Hard limit questionaire for both Doms and subs to help them find long term partners

[wingsofanangel]

Anya

All in all I would love to have as a sub and I think you would end up being very good slave. My morgan though would not like it at all.

You do have a few spots where a good Dom might be able to take you that currently you think you would not enjoy, I say this because you want to please the Dom/Master that you choose.

Oh see my response to kisskinky above.

Hope to chat with you sometime

*honored*

thank you!

I don't know exactly why you say what you do, but thank you. That means a lot to me. I do not mind pain, not at all. I just, have never tried a lot of that list for real. Much of it sounds interesting, but I do not know if I would like it or not. I would try any of it once except for my HARD no. I do not enjoy being traded, having multiple partners, or animals... other than that.. I am pretty much open. I wanting to pleae so badly, that... I had a hard time saying no to too many of them.

and, feel free to PM or IM me anytime.. of course only if your Morgan is okay with it.

-Anya-

[Daes]

Felt like filling it out, didnt see fireplay so added it in since i won't do it >.> Most of the things listed I do with my Doms only - as I don't usually take casual play partners.


Abrasion: yes 3
Age play: no 0
Anal sex: yes 2
Anal plugs (small): no 1
Anal plugs (large): no 0
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no 0
Animal roles: no 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 2
Asphyxiation: no 1
Auctioned for charity: no 2
Bathroom use control: yes 4
Bestiality: no 0
Beating (soft): yes 5
Beating (hard): yes 3
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 4
Being bitten: yes 5
Breast/chest bondage: yes 3
Breath control: yes 5
Branding: no No
Boot worship: no 1
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 3
Bondage (multi-day): no 1
Bondage (public, under clothing): no 0
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 3
Brown showers (scat): no No
Cages (locked inside of): no 3
Caning: no 2
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 2
Chastity belts: no 2
Chauffeuring: yes 2
Choking: yes 0
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 3
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 3
Clothespins body: yes 2
Cock worship: yes 3
Collars (worn in private): no 5
Collars (worn in public): no 5
Competitions (with other Subs): no 0
Corsets (wearing): yes 2
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): no 3
Cutting: no No
Dilation: no 0
Double penetration: no 2
Electricity: no 2
Enemas: no 0
Enforced chastity: no 3
Examinations (physical): yes 4
Exercise (forced/required): no 2 (haven't tried but would like to)
Exhibitionism (friends): no 4
Exhibitionism (strangers): no 3
Eye contact restrictions: yes 5
Face slapping: yes 4
Fantasy abandonment: no 0
Fantasy rape: no 2
Fantasy forced deep throat: yes 0
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no 0
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 0
Fantasy gang-rape: no 3
Fireplay: no No
Fisting (anal): no 0
Fisting (vaginal): no 0
Flogging: yes 5
Following hand signals: yes 4
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship: yes 2
Forced dressing: yes 4
Forced homosexuality: no 0
Forced masturbation: yes 3
Forced nudity (private): yes 3
Forced nudity (around others): no 3
Forced servitude: yes 4
Full head hoods: no 1
Gags (cloth): yes 5
Gags (penis shaped): no 1
Gags (rubber): no 3
Gags (tape): yes 3
Gates of Hell: ??
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): no 4
Given away to another Dom (perm): no* (this really depends on whos involved)
Golden showers: no 0
Greetings rituals: yes 5
Hairbrush spankings: yes 2
Hair pulling: yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): yes 2
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 4
Harems (serving w/other subs): no No
Harnessing (leather): no 3
Harnessing (rope): yes 3
Having food chosen for you: yes 5
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 5
Head (giving cunnilingus): no 0
Head (giving fellatio): yes 2
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals): yes 2
Hot waxing: yes 1
Housework (doing): yes 4
Human puppy dog: yes 2
Humiliation (private): yes 4
Humiliation (public): no 3
Hypnotism: no 2
Ice cubes: yes 2
Infantilism: no No
Initiation rites: no 4
Injections: no No
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 2
Interrogations: yes 5
Kidnapping: no 3
Kneeling: yes 4
Knife play: yes 1
Leather clothing: no 2
restraints chains: no 3
restraints leather: yes 3
restraints rope: yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): yes 4
Manacles & Irons: no 2
Manicures (giving): no 0
Massage (giving): yes 2
Massage (receiving): yes 3
Medical scenes: no 2

Modeling for erotic photos: no 0
Modeling for erotic videos: no No
Mouth bits: yes 1
Mummification: no 0
Nipple clamps: no 1
Nipple cloths pins: yes 1
Nipple weights: no 1
Oral/anal play (rimming): no 2
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 3
Orgasm denial: yes 3
Orgasm control: yes 3
Outdoor scenes: no 1
Outdoor sex: no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom): yes 1
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 0
Piercing (permanent): no No
Prison scenes: no 2
Pony slave: no 2
Public exposure: no 2
Public tasks: yes 4
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 3
Pussy worship: no 0
Riding crops: no 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 2
Rituals: yes 5
Religious scenes: no 2
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 5
Rubber/latex clothing: no 1
Rope body harness: yes 2
Saran wrapping: no 1
Scratching – getting: yes 2
Scratching – giving: yes 1
Sensory deprivation: yes 5
Serving: yes 5
Serving as art: no 2
Serving as ashtray: no 0
Serving as furniture: no 1
Serving as a maid: yes 4
Serving as toilet: no No
Serving as waitress/waiter: yes 4
Serving orally (sexual): yes 3
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 4
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 3
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 3
Shaving (body hair): yes 2
Shaving (head hair): no No
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 2
Sleep deprivation: yes 1
Sleep-sacks: no 2
Slutty clothing (private): no 1
Slutty clothing (public): no 0
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: yes 4
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 4
Spanking pleasure: yes 5
Spandex clothing: no 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 5
Speculums (Anal): no 1
Speculums (vaginal): no 1
Spreader bars: yes 4
Standing in corner: no 4
Stocks (adjustable): no 2
Stocks (fixed): no 2
Straight jackets: no 0
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 0
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no 1
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 0
Strapping (full body beating): yes 2
Suspension (upright); no 1
Suspension (inverted): no 0
Suspension (horizontal): no 1
Supplying new partners for Dom: no No
Swallowing semen: yes 3
Swallowing urine: no No
Swapping (with one other couple): no 1 (really depends)
Swinging (multiple couples): no No
Tattooing: yes 1
Teasing: yes 2
Tickling: yes 2
Triple penetration: no 1
Triple penetration by 3 males: no 1
Uniforms: no 0
Including others: yes 0
Vaginal dildo: yes 2
Verbal humiliation: yes 3
Vibrator on genitals: yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 0
Video (watching others): yes 1
Video (recordings of you): no 0
Water torture: no 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 3
Whipping: yes 4
Wooden paddles: no 2
Wrestling: no 2

