My Introduction

[thongslut]

I am new to this forum and to the bdsm lifestlye. im a 38 yr old slut who has finally found a master and mistress to lead me to new places. i look forward to sharing with you all

[Masters_petal]

i wanted to stop by and say hello to everyone. i am new to this forum, and have taken time to look around before actually posting. This place looks like a nice friendly place where friends are made.

i am a submissive female with a wondeful Master. i look forward to putting in my two cents, and having great discussions with all of you.

[d.k.dent]

...new to this
and quite curious / nervous about what it'll be like, very much like the people above (is "above" cc? ["cc" meaning "computerwise correct"]?, there being 64 pages on top / behind / somewhere deep down in whatever's memory?)
and what about me not being a native speaker of english?
but - to be true:
i've been spying around this place, i.e. reading stories, reading through the forums, looking at pictures (particularly keen on mobius's 'favourite pictures' thread), trying links offered ...
and I liked it
that's why I'm here

p.s.: I've not only been round threads promising pictures. I've also done some reading, and it was so good to find that there's a lot of no-nonsense and (more often than not) very caring people around (especially referring to "why I am who/what I am" threads). so: happy to be a "new member" and looking forward to it.

[sweetlitlwon]

Have been reading from this site for a long time and even contributed my own writing once. Found the more I delved into this the more I adored it. 27 female 5'5'" 128 lbs brown hair green eyes. My husband/Master enjoys my submissive side and we are trying to work it into our R/L relationship. I am extremely submissive.Have learned so much from this site and appreciate it greatly. Love to all........

[Djarumdoll]

I just stumbled across your site this past week or so, and amhappy to have joined up. It is always a pleasure to come across intelligent people and great conversations.

For the obligatory intro.....I am very soon turning 31, and have been in the lifestyle since roughly 18. I started out as a submissive, and as I grew up, I grew less and less submissive and more and more dominant, until I finally made the switch over a few years back. I like that I transitioned the way I did, because it is nice to have experienced both sides of the realm. I live in Vermont for the moment, but will be relocating back to the Phoenix area this summer. Where it will be much easier to meet like minded folks!

[sweetlitlwon]

Have been reading from this site for a long time and even contributed my own writing once. Found the more I delved into this the more I adored it. 27 female 5'5'" 128 lbs brown hair green eyes. My husband/Master enjoys my submissive side and we are trying to work it into our R/L relationship. I am extremely submissive.Have learned so much from this site and appreciate it greatly. Love to all........

I sort of forgot to mention a few things we live in a very very small town as in like one stop light where the majority of the population is very conservative/vanilla. Though there are a few whom I suspect may have something else going on behind closed doors. This lifestyle is probably unheard of by many of the people who live here. That being said it means that we have no opportunity to have contact with others involved in the lifestyle except via the internet. I am sure i have left other important points out but I may think of them later.

[Ranai]

Welcome

slavejoyb, Slave Speak, dominatrix, heartsdesire4one, thongslut, Masters_petal, d.k.dent, sweetlitlwon and Djarumdoll.

Have fun reading around. And whenever it pleases you just go ahead with your ideas, comments, questions, experiences. Reply to front threads, resurrect old threads, start your own...

This forum is for you and is what you make it. Enjoy.

[diva1968]

Hello All, I'm Diva - new to this site but not quite as new to the lifestyle . I have enjoyed reading some of the discussions in the forums, and learnt quite a bit about myself in doing so. I have read many threads which have encouraged me to expand my experience within the lifestyle - and hope I will find loads more! My Master finds this site an almost endless source of new ideas (tortures?) - for us both to enjoy! I am 36 and live in Windsor, England.

[submissive julie]

Hello A/all this girl is new to this world but she has been submissive for awhile now. Looking forward to submitting to a kind but stern Mistress who can seek out this girls limits. Thank you A/all from this sub girl julie

[d.k.dent]

i always think it's a thoughtful thing to do to mention what you've gained from the boards up to this point, and those comments mean a whole lot to us.

just after joining (two days ago) i found this thread and thought "we-ell, this seems the place to tell someone (whoever they may be) that you've joined", so i posted something along the lines of "hi, i'm here, no need to bother about me, just looking around, and i'm oh so insecure ..." (all of that quite contrary to my own gender/role-definition). i didn't even think of reading posts on previous pages, just being happy about having joined.
today i did start working my way backwards along the thread, and i found

