!

Aussiegirl

[jeanne]

We haven't tried it, but the concept is interesting to me. Being pretty selfish and very much expecting plentiful orgasms, CR would be quite a challenge and would probably be good for me.

[Aussiegirl1]

We haven't tried it, but the concept is interesting to me. Being pretty selfish and very much expecting plentiful orgasms, CR would be quite a challenge and would probably be good for me.

Oh I do know what you mean!!

We have just discovered last week that I am able to cum on demand, so I have been getting LOTS of orgasms lately! I think that was part of my emotional state when the CR was first suggested, that I just didn't want to not be able to cum when I had gotten so spoilt! LOL It is also why being able to achieve a number of days CR would be make both me and my Master very proud.

[^firefly^]

For me, honestly, it depends.

If it's given as "don't touch, don't play, no nothing until I say so"...then I tend to have a hard time with it. (Of course lately, being busy, it hasn't been an issue!)

On the other hand, if it's accompanied by lots of teasing/play/support...then its much more of a challenge, and as such, more appealing to me. There's nothing that pushes my buttons like a "seemingly impossible" challenge.

So I suppose a lot of it is *His* attitude towards the CR, in my opinion. If it's a challenge, count me in. If it just something to do (because I've seen so many people treat it as routine)...then I'd just rather not. It needs to *mean something*, to me.

Just my 3 cents anyway (because I rambled...), so feel free to ignore it.

Aussiegirl, good luck! *winks* And have fun, too!

[angelic.zest]

please excuse my igorance, but what is CR?...*sits and wait for her answer*

[Rhabbi]

please excuse my igorance, but what is CR?...*sits and wait for her answer*

Cum Restriction

I tend to look on Cum Restriction as a challenge, though i occasionally use it as a training tool. I enjoy the challenge in bringing a sub to the edge and keeping her there.

[tessa]

I believe this is about "cum restriction". Not 100% sure, mind you.

Good luck, Aussiegirl, if that is what it is.

~goes off to hide this thread from my Devil~

[vistana]

CR = cum restriction

I love to hate it. Or hate that I love it... one of the two.
It's a frustrating knot, that being told I'm not allowed to cum makes me even hornier.

on the short term it's great. Wonderfully frustrating. More than a couple days and the adverse symptoms start getting to me. I don't sleep well, I'm irritable, and when I finally do get my orgasm it's not as satisfying as I think it should be.

I'm currently on the last day of a 3 day deprivation stint, punishment for some perfectly innocent teasing , and 3 days is about as long as I'm willing to push it right now, without it actually interfering with my social & work life. I'm very irritable without my orgasms.

[Aussiegirl1]

Thank you for the wonderful, thoughtful comments so far! I am pleased that CR does evoke different reactions in different people! I have a feeling I might be a bit of a three day girl, but I guess time will tell!

Sorry I didn't explain CR better. I too had no idea what it was just a short year ago. I am referring to Cum Restriction.

[dynamicbuttler]

what is cr

[gagged_Louise]

It's when you don't do what's very close to happening in your avatar

"Don't do the crime if you can't do the time..."

-Sammy Davis Jr, Baretta's Theme

[Guest 91108]

Cum Restriction the demand or to be tasked ordered to not cum until a set date or event happens. Can be used for punishment , can be training aid...
depends on the people using it.

I've not found it to my liking. I tend to do Orgasm Overload before i'd consider CR.
much more satisfying personally to have worn someone out.

[angelic.zest]

Cum Restriction

I tend to look on Cum Restriction as a challenge, though i occasionally use it as a training tool. I enjoy the challenge in bringing a sub to the edge and keeping her there.

Thanks *smiles* and Thanks everyone for eplaining it

[Warbaby1943]

When Aussiegirl said she got emotional she wasn't kidding. It made me wonder should we do it even though she really wants to experience it. I guess I have to be the bad guy. WEG But I think I can handle the heat.

Now the only thing I seem to need to decide is how long. For the record it is a challenge for her and not a punishment. I know she will meet the challenge once she gets it in her head that she can. She has met every challenge so far including as, she said, cumming on demand with only a single word said. Marvelous.

I've only seen a 3 day CR mentioned. Are there other suggestions on length of a good CR?

[tessa]

Are there other suggestions on length of a good CR?

This is as mysterious to me as those panties I keep hearing about.

You go, Aussiegirl! What a woman! ~hugs~

Hey, Warbaby? "Bad Guy" looks good on you.

[cadence]

I am not an expert on CR, but I am with vistana, three days is long enough.
I have gone for six days, and while wearing a crotch rope(a crotch rope keeps me in a constant state of arousal). That in itself for me was quite an accomplishment. It was a punishment and I did get into a proper mindset for it, but would never want to do it again.

I would start off with three days, but that is my own biased opinion, you can eventually work on longer time periods, depending on how long a person can go without being completely frustrated by it.

And damn I wish I could learn how to cum on demand with just one word, I find that to be really difficult to manage.

[nk_lion]

I always found cr quite erotic.
But cum on demand, I never knew that was even possible, how on earth does anyone ever train for that?

[Hime]

Personally, I've always found Coffee Restriction to be far beyond the boundaries of civilized human behavior, let alone SSC...


oh wait, never mind.

[~hellish one~]

ah...CR...~smiles~ just over 2 weeks for me now...

[Aussiegirl1]

Thank guys, I am loving all of your replies!