[kisskinky]

kisskinky

Just my opinion but you are a borderline sub. You have potential if you find a good Dom and experiment with thoses no 3-5. Then no 0-2.

I think you are new to the life and are concerned with pain. Remember that once the body is aroused to a high level it will sense pain as pleasure, most call this sub space.

I would direct you to my thread in the Gallery erotic pictures to see some the things you are uncertain of and to read some of my histories and rants to get a better idea.

Russell

thanks russell, im inclined to agree with you on all points. i am new to this and i am concerned with pain (as in i dont want to be in it lol) but i do understand the link between pain and pleasure and i am willing to explore everything with the right person. some of my ideas are far from the reality and once i balance them out i think my answers will change. and a with good dom to assist me im sure i will be ok.

[Sir_Russell]

Daes

Very interesting responses. I think you have a limited amount of experience and mostly with Tops or new Doms, nothing wrong with that but when you find your One I think you will find a lot of 2 and 3 going to 4 and 5.

Thank you for adding fire to the list, I don't know how I missed it because I do like it.

[Sir_Russell]

Anya

When I can I will answer the why I said what I said, if you look at my posted listed of my preferences I think you will see why.

Like any worthy Dom I neither expect a sub to be my mirror and look forward to pushing limits that she really needs pushed, and the training is most of the fun of it.

[Sir_Russell]

To all who are interested

morgan and I are opening a business in Colorado that is for the BDSM community offering services, seminars, lectures, advice and training.

look at our free site if you have the time and offer us any input you want

speciallovenetwork com of course add the www

[virginSub]

This is very new to me. I have never been a Sub but feel the desire to be one at least in the fantasies that I have. I have no experiance with anything, not really into pain but I feel as though i would love "strong" control. Its 2007 and I even ha to admit it but I do have rape fantasy thoughts. I was guided here by the chat room so let me know if i did this right.

[Rhabbi]

This is very new to me. I have never been a Sub but feel the desire to be one at least in the fantasies that I have. I have no experiance with anything, not really into pain but I feel as though i would love "strong" control. Its 2007 and I even ha to admit it but I do have rape fantasy thoughts. I was guided here by the chat room so let me know if i did this right.

Depends on what you wanted to do.

You made your first post to the boards so I want to say As I said in chat, you should fill out the questionaire and use it to learn more about yourself. i know most of this stuff is new to you, but thare are things that happen that I do not know about. I know of no one that knows everything about BDSM, so feel free to ask questions.

[TeddyBearGaySlave]