• people who seemed to be a lot like me (or should that be 'myself'?)
• people who seem really interesting
• slavelucy's statement quoted above

so i'm now trying to be thoughtful:

i arrived at bdsmlibrary some late evening after having typed 'bdsm [+] stories' into google (they tell you to forget about '+' and the rest of the boole-stuff recently, because they figure they already know what you mean beforehand - which is mostly true, it seems), and i thought "wow!!! this looks like what would be named 'schlaraffenland' in german, so when does it say 'enter your credit card number here and you'll have access to x + sites of stuff you never asked for and whereon you'll never find what you're looking for but will have to pay for no matter what you hoped for in first place ...'?"
but - as everyone around here would know - this never happened (except for there being a 'members'-area, which i haven't quite understood yet).
so - after having read (at least parts of) quite a lot sories (most of which are - ahem!!! - too strong stuff for me [me having 'consensual' far up on my list of preferences]) - i started looking at the "forums" part, obviously called "the boards" hereabouts.

which finally brings me back to my starting point.

slavelucy, what i've gained from the boards is:
so much (self)confidence and interest in the people around that i decided to join

and i congratulate myself on having done so.

ps: how do i fit an avatar into my posts and one of them (mostly really witty quotes) regular bottom lines?
pps: ready to give any more information about myself as soon as required, but this post is long enough already, isn't it?

[velvettouch]

Having read stories in the library for quite some time, I finally found the forum today and began to explore. Since I am on a quest for (1) an answer to the question of how much submission I want to live in the real world, (2) master right and (3) delicious orgasms, self induced or not, I am sure that I can find join some interesting discussions here.

I live in Germany and have enjoyed online stories about sexual submission since I was about sixteen. I'll leave it to you to imagine what BDSM library meant for me during the last seven years - especially during some dry spells without a boyfriend.

In the flesh, I was a sexual submissive to a boyfriend shortly after I discovered my love for submission in stories, although we never used the terminology or talked about it in a very meaningful way. Still, I topped him from the bottom well enough to have my first orgasm during intercourse

Since then, I have been mostly alone save for a couple vanilla trysts (although I gave one or two of the guys quite a submissive show) and try to decide whether I want to partner up with somebody live. The idea always seemed crazy as soon as the tingling stopped, but somehow it doesn't go away - so here I am

[Chips]

Hi all! You can call me Charlie, or Chips. I am a typical 5'9" 160lbs mid-30s western guy living in Hong Kong. Now that you have a reasonable picture of me, I'll tell you what I'm really like.

The first fantasy of any kind that I can recall dates back to when I was about six years old, give or take a year. In the fantasy, I discover a pretty short-haired 19 year old brunette bound into a wooden or bamboo frame with a long pole penetrating her analy. She has been standing for a long time on on tiptoes and in a stress position and is grateful when I release her. I hide her under my bed till I am the same age as her.

Only recently have I really thought about the fantasy and its meaning. I was too young to understand about sex, female anatomy, or the aging process. For me it was all about relationship, trust, gratitude and affection borne of her helplessness and submission to my power.

I have been lucky to have had a few very good relationships, some more sexually liberal than others. I tried mild S/m with one girlfriend, but honestly, pain never was our thing. Privately, I enjoy a number of fetishes, such as sounding, electroplay, the heaven-sent aneros massager, and other stuff, but more for the physical pleasure than the excitement of kinkiness.

Since I started working, the wonderful world of commercial sex has opened up to me and I now get most of my sex that way. It is cleaner, safer and more economical than a normal relatinship in many ways, and it means that I get to call the shots from the moment I meet my partner.

Most of the girls are from mainland China. A lot are apprehensive, shy, bored and generally reluctant to sell themselves. A few are the opposite and enjoy the money and the chance to reverse gender roles and be promiscuous and dominant. Both of these kinds are fine by me and we have passably good sex. Then there are the gems.

One in several dozen is a real sparkler, a precious find. I am shown two or three to choose from, but she immediately stands out through her attitude. She is shy and vulnerable, but I can see from her smile that she likes me and welcomes my attention.

Through innumerable past mistakes, I have gotten better at controlling the encounter and subsequent relationship. I never kid myself that her motivation is mostly about money and that I represent a relatively palatable way of escaping whatever reason forced her to travel to Hong Kong. I no longer give out my contact details, and I am more careful about making financial or emotional promises that will later prove costly to keep.

