tired of the internet / casual scene

[InnerTemptress]

i guess this post is the reason i signed up ..

for the past 3 years i have been experimenting with D/s to certain degrees but all have been at the safe distance of online or telephone. i have met someone within the past 6 months that enjoys a bit of D/s in a live setting but not to the extent that i am finding i need.

what i'm looking for is your suggestions as those far more experienced then me, where to go in the toronto area that i might be able to observe and potentially meet people of my ilk.

a couple of things that are musts for me right now ..

1) this has to be a place that is safe for me to go alone
2) this must be a kink dress optional place (i'm not into dressing in public .. for now)
3) this must not be a "beautiful people only" place
and lastly,
4) this must be a place where i can observe without fear of criticism

for me this is a lifetime committment and i'm not in any hurry but i do feel that i am ready for the next step.

also, any thoughts, suggestions or guidance any Dom/mes have for unescorted subs, i would greatly appreciate it.

[BruceBoxer]

Unfiortunately I won't be of much help due to geography but I had to say your post was so sincere and to the point that a complement as to your organized mind was essential--I wish you bon chance mon amie and I'm sure the good folk in the Toronto area, that doll baby redEva comes to mind, will help you out very soon.

Originally posted by InnerTemptress
i guess this post is the reason i signed up ..

for the past 3 years i have been experimenting with D/s to certain degrees but all have been at the safe distance of online or telephone. i have met someone within the past 6 months that enjoys a bit of D/s in a live setting but not to the extent that i am finding i need.

what i'm looking for is your suggestions as those far more experienced then me, where to go in the toronto area that i might be able to observe and potentially meet people of my ilk.

a couple of things that are musts for me right now ..

1) this has to be a place that is safe for me to go alone
2) this must be a kink dress optional place (i'm not into dressing in public .. for now)
3) this must not be a "beautiful people only" place
and lastly,
4) this must be a place where i can observe without fear of criticism

for me this is a lifetime committment and i'm not in any hurry but i do feel that i am ready for the next step.

also, any thoughts, suggestions or guidance any Dom/mes have for unescorted subs, i would greatly appreciate it.

bon chance mon amie

[redEva]

thank you Sire Bruce for the compliments! and as far as the scene in TO is concerned, InnerTemptress - i know exactely what you mean and what you looking for! let me make a couple of telephone calls and i will PM you

[InnerTemptress]

Originally posted by BruceBoxer
[B]... I had to say your post was so sincere and to the point that a complement as to your organized mind was essential

thank you sir. i've always hoped that the collision of my logical mind, my need to please and my desire to be dominated would serve me well. it's humbling when someone else notices.

even though you aren't able to help from a geography viewpoint .. any thoughts you might have on a submissive going unescorted to a social event would be most helpful. mostly, i am looking at ensuring that i do not overstep any rules of decorum.

[InnerTemptress]

Originally posted by redEva
thank you Sire Bruce for the compliments! and as far as the scene in TO is concerned, InnerTemptress - i know exactely what you mean and what you looking for! let me make a couple of telephone calls and i will PM you

thank you in advance for your efforts. i will look forward to your private message and will be in touch after i read it.

innertemptress


OMG .. we are born on the exact same day