Abrasion: don't know what that means and translator makes no sense SORRY
Age play: See Abrasion confused:
Anal sex: 5
Anal plugs (small): 4
Anal plugs (large): 4 Not done yet
Anal plug (public, under clothes): 5 Not done yet
Animal roles: 5
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): See Abrasion
Asphyxiation: 0 No, that is too risky for me. I love breathing
Auctioned for charity: 5 Not done, but HOOOT
Bathroom use control: 5 Done, great
Bestiality: 5, loved it
Beating (soft): 4, done, But Harder is better
Beating (hard): 5 done and loving it
Blindfolds: 5, done
Being serviced (sexual): Don't get that, sorry!
Being bitten: 5, yes
Breast/chest bondage: 5, yes
Breath control: 0, not being done to me. ever! (bad experience as a kid )
Branding: 5 if Brandings can completely heal away. Otherwise 0
Boot worship: 1, done. and baaah, is it boooring
Bondage (light): 3, done. heavy Bondage is better
Bondage (heavy): 5 :>
Bondage (multi-day): Not done yet, but would definietly like to try that one :> 4
Bondage (public, under clothing): 5, sound HOT. not done yet
Bondage and Sex: 5 nothing to say about it. i LOVE it
Breast whipping: 5 (I think I can call my man tits breasts )
Brown showers (scat): 0 NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER!
Cages (locked inside of): 5 turns me one! done is some times too
Caning: 5 hehe done of course
Catheterization: 5 but never done. sounds very hot if it isnt unhealthy
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): 1 sounds boring. never done
Chastity belts: 5 yeaaah, absolutely turn on! my record: 4 weeks
Chauffeuring: Don't get this one either. Sorry
Choking: 0 NO!
Clothespins breast/nipples: 5 YEEEES please
Clothespins labia lips/clit: N/A
Clothespins body: 2 Do not like those very much. Those are a REAL punishment for me
Cock worship: 5 I LOVE cocks
Collars (worn in private): 5 yes. done. loved it
Collars (worn in public):5 NOT done, would probably love it
Competitions (with other Subs): 5 oh that is sooo hot. Done it a few times already and it was a great great time.
Corsets (wearing): 0 No way Sir
Cuffs: 5 Also a turn on for me. Done of course
Cuffs (metal): 5 see above
Cutting: 1 - 2 Dont really think I can like this one. But as long at it isnt risky, why not? not done
Dilation: 3 Sounds hot too. Not done yet.
Double penetration: 5 Not done, but would love too!
Electricity: 4 Done a few times, and liked it very much. Cook my balls please
Enemas: 5 Really big enemas that make me cramp: Want to! Done
Enforced chastity: 5 5 5 5 Loved it very much. Done many times
Examinations (physical): 5 Yes please. Done!
Exercise (forced/required): 5 OHHH YES, that is one of my most most favorite turn ons. Driving me to the edge of what I am physically able to do. Hotness!!!
Exhibitionism (friends): 5 sounds soooooooo hot. being to afraid to do yet though.
Exhibitionism (strangers): 5 Done and it was great.
Eye contact restrictions: 1 Sounds stupid to me. But maybe I would begin to like it. I always look everyone in his eyes, I do not like it any other way.
Face slapping: 3 Done. Also one of the things that really punishes me.
Fantasy abandonment: 1 I dont know, really. Not done
Fantasy rape: 5 Yes big turn on. Not done yet
Fantasy forced deep throat: 5 Done yet, had a hard time but liked it.
Fantasy forced cunt licking: 1 No, PLEASE NOT! Not done yet.
Fantasy forced rape anal: See forced Rape
Fantasy gang-rape: 5 TURN ON!!! Not down yet
Fisting (anal): 1 I am afraid of it, but I might try it with a person who knows what he is doing. Not done.
Fisting (vaginal): NA
Flogging: 4 Hot! Done
Following hand signals: 1 Sounds strange? Not done
Following orders: 3 If I am slave, of course I follow orders.
Foot worship: 2 Do not love feet, but do not hat them either.
Forced dressing: 1 Bores the hell out of me. Done
Forced homosexuality: N / A I am gay.
Forced masturbation: 3 Done that, liked that. But was not THAT great. But infront of other people it is 5!
Forced nudity (private): 5 Yes please! Done a LOT.
Forced nudity (around others): 5 Yes please. Done that a LOT too! BIG BIG BIG Turn on.
Forced servitude: 3 Done.
Full head hoods: 5. Like those very much. Done.
Gags (cloth): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (penis shaped): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (rubber): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gags (tape): 5 Gags are on of my BIGGEST fetish!
Gates of Hell: 5 Oh the Gates of Hell are a GREAAAT toy! Done!!
Genital sex: Sorry?
Given away to another Dom (temp): 5 Done it. LOVED it!
Given away to another Domme (temp): 5 Would LOVE if that would be doen to me!!! Not done yet
Given away to another Dom (perm): 0 Noo Not done, dont want to either!
Given away to another Domme (perm): 0 Noo See above
Golden showers: 4 Yes, I like those! Done a lot
Greetings rituals: 2 Yeah would do that. Not exciting though. Not done.
Hairbrush spankings: 3 Sounds hot! Not done, but it is a good idea :>
Hair pulling: 5 Pubic hair, facial hair, body hair pulling: GREAT! Done.
Hand jobs (giving): 5 Love that, especially to unknown people. Done.
Hand jobs (receiving): 5 Done. What a question.
Harems (serving w/other subs): YES, turn on for me! Not really done yet.
Harnessing (leather): Dont now what it is. Transloter doesnt say anything.
Harnessing (rope): See above.
Having food chosen for you: 3 Like that! Done.
Having clothing chosen for you: 3 Could be hot. Not done.
Head (giving cunnilingus): 3 Yeah, would hate it. And therefore love it.
Head (giving fellatio): 5 Yes please. Done a LOT!
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): NA
Head (receiving fellatio male only): 4 Love it of course
High heel worship: 1 Boring as hell to me. Makes no sense for me and I cannot understand that.
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Dont understand what that is.
Hot oils (on genitals): 5 ! Sounds very hot! No pun intended. Not done
Hot waxing: 0 !!! Forced waking/ Forced shaving are TABOO!
Housework (doing): 2 Done
Human puppy dog: 4. liked it very much. Done
Humiliation (private): 5 YEEEES PLEASE
Humiliation (public): 5 even more YEES PLEASE ...drools...
Hypnotism: NO IDEA. Could be interesting. Not done
Ice cubes: 4 Those are great. Done
Infantilism: 2 I dont really know. Not done.
Initiation rites: Sorry?
Injections: 3 As long as they arent permantly harmfull. Not done.
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: 5 Yes please. Not done.
Interrogations: 5 Yes, done. And oooh how I loved it!
Kidnapping: 3 I dont really know. Not down?
Kneeling: 2 done
Leather clothing: 5 love love love it.
restraints chains: 5 love bondage things. done
restraints leather: see above
restraints rope: see above
Lectures for misbehavior: 5 Very important for me! Done
Licking (non-sexual): No scat or piss. Other wise yes. Cannot rate that.
Manacles & Irons: 5 done
Manicures (giving): 1 Not done
Massage (giving): 3 Could be hot. Not really done.
Massage (receiving): 5 yeaah give me massage pls! :> done
Medical scenes: 5 big turn on! Done