In the old days, I used to overwhelm her emotionally, applying tenderness in the precise time and way that would penetrate her defenses. The emotional defences would shatter and crumble away, and I would get a massive kick out of her crying softly on my chest as we lay together, and then on every visit as the tears would start flowing the moment the doors opened. Eventually, however, I realised that these girls needed their hardened hearts more than my money, or my support. They were left depressed, angry and saw their dreams shattered when they had to return home.

These days, I am a lot more honest with myself and the girl and I try to give no committments at all. I also frequent establishments where the girls have Hong Kong residency rather than come in on tourist visas to work illegally as in the trade.

About a week ago, I was trying out a new place. I had asked for a girl that would do anal, because these type are more compliant and eager to please. Unfortunately, none were available and I had to make do with a selection of three of the house staff.

The moment I laid eyes on Ah Fa (Little Flower), I knew she was the girl for me. Her eyes were cast down at my chest, but they'd dart up to my eyes and I could see she was not only delighted and intrigued, but surprised at her own reaction.

I ushered her into the tiny room, which consisted of a wooden platform with a double matress and a dirty blue sheet and barely standing room next to it. A Japanese porn flic played in the corner; some 20 year old in a school uniform, masturbating herself with an vibrating egg. The TV was stood upon a plywood shelf with a basket of assorted condoms and cheap toilet rolls below it. A stand-up shower completed the standard brothel room.

I took her hands in mine and placed her palms on the door, covering them with my left hand while I ran my right down her back. Only 5' 3" tall, she had pearly white skin and a soft body. She was uncomfortable with the attention; I think she was self-conscious and wished she was a little more athletic. She asked me to switch off the lights and airconditioner, which I did, but we could still see well from the light of the TV screen.

We stripped and showered together. I allowed her to bathe herself before she turned to focus on me. She washed my body and my penis, which was fully erect soaping it slowly and watching my face for reaction before kneeling to suck. I found her action refreshing. It was inexpert and she sucked a little too hard, but she had all the fundamentals down. I turned for her to wash my back and she carefully cleaned my asshole, as deep as she dared go. This is always a good sign, because it means she plans on some tongue action later.

We towelled off and I lay on the bed and she kneeled between my calves and stooped to continue what was left unfinished in the shower. I asked her in my halted Cantonese whether I could reciprocate, but that was beyond what she was comfortable with. I could feel her determinedly milking my cock with her mouth, her right hand slowly pumping in time with her head and her soft fringe bouncing on my belly. Her left hand traced light circles around my balls and anus. She kept eye contact all the while. I knew what she was doing. She was trying to bring me close to orgasm to reduce wear and tear on her vagina.

Then I asked her. "Can I come in your mouth?" She nodded. This is extremely rare in my experience. All the girls are careful in this regards and I have been permitted only once or twice before, and only after many repeat visits and months of close bonding. I pushed my luck. "Don't spit. Kiss me and let me taste myself". She nodded again!

She continued her work, determined to do her duty. At the last, I tilted her head with both hands to get good eye contact, tensed and blew. She just kept going and going, drawing every drop of semen into her mouth by running her index finger along the underside of my penis, from behind my balls all the way to the head.

Now most of the guys here will know that after you come, a man suddenly loses all sex-drive and previous inhibitions come crashing back in. Rarely do the way-out things that seemed sexy during arousal remain so after orgasm. Still, I looked at her, sat back on her haunches, looking at me proudly and expectantly, with a little cum dribble leaking from the right hand corner of her mouth, and I went for it. I drew her to me, and kissed her, slipping the tip of her tongue into her mouth. She gratefully gave up my seed, and we kissed for a moment. I tasted clean and watery, not at all as I had expected. I think it just tasted that way coming from her.

Wow! Having knocked a long unfulfilled fantasy off my list, I lay back in happy sleepy ecstacy. After a short while, we showered and dressed. She confessed that the had never done such a thing before. I gave her a big tip with my heartfelt thanks and she was utterly overcome with gratitude. I think she had never heard of such a large gratuity, let alone received one, even though it was only about US$70. We parted, but I could tell she was hopeful that I'd call on her again.

So, from the experience and my read of her personality, I think I have found a genuinely natural submissive who likes me enough to give herself over to me and allow me to help her step over her lines of comfort.

I have thought this over a lot and I really want to totally dominate her sexually and mentally, to awaken desires and pleasures that will be ours alone.

