So, this is me!

[hispleasure]

Hellow, I am new to the board...I've been here just a few weeks now. I've met some of you in Chat and have spent quite a bit of time reading on the message boards. This is such an accepting and inviting sight!

I am a submissive, always have been, but only in the past year have I explored it in a sexual context. It was always there, but I was afraid of it really, and didn't quite know how to place it in my life. My fantasies had always fostered around BDSM but still it scared me and I felt rather embarrased to want such things.

Then I settled into a happily married traditional wife role and was quite happy for many years. Then about 2 years ago, I felt the need to reaquant myself with "me"...not as a wife or mother or nurse, but as simply myself. So my journey here started a few years ago...as I started my self rediscovery, I became quite honest with myself about what I wanted physically, emotionally, sexually...I didn't want to be just the cookie cutout that I had become. Thru lots of tears and many emotional lows, my husband and I opened our relationship. This has been the most adventurious challenge I have ever taken on...but the end results are worth it.

One of the things that I finally accepted was desires for BDSM scene...and accepting it as part of me and now I don't think I could ever look back! I have an amazing husband whom I share so much with...but BDSM is not part of he and I. And right now, I don't want that with him...I suspect I never will. I do have My Sir. He has been part of my life for over a year now...he is married, much more experienced in this lifestyle and has been an amazing and wonderful teacher and master. I do have so much to learn. Even better though, He is my friend, whom I respect, admire and trust. He is my safe place

So there you have it...Wife to an amazing husband, mother of 3, collared submissive to My Sir, RN, soccer/hockey/cheering mom, Brownie leader. So there is me..feeling amazingly lucky to have the things that I have in my life!

Please say hi!

His pleasure

[Rhabbi]

Hello and to the forums hipleasure.

[nk_lion]

Hey and welcome.

Please do share more of your journey with us

[Pertez]

Welcome

[isabeau6]

hey fantastic intro...i'm in the same situation as yourself..about two years ago i discovered this lifestyle and knew deep down inside it was for me..i'm also married, my husband knows about the lifestyle in a way, he has the misconception that most outsiders have..whips, chains, bossing around..and perverts to the max...lol....and he won't ever be any different..i also have my Sir...Rabbit1...and although many will say i was collared too soon, we feel as if we have known each other forever..sometimes it works that way where there is this instant connection..and that happened with us..i was pming him about something technical, and we cliqued..and spent all this last weekend talking..well i digress as usual...i tend to babble lol...anyway good luck.. welcome to the forum...and all that lol..have fun here...love your avatar..

[tessa]

How wonderful to meet you. And what a brilliant introduction.

My most sincere welcome!

tessa

[John56{vg}]

Welcome hispleasure and a wonderful introduction. I hope you enjoy your time in the forums and welcome to the family.


John

[jeanne]

Hello and welcome! I hope you enjoy your time here!

[Ozme52]

[lizeskimo]

Hi hispleaure and welcome. Thanks for such a great intro, almost brought a tear to my eyes. Nice avatar by the way.

[hispleasure]

hey fantastic intro...i'm in the same situation as yourself..about two years ago i discovered this lifestyle and knew deep down inside it was for me..i'm also married, my husband knows about the lifestyle in a way, he has the misconception that most outsiders have..whips, chains, bossing around..and perverts to the max...lol....and he won't ever be any different..i also have my Sir...Rabbit1...and although many will say i was collared too soon, we feel as if we have known each other forever..sometimes it works that way where there is this instant connection..and that happened with us..i was pming him about something technical, and we cliqued..and spent all this last weekend talking..well i digress as usual...i tend to babble lol...anyway good luck.. welcome to the forum...and all that lol..have fun here...love your avatar..

Isabeau,

I'd love the opportunity to chat with you, as our situations are so similar. I know for us its a challenge. I suspect that it is for you as well. Thanks so much for the greetings!

[hispleasure]

Thank you all for the warm welcomes and compliments as well. It is so nice to be here!

~~the avatar is from Windows xp~~I wish I could claim it as my own. I do so love water lilies!~~

~~Hispleasure

[isabeau6]

Isabeau,

I'd love the opportunity to chat with you, as our situations are so similar. I know for us its a challenge. I suspect that it is for you as well. Thanks so much for the greetings!

shoot me a pm anytime, hispleasure..i feel we are kindred spirits...

[gagged_Louise]

Great introduction, hispleasure. So pleased you've found your way around here!

[suchaminx]

~smiles~

Hello and welcome and echoing the others with 'great intro' Thanks for sharing and looking forward to getting to know you.

minxy

[M@ster{sg}]

well, it sure is nice to see our boards are still getting people interested. Thx for signing up and have fun

[Flaming_Redhead]