Modeling for erotic photos: 5 not done
Modeling for erotic videos:5 not done
Mouth bits: Dont know what you mean
Mummification: Dont know what you mean
Nipple clamps: 5 done a lot!
Nipple cloths pins: 5 done a lot! ooooh the pain
Nipple weights: 4 done
Oral/anal play (rimming): 3 not a BIG turn on for me but can be fun! done
Over-the-knee spanking: 5 Spank me! PLease Done
Orgasm denial: 5 Oh YES YES YES that really drives me crazy. Done a LOT
Orgasm control: 5 see above
Outdoor scenes: 5 Love nature! And when people are looking: I love embarrasment!!! DONE
Outdoor sex: 5 Love nature! not done yet .(
hone sex (serving Dom): 2 Bores me. Done
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): 2 Bores me. Done
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): 4 Yeah, we could DEFINITELY try that. Not done
Piercing (permanent):4 Yeah, we could DEFINITELY try that. Not done
Prison scenes: 5 oh I would really dig that. Not done
Pony slave: 5 Make me collapse unter your burden! Done
Public exposure: 5 Oh the shame, oh the humiliation. What a turn on. Done a lot!
Public tasks: 5 Done and hated it. I mean loved it, erm hated it. You get the point!
Pussy/cock whipping: 5 Done. Need more.
Pussy worship: 2 I hate pussies. Could use it as a punishment!
Riding crops: 5 big torn on. Done
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): 5. Done. Get horny just about thinking it.
Rituals: 2
Religious scenes: 3 Could be intersting. Not done.
Restrictive rules on behavior: 5 I am slave. Done
Rubber/latex clothing: 1 If I really need to. :/ Not done.
Rope body harness: Dont know what that means. Sry!
Saran wrapping: 1 if you need it, why not? Not done.
Scratching – getting: 3 Could be great. Not done.
Scratching – giving: 2 not done.
Sensory deprivation: 5 DONE! It was great.
Serving: 5 I am a slave. Done of course.
Serving as art: 4 could be great. Not done.
Serving as ashtray: 3 Done.
Serving as furniture:5 Done. HOTNESS!
Serving as a maid: 1 I am proud of being a mean. Things like that bore me.
Serving as toilet: 0 No, never ever.
Serving as waitress/waiter: 1 If I have too. Not done.
Serving orally (sexual): 5 of course! Done
Serving other Doms (supervised): 5 of course! Done!!!
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): 5 Not done yet
Sexual deprivation (short term): 5 Absolutely necessary Done a lot
Sexual deprivation (long term): 5 Oh it was hell. Loved it! Done
Shaving (body hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Shaving (head hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Shaving (pubic hair): 0 !!!!! NEVER EVER!
Sleep deprivation: 4 Would LOVE to try that. Not done
Sleep-sacks: 2. sorry?
Slutty clothing (private): 1 Naaah, boring.
Slutty clothing (public): Define slutty please.
Spanking in private: 5 HOT! Done
Spanking in public: 5 HOT! Done
Spanking in bdsm parties: 5 HOT!!! NOT DONE
Spanking pleasure: Dont get that one. Sorry.
Spandex clothing: 2 Dont like it, but dont hate it either.
Speech restrictions (when, what): 3 Lets try it! Not done.
Speculums (Anal): 3 Not tried yet.
Speculums (vaginal): N / A
Spreader bars: 5 I love those thingies. Done
Standing in corner: 3 That really is a punishment for me, especially if other people are around. Done (only naked )
Stocks (adjustable): BIG TURN ON 5 Done
Stocks (fixed): BIG TURN ON 5 Done
Straight jackets: 2 Those are not appealing to me. Not done.
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): 1 Bores me, sorry. Not done.
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): 2 Sounds a bit more interesting, but still boring.
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): 1 I have, why would I wear such a thing? Not done.
Strapping (full body beating): 5 yes please Done !
Suspension (upright); 5 big turn on, Done
Suspension (inverted): 3 Do not like that too much, which makes it a great punishment. Done
Suspension (horizontal): 5 yes pf course, Done
Supplying new partners for Dom: ?
Swallowing semen: 5 Hehe, I am a slut. Done a lot
Swallowing urine: 0 Nope, not going to happen. Sorry. Not done
Swapping (with one other couple): 2 not done
Swinging (multiple couples):2 not done
Tattooing: 3 Maybe! Not done.
Teasing: 5 LOVE THAT. Done
Tickling: 5 I nearly die of tickling, great thing to punish me. Done
Triple penetration: N/A
Triple penetration by 3 males: N/A
Uniforms: 2 Do not matter for me. Not done.
Including others: 5 Yes please. Done
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: 3 , done
Vibrator on genitals: 4, done
Voyeurism (watching others): 3 done
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Sorry?
Video (watching others): 3 Hehe, done
Video (recordings of you): 5 Please do that. And than show my friends. HOT! not done
Water torture: 5, would love to but never done.
Wearing symbolic jewelry: 1 Naaah, not done
Whipping: 5 Have been done until I was all bloody, unbelievable pain. HOT! done
Wooden paddles: 5 of course
Wrestling: 5 very interesting idea. Not done





my god, thinking of what I have done already really made me hard. thanks hope some of you have a nice read. if any questions arise, go ahead!

[Sir_Russell]

Greetings to all I made it to Colorado, but can't seem to get my puter on line yet. Any geeks that can help me problem solve would be greatly appreciated.

virginSub,

Rhabbi is right no one is an expert in this life it is way to big with many different avenues to self awareness.

If you will fill out and post the questionaire for subs I may be able to advise you. It is a great tool for self discovery. If you are shy about your answers email the questionaire to me or pm it from here. So that only I see it. Also you may go to our site for more information and links to other sites. Speciallovenetwork com use the www first of course.

[Sir_Russell]

TeddyBearGaySlave

Lol, a bit of a pain slut aren't you. OH slut means a lose easy woman but in this context it works too.

Arm binder are a leather glove that fits both hands into one sleeve normally tied behind your back. Sleep sacs are like sleeping bags that tie at the throat encovering the whole body, made of leather, vinyl or cloth. The plastic ones can be vaccuumed of air making them skin tight and next to impossible to move in, those are dangerous if used for to long a time.

enjoy your life, you will make one or more Doms very happy

[Soomey]

Very interesting questionnaire Sir Russell! I sent you my responses.

[Sir_Russell]

My response is in a return pm

[Sir_Russell]

If anyone is interested I could post a blank contract form that morgan worked out for the D/s life.