It's been half a week now, and I am almost ready to see her again. I have come to this forum because I am looking for advice on how to take her, to make her totally mine and slowly break down all her inhibitions. I need to tread a really fine line between mastering her and messing with her emotions. Help me out.

I don't want to hijack the welcome Sticky, so I'll cross-post this to a new Thread and post a link below. Please reply in that Thread if you have any advice.

[Chips]

Here's my thread: How to dominate a new sub? (link)

[easyslut]

Hi, i am new to the lifestyle, and with instructions from master, i am introducing myself, to share my story of being an easy slut, and the need to please. i am a mature, single who enjoys the normal things in life. i hope to make new friends, and keep master happy.

easy

[THE Traveller]

Hello Everyone,

I'm THE Traveller. I've found out about this site through "Crimsonova Castle". I've always been excited by images of women bound, gagged & dominated. I'm 20, but found out about bondage, bdsm etc. on the web when I was in junior high. Without mentioning my real age I had been hanging around "The House of Abductor"s forums. I still have a great time there. This site site is huge, plenty to explore. See you around.

[Misanthrope]

Well, let's see...

I'm a 24 year old male, and I'm more into the S&M aspect than the D/s. Although I do enjoy that, and while I tend to sway more to the submissive side switching now and then has it's perks.

I've known I was a masochist for about 3 years now, but it wasn't until I met my girlfriend (she also just registered as Sweet Tiger,) that I was able to experience the sexual side of that. And, she has really done a lot to show me that it isn't anything to be ashamed of. I'm mainly into bondage and pain, but I am pretty open minded, and luckily for me, so is she

At any rate, this looks like a cool forum, and I hope to learn more about the BDSM world.

[Sweet Tiger]

Hi, I'm Sweet Tiger and I'm Misanthrope's partner.

I always knew that I liked rough sex and that normally entailed me being at the receiving end of the rough part, mainly due to choice of partner, but I wanted to experience being in control. That lead me to enacting some of my fantasies online to get my feet wet as it were and giving me a chance to explore exactly how far I wanted to take things as a Dominant and to get experience of role play scenarios.

Then I met Misanthrope and after a tentative conversation and some conjoling on my part we realised that we liked the same things and decided to get some friendly advice by joining this forum.

[Dreamaker]

Hi, this is to introduce my self as a new member.

I am a male nearing the big 5 “O” and live in the UK. My outside interests include most types of music, travel and reading. Within the realms of this community I enjoy playing games (the adult variety), fantasies, role-play and indulging in both dominance and submission. I have enjoyed this type of sexual relationship for many years

My partner is very much a sub, enjoying domination and humiliation but is not into serious pain. She has no enthusiasm for domination, I, on the other hand, enjoy both and am searching for where my true interests lie.

I have used and enjoyed the library on this site for a very long time. I have joined as a member to hopefully meet with people online who can help and advise me in my quests, to gain knowledge from their experiences, and possibly build up friendships in the future.

Dreamaker

[jennifer007]

Hey everybody.... im Jen.... Im from Malaysia..... Im Eurassian.... Im 20 this year... I want to try being a sub... I havent before this.... n im searchin 4 a online master btw...

[Sam'sJasmine]

Hello every one,
I am a fifty-year-old woman, who luckily waited and found her sub self and married her Dom. We are now trying to meld real life and bdsm. Sometimes easy, sometimes hard. I was an over the road truck driver, and looking to kill some waiting time, placed an add in a bdsm format. We connected and started email training. Those were such hot times; I would curse the Gods when I couldn't get Internet connection via my cell phone. Wyoming and Montana were the worst. We have been D/s for about five years . I got a load into his area and we met about 3 or 4 months after our first contact. We both were not looking for marriage, but it worked into it. We both had already exposed our kink to each other, and along with the D/s need to know so much about each other, we already had the honesty issue covered. One thing about this lifestyle, it takes you down to the basics. You can't fake being on your hands and knee's getting your ass beat. It hurts. But oh my there is that total perverted mindset that makes those feelings of pain turn to lust.

I am, in real life, a woman who takes control and does what needs to be done, so getting the sub out of me can be a chore. Hence the r/l vs D/s struggles. We are doing well, thanks to the communication the D/s lifestyle demands. It transfers over to our r/l and we would not have come this far without it.

I quilt, read books, redecorate the house, and garden for hobbies. In my almost non-existent free time.