NK 8950 - It really was by chance I found out I could cum on demand, although for the past few months I have only be allowed to cum when I heard the word NOW. I was telling Warbaby about a girl who could come when her Dom counted down from 5 to 1, and we thought we might try it! We were both very surprised when it worked for us too! LOL

candence - I don't even want to think of CR and a crotch rope in the same breath, let alone surviving both for 6 days! That certainly was an accomplishment and one I am not surprised you don't want to repeat!

hellish - 2 weeks!! Oh my, I would be chewing off my hand by then! Good for you!

and I love the idea of CR being coffee restriction Hime. As I am more of a tea drinker, that would far easier than the other CR for me! LOL

[Aussiegirl1]

When Aussiegirl said she got emotional she wasn't kidding. It made me wonder should we do it even though she really wants to experience it. I guess I have to be the bad guy. WEG But I think I can handle the heat.

Now the only thing I seem to need to decide is how long. For the record it is a challenge for her and not a punishment. I know she will meet the challenge once she gets it in her head that she can. She has met every challenge so far including as, she said, cumming on demand with only a single word said. Marvelous.

I've only seen a 3 day CR mentioned. Are there other suggestions on length of a good CR?

Baby, It seems to me that 3 days is the common length of time, don't you think!

Thank you for your praise and encourage, I know with your help I can achieve anything!

[Warbaby1943]

Baby, It seems to me that 3 days is the common length of time, don't you think!

Thank you for your praise and encourage, I know with your help I can achieve anything!

Three days, huh? I'm thinking. WEG

You also forgot to mention that you no longer even need the count down to cum. It was a long training period but it was a whole lot of fun all along the way, wasn't it?

[Aussiegirl1]

Three days, huh? I'm thinking. WEG

You also forgot to mention that you no longer even need the count down to cum. It was a long training period but it was a whole lot of fun all along the way, wasn't it?

I am glad you are thinking Master, as you know I do trust you to do what is right for me.

No, I don't need the countdown. I think all our previous training with not cumming until I heard our word, meant I was able to cum on demand without any further training! Mind you, now you now I can do it............... boy have I been cumming a lot!

[Warbaby1943]

I am glad you are thinking Master, as you know I do trust you to do what is right for me.

No, I don't need the countdown. I think all our previous training with not cumming until I heard our word, meant I was able to cum on demand without any further training! Mind you, now you now I can do it............... boy have I been cumming a lot!

We can't mention how often they would never believe it anyway. I know you blew my mind.

[wingsofanangel]

I love it.

I love the challenge.. I was devestated and scared at first... but then i loved it... some days i could not even touch.. other days i was forced to bring myself to the brink several times.

The longest Ocean and I did it was for about 3 or 4 weeks... it felt like hell.. but it was amazzzzzzzzzzzing when i finally got it.... and i felt i learned a lot from it.

While I enjoy cuming, I know enjoying having my Dom or man cum just as much... having them cum is my focus.. then me... which for me.. is most important (pleasing them)

Anya

[nightsilver]

Well, I was another person who didn't know what CR was until reading this thread. Is there really any difference between CR and orgasm denial or is it just two different names for the same thing?

As a side note, back in high school I decided to see how long I could resist masturbating and orgasming to see how well I could resist my own urges. Of course I didn't have anyone specifically trying to arouse me, but I was a 16 year old boy and seeing low cut blouses and short skirts was a lot of temptation back then. I managed six days. The seventh day was a Monday and seeing my female class mates after the weekend just did me in.

[Aussiegirl1]

Well, I was another person who didn't know what CR was until reading this thread. Is there really any difference between CR and orgasm denial or is it just two different names for the same thing?

As a side note, back in high school I decided to see how long I could resist masturbating and orgasming to see how well I could resist my own urges. Of course I didn't have anyone specifically trying to arouse me, but I was a 16 year old boy and seeing low cut blouses and short skirts was a lot of temptation back then. I managed six days. The seventh day was a Monday and seeing my female class mates after the weekend just did me in.

I am not sure myself if there is any great difference between CR and orgasm denial. I would be interested to find out if there is a difference.

Thanks for sharing your experience, though you may not have been doing it for anyone but yourself, it was still an impressive achievement --- especially for a 16 year old!

[MajesticFae]

As a side note, back in high school I decided to see how long I could resist masturbating and orgasming to see how well I could resist my own urges. Of course I didn't have anyone specifically trying to arouse me, but I was a 16 year old boy and seeing low cut blouses and short skirts was a lot of temptation back then. I managed six days. The seventh day was a Monday and seeing my female class mates after the weekend just did me in.

One of my best friends during high school decided to try the same thing. I'm not sure if he's a liar, but I don't think he is. He claims he didn't masturbate for 40 days. Tough kid if he's telling the truth.

I don't think there is any difference between CR and Orgasm Denial. They sound like the same thing to me. I've only ever heard this action referred to as Orgasm Denial... I had completely forgotten about the term "Cum Restriction!" Well, I suppose we increase our vocabulary every day, now don't we.

[Selash]

I have heard of CR, but I have never really practiced it. It does sound interesting from the Dom side of me.

[nightsilver]

One of my best friends during high school decided to try the same thing. I'm not sure if he's a liar, but I don't think he is. He claims he didn't masturbate for 40 days. Tough kid if he's telling the truth.

I don't think there is any difference between CR and Orgasm Denial. They sound like the same thing to me. I've only ever heard this action referred to as Orgasm Denial... I had completely forgotten about the term "Cum Restriction!" Well, I suppose we increase our vocabulary every day, now don't we.

40 days, eek! Any chance you know why he finally gave in?

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Aussiegirl1, thanks. Hopefully you two will have fun when you try it out.