[cream _(DNW)]

ok well I took it and I had fun doing it
Abrasion: no 1
Age play:yes 5
Anal sex:yes 4
Anal plugs (small):no 1
Anal plugs (large):no 1
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no1
Animal roles:no 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 1
Asphyxiation: no 1
Auctioned for charity:yes 4
Bathroom use control: no 1
Bestiality: no 1
Beating (soft): yes 5
Beating (hard):yes 2
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 6
Breast/chest bondage: yes 4
Breath control: no 1
Branding: no 1
Boot worship: yes 5
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 4
Bondage (multi-day): no 1
Bondage (public, under clothing):no 1
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 5
Brown showers (scat): no 1
Cages (locked inside of): no 1
Caning: yes 5
Catheterization:no 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 1
Chastity belts: yes 4
Chauffeuring: no 1
Choking: yes 3
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 3
Clothespins body: no 1
Cock worship:yes 5
Collars (worn in private): yes 5
Collars (worn in public):yes 5
Competitions (with other Subs): no 1
Corsets (wearing): yes 4
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): yes 5
Cutting: no 1
Dilation: no 1
Double penetration: yes 5
Electricity: no 1
Enemas: no 1
Enforced chastity:no 1
Examinations (physical): yes 3
Exercise (forced/required): no 1
Exhibitionism (friends): yes 5
Exhibitionism (strangers):yes 5
Eye contact restrictions: no 1
Face slapping: yes 4
Fantasy abandonment: no 1
Fantasy rape: yes 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: yes 5
Fantasy forced cunt licking: yes 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 1
Fantasy gang-rape:no 1
Fisting (anal): no 1
Fisting (vaginal): no 1
Flogging: yes 6
Following hand signals: no 1
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship:no 1
Forced dressing: no 1
Forced homosexuality: yes 5
Forced masturbation: yes 4
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): yes 4
Forced servitude: no 1
Full head hoods:no 1
Gags (cloth): yes 4
Gags (penis shaped):no 1
Gags (rubber): no 1
Gags (tape): yes 4
Gates of Hell:no 1
Genital sex: yes 4
Given away to another Dom (temp): yes 4
Given away to another Domme (temp): yes 4
Given away to another Dom (perm): no 1
Given away to another Domme (perm): no 1
Golden showers: no 1
Greetings rituals:no 1
Hairbrush spankings:yes 3
Hair pulling: yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving): n/a
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 1
Harnessing (leather): no 1
Harnessing (rope): no 1
Having food chosen for you: no 1
Having clothing chosen for you: no 1
Head (giving cunnilingus):???
Head (giving fellatio): ???
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): ???
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: no 1
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): yes 4
Hot oils (on genitals): no 1
Hot waxing: no 1
Housework (doing):yes 3
Human puppy dog: no 1
Humiliation (private):yes 2
Humiliation (public): yes 2
Hypnotism: no 1
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: no 1
Initiation rites:no 1
Injections:no 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 1
Interrogations:no 1
Kidnapping: no 1
Kneeling: yes 5
Leather clothing: yes 4
restraints chains: yes 4
restraints leather: yes 5
restraints rope: yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: no 1
Licking (non-sexual): yes 5
Manacles & Irons: no 1
Manicures (giving): no 1
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: no 1

Modeling for erotic photos: no 1
Modeling for erotic videos: no 1
Mouth bits: no 1
Mummification: no 1
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 5
Nipple weights: no 1
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 5
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: no 1
Orgasm control: yes 3
Outdoor scenes: no 1
Outdoor sex: no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom):yes 4
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 1
Piercing (permanent): yes 3
Prison scenes: no 1
Pony slave: no 1
Public exposure: yes 2
Public tasks: yes 2
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 4
Pussy worship: yes 5
Riding crops:yes 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 1
Rituals:no 1
Religious scenes: no 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: no 1
Rubber/latex clothing: no 1
Rope body harness:no 1
Saran wrapping:no 1
Scratching – getting:yes 2
Scratching – giving:yes 2
Sensory deprivation: no 1
Serving: yes 3
Serving as art: no 1
Serving as ashtray: no 1
Serving as furniture:no 1
Serving as a maid: yes 2
Serving as toilet: no 1
Serving as waitress/waiter: yes 2
Serving orally (sexual): yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised): yes 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 1
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 1
Shaving (body hair): yes 4
Shaving (head hair): no 1
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 4
Sleep deprivation: no 1
Sleep-sacks:no 1
Slutty clothing (private): yes 3
Slutty clothing (public): no 1
Spanking in private: yes 3
Spanking in public: yes 4
Spanking in bdsm parties:no 1
Spanking pleasure:yes 3
Spandex clothing: no 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 1
Speculums (Anal): no 1
Speculums (vaginal): yes 2
Spreader bars: yes 2
Standing in corner: no 1
Stocks (adjustable):no 1
Stocks (fixed): no 1
Straight jackets:yes 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): yes 3
Strapping (full body beating): no 1
Suspension (upright); yes 3
Suspension (inverted): no 1
Suspension (horizontal):no 1
Supplying new partners for Dom: no 1
Swallowing semen: yes 4
Swallowing urine: no 1
Swapping (with one other couple): no 1
Swinging (multiple couples): no 1
Tattooing: yes 4
Teasing:yes 5
Tickling: yes 4
Triple penetration:yes 3
Triple penetration by 3 males: yes 2
Uniforms: yes 3
Including others: yes 2
Vaginal dildo:yes 4
Verbal humiliation: yes 2
Vibrator on genitals: yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): no 1
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 1
Video (watching others): yes 3
Video (recordings of you): no 1
Water torture: no 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 1
Whipping: yes 3
Wooden paddles:yes 2
Wrestling:yes 4

[Logic1]

funny how things change. I did that a few years back and well preferences changes.
I am even less inclined to share my sub/gf with anybody now and some other changes.
I like this lil test but the Dom version seems to be written for a sub on some questions though.