I have read and enjoyed many of your forums. I must tell slave Lucy I just loved reading about her r/l D/s meeting. I brought back so many of my memories of that wonderful rush of pain pleasure and early meeting. There is that unknown quality as you first venture into uncharted waters with another person. But I would not change things now because there is that trust that comes with time.

Thank you for a wonderful format and I will be lurking in the dark corners, and maybe sometime, I will contribute.

Jasmine

[sissyfonz]

Greeting to All

i am a sissy boi who is looking for a strong Superior Females hand to help shape ande make this boi the best he can be. I am sweet, charming and all so submissive.

Yet i also have the twinkle and a bit of unbroken spirit that makes for fun.

I can if asked to turn the tables around on my submission and become a special type of dom. ....one that understands the beauty of submission.

be well

cheers

[TAW]

HI.
My rl name is irrelevant. Online I have bundle of names but as a bondage artist my tag is TAW.
I discovered this great place when a friend sent me a link to a story about Beyonce being forced into slavery as a Ponygirl.
I (almost) immediatly decided I should do some art for that story...whether the author liked it or not...it was too good a concept to just let lie.
Anyway...through that story I found this forum..and the plethora of other great stories and authors here and I ended up lurking and just hanging out.
One thing I'd like to add here though...I posted to an "Artist Wanted" thread a while back and my post has been rigorously ignored since it went up...No problem there...I could care less..However..I like to be able to delete messages like that if and when I feel like it and when I went to delete it I found that I couldn't.
Is there something I'm missing?...Shouldn't I be able to delete a post when or if I feel like it?...

Tom

Oh..as a btw..I'm going to post a pic in the art section after this...my first foray there...please accept its a wip...and just something I felt like throwing out. After you read the title and you feel like doing a short story I'd be really interested to see what y'all come up with .

[delilou]

hello all,
i am a female sub, who lives in a part of the world that does not at all like this kind of thing. i am married to a very good man who would freak out if he ever found out about this. this is the first time for me to actually explore this side of me.
Have a nice day

[erotic_nibbles]

I have been away from the Forums for a while so I want to apologize to the new people that have introduced themselves lately that I have not been here to welcome

So belated WELCOME! to all of you that I have missed....I hope you all enjoy these boards as much as I do....please do post and let us know your opinions and thoughts and fantasies.....the majority here are very friendly and would love to hear from all of you

I would also like to take this opportunity to tell you all that lurking is great but many Forums have died off because people just looked and didn't speak....so please do post and let us all get to know you!

~~nibbles~~

[Delamorte]

Hi, all. Um, er, well -- this is a bit awkward, isn't it?

I'm a fortyish male with little knowledge and no experience with the BDSM lifestyle. I wound up at this site looking for a story I read years ago, and poked (!) around a bit, and decided to stay.

Because while I have little knowledge and no experience, I am curious about BDSM and other aspects of, uh, unconventional sexuality. Too, I have another ulterior motive -- I've given some thought to trying my hand at erotic fiction, and I thought this might be a good place to do a bit of story posting and see who lifts the whip, so to speak.

I am a published author -- nobody famous -- but erotic fiction heavy on the bondage and such is a complete departure from my usual genre (fantasy), so I consider myself a newbie in this arena.

Anyway, wonderful to meet you all, and thanks for the opportunity to post.

[DanaTV]

Hello, I'm a 41 year old male crossdresser. A novice to all this, but have my mild bondage fantasies. I've been reading a little more about dom/sub dynamics. It's peaked my interest, so decided to join and explore. By the way, I'm the more submissive type.

[slaaf pikkie]

Hi All/all :-)
Being *new* to the forums and being able to read, i found it would be appreciated to let the community know at least something about this humble male sub.
First of all i'm Dutch, so English is not my native tongue. Please forgive me in advance for mistakes in spelling and grammar....
My first steps here were in the library..., and over the years i've read quite a few stories.
i have written some stories myself, but never found the time to translate them into English, so i never posted any of them.
For now i think the library will be the most visited place for me..., but one never knows what one comes across when dwelling these 'dark' corners of the web...

[erotic_nibbles]

WELCOME TO: Delamorte, DanaTV and slaaf pikkie

I hope you all enjoy the site and jump in and post so we can all get to know you better

~~nibbles~~

[MistressKAT]

Just wanted to say hello.

[celticladdy]

Hi, first time. Dan