Abrasion: yes 2
Age play: no 1
Anal sex: yes 5 and naturally for mutual pleasure
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large): yes 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 4
Animal roles: no 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 2
Asphyxiation: no 2
Auctioned for charity: no 2
Bathroom use control: no 3
Bestiality: no no
Beating (soft): Yes 3
Beating (hard): no 1
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 2
Breast/chest bondage: yes 5
Breath control: no 2
Branding: no 1
Boot worship: no 2
Bondage (light): Yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): no 3
Bondage (public, under clothing): yes 5
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 3
Brown showers (scat): no no
Cages (locked inside of): no 2
Caning: no 2
Catheterization: no no
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 3
Chastity belts: no 3
Chauffeuring: no 2 (I do the driving )
Choking: no 2
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 4
Clothespins labia/clit: yes 3
Clothespins body: no 2
Cock worship: yes 4
Collars (worn in private): yes 3
Collars (worn in public): no 3
Competitions (with other Subs): no 3
Corsets (wearing): yes 5 on the sub ofc
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): yes 4
Cutting: no no
Dilation: no 2
Double penetration: yes 4 device
Electricity: no 3
Enemas: no 3
Enforced chastity: yes 3
Examinations (physical): no 3
Exercise (forced/required): yes 3
Exhibitionism (friends): no 3
Exhibitionism (strangers): yes 3
Eye contact restrictions: no 2
Face slapping: no 2
Fantasy abandonment: dont know what it is so no idea
Fantasy rape: yes 3
Fantasy forced deep throat: yes 4
Fantasy forced cunt licking: yes 4
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 3
Fantasy gang-rape: no 1
Fisting (anal): no 1
Fisting (vaginal): no 1
Following hand signals by sub/slave: yes 4
Following orders by sub/slave: yes 4
Foot worship: yes 2
Forced dressing of sub: yes 3
Forced homosexuality: no 2
Forced masturbation: yes 5
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): no 2
Forced servitude of sub: yes 4
Full head hoods: no 3
Gags (cloth): no 2
Gags (penis shaped): no 3
Gags (rubber): yes 5
Gags (tape): yes 2
Gates of Hell: looks bad no 1
Genital sex: yes 5
Given sub away to another Dom (temp): no 1
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 2
Given sub away to another Dom (perm): no no
Given away to another Domme (perm): no no
Golden showers: no 1
Greetings rituals: yes 4
Hairbrush spankings: yes 3
Hair pulling: Yes 3
Hand jobs (giving): yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 4
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 2
Harnessing (leather): no 3
Harnessing (rope): yes 4
Having food chosen for sub: no. she can eat whatever she likes
Having clothing chosen for sub: yes 4. can be real fun sometimes
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): no no
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): n/a
Head (receiving fellatio male only): yes 5
High heel worship: no 2
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals of sub): no 3
Hot waxing of sub: yes 3
Housework (sub doing): yes 3 this depends on living conditions
Human puppy dog: no 3
Humiliation (private): yes 4
Humiliation (public): yes 3
Hypnotism: no 3
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: no no
Initiation rites: no 3 (havent found the right one for it)
Injections: no no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes 4 (I need more practice though, damn it is hard to make it good)
Interrogations: no 2
Kidnapping sub: yes 4
Kneeling sub: yes 4
Leather clothing: yes 3
restraints chains: yes 3
restraints leather: yes 4
restraints rope: yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): yes 3
Manacles & Irons: no 3
Manicures (giving): no 3
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: no 1
Modeling for Dom’s erotic photos: yes 4
Mouth bits: no 3
Mummification: yes 2
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 3
Nipple weights: yes 3
Oral/anal play by sub (rimming): yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 5 (for a scene)
Orgasm control: yes 5
Outdoor scenes: yes 3
Outdoor sex: yes 4
Phone sex (serving Dom): yes 3
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no no
Piercing (permanent): yes 4
Prison scenes no 2
Pony slave: no 3
Public exposure: yes 3
Public tasks: yes 4
Pussy spanking: yes 5 lightly
Pussy whipping: yes 2 lightly
Pussy worship: no 2 (by the sub to another sub or mistress i guess but not really interrested in sharing)
Riding crops: yes 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 2
Rituals: yes 5 important
Religious scenes: no no
Restrictive rules on sub behavior: yes 3
Rubber/latex clothing: yes 4
Rope body harness: yes 4
Saran wrapping: yes 3
Scratching – getting: yes 4
Scratching – giving: yes 4
Sensory deprivation: yes 4
Serving by sub: yes 5
Serving as sub art: no 3
Serving as sub ashtray: no no no
Serving as sub furniture: no 1
Serving as a sub maid: yes 3
Serving as sub toilet: no no no
Serving as sub waitress/waiter: no 3
Serving orally by sub (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 1
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no no
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 2
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 1
Shaving (body hair): yes 5 shave wax or lazored for arm pits and legs
Shaving (head hair): no 1
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 5
Sleep deprivation: no no (I like my girls well rested )
Sleep-sacks: yes 2
Slutty clothing (private): yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): yes 3
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: no 3
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 3
Spanking pleasure: yes 5
Spandex clothing: yes 3 not for me
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 3
Speculums (Anal): no 2
Speculums (vaginal): no 2
Spreader bars: yes 5
Standing sub in corner: yes 3
Stocks (adjustable): no 3
Stocks (fixed): no 3
Straight jackets: no 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on):by the sub no 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): sub is penetrated no 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 2
Strapping (full body beating): no 1
Suspension (upright); yes 3
Suspension (inverted): no 3
Suspension (horizontal): no 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: yes 3, must be agreed upon by sub
Swallowing semen: yes 5
Swallowing urine: no no
Swapping (with one other couple): no 2
Swinging (multiple couples): no 1
Tattooing of sub for ownership purposes: no 2 agreement only
Teasing: yes 5
Tickling: yes 3
Triple penetration of sub: no 3 if agreed to by sub
Triple penetration of sub by 3 males: no 1
Uniforms: yes 4
Including others: no 2
Vaginal dildo: yes 5
Verbal humiliation: yes 2 punishment unless sub/slave desires it
Vibrator on genitals: yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 3
Video (watching others): yes 4
Video (recordings of sub): yes 4
Water torture: no 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: yes 5
Whipping YES 3 flogging but harsh whipping needs to be discussed
Wooden paddles: yes 3
Wrestling: yes 2

[Sir_Russell]

BrookLynn
I see you are a switch and that sorta explains why your answers seem to be a bit all over.

You have strong tendencies toward being a pain slut, but I also see a desire to submit. I get that from the absence of NO NO or NO 0 answers.

I bet that the ones you share with are well pleased with you.

[Sir_Russell]

Logic1
Went back and reread the Dom instructions and you are right, I forgot to include that these were things you enjoyed doing to your submissive.

Also from what I read here we are a lot alike in our life choices

[cream _(DNW)]

BrookLynn
I see you are a switch and that sorta explains why your answers seem to be a bit all over.

You have strong tendencies toward being a pain slut, but I also see a desire to submit. I get that from the absence of NO NO or NO 0 answers.

I bet that the ones you share with are well pleased with you.

yes the subs I have are very pleased with me as there domme.
My Master seems to be happy with how good I am doing as a sub,seeing how I just opened up to doing it after months of nothing but dommeing.Thank you for posting this it was a big help for me.And my Master was well pleased to see what I would do and how are I was willing to go.
look forward to talking with you some time

[Logic1]

Logic1
Went back and reread the Dom instructions and you are right, I forgot to include that these were things you enjoyed doing to your submissive.

Also from what I read here we are a lot alike in our life choices

yes that is how I interpreted it and answered accordingly.

got the sleepsack wrong though couldnt get what could be sexy about a sleepingbag but sex in one is warm and close and cramped and nice and sweaty lol.
should then have been a NO 3 but *shrugs*

[gagged_Louise]

I guess the sleeping bag is to be seen as a form of bondage mummification - having your sub totallly enclosed and with ropes both on his/her body and outside the bag. Ball gag and hood could be added.

I've seen that kind in pics a few times, can't say it's a very hot turn-on to me though. Latex hood on the other hand is something I'd love to try...

[Sir_Russell]

Oh my a sleep sack is a latex or plastic bag that is vacuumed till it is skin tight.

[mysc]

Here is mine...



Abrasion: Yes 3 Mostly it's a side effect
Age play: Yes 3
Anal sex: Yes 5 yes please... and more..
Anal plugs (small): Yes 4
Anal plugs (large): Yes 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): No 4
Animal roles: No No
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): No 4
Asphyxiation: Yes 4
Auctioned for charity: No No *maybe a 2 as a fantasy play..but not for real*
Bathroom use control: Yes 4
Bestiality: No No
Beating (soft): Yes 5
Beating (hard): Yes 5/6
Blindfolds: Yes 4
Being serviced (sexual): Yes 2
Being bitten: Yes 4
Breast/chest bondage: Yes 4
Breath control: Yes 5
Branding: No 1
Boot worship: No 0
Bondage (light): Yes 5
Bondage (heavy): Yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): No 1
Bondage (public, under clothing): Yes 3
Bondage and Sex: Yes 5
Breast whipping: Yes 4
Brown showers (scat): No No
Cages (locked inside of): No 3
Caning: Yes 4
Catheterization: No No
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Yes 3
Chastity belts: No 3
Chauffeuring: No and if I get my drivers license it is a 2 prob.
Choking: Yes 3
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Yes 4
Clothespins body: Yes 4
Cock worship: Yes 4
Collars (worn in private): Yes 5
Collars (worn in public): Yes 4
Competitions (with other Subs): No 0
Corsets (wearing): Yes 4
Cuffs: Yes 5
Cuffs (metal): Yes 5
Cutting: No 1
Dilation: Yes 3
Double penetration: Yes 4
Electricity: No 2
Enemas: Yes 4
Enforced chastity: Yes 3
Examinations (physical): Yes 4
Exercise (forced/required): No 1
Exhibitionism (friends): No 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): Yes 2
Eye contact restrictions: Yes 3
Face slapping: Yes 4
Fantasy abandonment: No 3
Fantasy rape: No 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: No 4
Fantasy forced cunt licking: No 3
Fantasy forced rape anal: No 4
Fantasy gang-rape: No 3
Fisting (anal): No No
Fisting (vaginal): Yes YES! ehm 5
Flogging: Yes 5
Following hand signals: No 3
Following orders: Yes 4
Foot worship: No 3
Forced dressing: No 4
Forced homosexuality: No... no need to
Forced masturbation: Yes 4
Forced nudity (private): Yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): No 2
Forced servitude: No 2
Full head hoods: No 1
Gags (cloth): Yes 4
Gags (penis shaped): No 4
Gags (rubber): Yes 4
Gags (tape): No 3
Gates of Hell: NA
Genital sex: Yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): No 1
Given away to another Domme (temp): No 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): No No
Given away to another Domme (perm):No No
Golden showers: Yes 2
Greetings rituals: No 4
Hairbrush spankings: Yes 4
Hair pulling: Yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): Yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): Yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): No 1
Harnessing (leather): Yes 4
Harnessing (rope): Yes 5
Having food chosen for you: No 3
Having clothing chosen for you: No 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): Yes 3
Head (giving fellatio): Yes 4
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): NA
High heel worship: No No
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals): No 3
Hot waxing: No 3
Housework (doing): No 4 (if forced... normally it would be a 1 haha)
Human puppy dog: No 2
Humiliation (private): Yes 4
Humiliation (public): No 2
Hypnotism: No No
Ice cubes: No ...ehm I really hate cold... but then again do I have a choice? ..
Infantilism: No No
Initiation rites: No 3
Injections: No 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes 4
Interrogations: No 3
Kidnapping: No 3
Kneeling: Yes 4
Leather clothing: Yes 4
restraints chains: Yes 4
restraints leather: Yes 4
restraints rope: Yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: Yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): Yes 3
Manacles & Irons: No 3
Manicures (giving): No 2
Massage (giving): Yes 4
Massage (receiving): Yes 4
Medical scenes: No 3

Modeling for erotic photos: Yes 3
Modeling for erotic videos: No 2
Mouth bits: No 3
Mummification: No 3
Nipple clamps: Yes 4
Nipple cloths pins: Yes 4
Nipple weights: Yes 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): Yes 4
Over-the-knee spanking: Yes 4
Orgasm denial: Yes 4
Orgasm control: Yes 4
Outdoor scenes: No 4
Outdoor sex: Yes 3
Phone sex (serving Dom): No 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): No No
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): No No
Piercing (permanent): Yes 3 (have one...)
Prison scenes: Yes 4
Pony slave: No 2
Public exposure: No 1
Public tasks: No 2
Pussy/cock whipping: Yes 4
Pussy worship: No 2
Riding crops: YES 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): Yes 4
Rituals: No 3
Religious scenes: No 2
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes 4
Rubber/latex clothing: Yes 3
Rope body harness: Yes 4
Saran wrapping: No 3
Scratching – getting: Yes 5
Scratching – giving: Yes 2
Sensory deprivation: Yes 4
Serving: Yes 3
Serving as art: ... in doubt lol 3
Serving as ashtray: No No
Serving as furniture: No 2
Serving as a maid: Yes 3
Serving as toilet: No No
Serving as waitress/waiter: No 2
Serving orally (sexual): Yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised): No 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): No 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): No 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): No 1
Shaving (body hair): Yes 5
Shaving (head hair): No No
Shaving (pubic hair): Yes 5
Sleep deprivation: No 2
Sleep-sacks: No 3
Slutty clothing (private): Yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): Yes 4
Spanking in private: Yes 5
Spanking in public: No No
Spanking in bdsm parties: No Yes
Spanking pleasure: Yes 5
Spandex clothing: No 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): No 4
Speculums (Anal): No 3
Speculums (vaginal): Yes 4
Spreader bars: No 4
Standing in corner: Yes 4
Stocks (adjustable): Yes 4
Stocks (fixed): Yes 4
Straight jackets: No 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): No 3
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): No 2
Strapping (full body beating): Yes 4
Suspension (upright); Yes 4
Suspension (inverted): No 2
Suspension (horizontal): No 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: No No
Swallowing semen: Yes 5
Swallowing urine: Yes 2
Swapping (with one other couple): Yes 2 (ages ago)
Swinging (multiple couples): Yes 2 (same.. good ol days)
Tattooing: Yes 4
Teasing: Yes 4
Tickling: No ... NOOooooooooooooooooooo
Triple penetration: Yes 5
Triple penetration by 3 males: YAY.. yes.. 5
Uniforms: Yes 3
Including others: Yes 3
Vaginal dildo: Yes 4
Verbal humiliation: Yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): Yes 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Yes 3
Video (watching others): Yes 3
Video (recordings of you): Yes... 2
Water torture: No 4
Wearing symbolic jewelry: Yes 5
Whipping: Yes 5
Wooden paddles: Yes 5
Wrestling: No 1

[Sir_Russell]

Where were you when I was searching.

Mysc, I think you would make 98% of the Dominants out there very happy.

Find a good one and live happy.

[mysc]

Thanks Sir Russel
I have one... just need to be patient ... (see "am I driving myself crazy")

[Xanthos]

asterisks apply everywhere, just so you know


Abrasion: yes 4
Age play: no 1
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large):no 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes):no 2
Animal roles:no 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders):no 4
Asphyxiation:yes 3-4
Auctioned for charity:NO
Bathroom use control:yes 2 - she asks, when we're "on". That's what it's about - no further desire to deny her this - but she asks nicely.
Bestiality:NO
Beating (soft):yes 4
Beating (hard):yes 4
Blindfolds:yes 4
Being serviced (sexual):yes 3
Being bitten: yes 3 ( and I DO bite back, whaddayathink!)
Breast/chest bondage:no 1 The extreme bind-em-till-they-turn-a-funny-color version that is. As part of a full-torso bondage, that's...different
Breath control:yes 3-4. See asphyxiation
Branding:NO
Boot worship:no 0
Bondage (light):yes 4-5
Bondage (heavy):yes 3-4
Bondage (multi-day):no 2
Bondage (public, under clothing):yes 3
Breast whipping:yes 3
Brown showers (scat):NO
Cages (locked inside of):no 2-3
Caning:yes 4
Catheterization:no 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of):no 1
Chastity belts:no 3
Chauffeuring:no 2 (get a licence, you! - Like I'm gonna let anyone else drive...)
Choking:yes 3 (see asphyxiation)
Clothespins: yes 4
Cock worship: yes 3
Collars (worn in private):yes 4
Collars (worn in public):yes 3
Competitions (with other Subs):NO
Corsets (wearing):yes 3
Cuffs:yes 4
Cuffs (metal):yes 4 (just the collar, mind)
Cutting:NO
Dilation:no-aside from side effects of fun things...1
Double penetration:yes 4
Electricity:no 2
Enemas:yes 3
Enforced chastity:no 2
Examinations (physical): well naturally! Oh, you mean playing a doctor? no. 2.
Exercise (forced/required):no 2
Exhibitionism (friends):no 0
Exhibitionism (strangers):NO
Eye contact restrictions:yes 3 (although I wonder if she actually experiences it that way)
Face slapping:yes 3-4
Fantasy abandonment:no 1
Fantasy rape:no 1
Fantasy gang-rape:NO
Fisting (anal):no 0
Fisting (vaginal):yes 4
Following orders:yes 3
Foot worship:no 0
Forced dressing:yes 3
Forced homosexuality:NO
Forced masturbation:yes 3
Forced nudity (private):yes 3
Forced nudity (around others):NO
Forced servitude:yes 2-4. Depends on the moment, strangely enough.
Full head hoods:no 3
Gags (cloth):no 3
Gags (rubber):yes 3
Gags (tape):no 2
Gates of Hell (male) n/a
Genital sex:yes 4 through 6
Given away to another Dom (temp):NO
Given away to another Dom (perm):NO
Golden showers:no 0
Hairbrush spankings:yes 4
Hair pulling:yes 4
Hand jobs (giving):yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving):yes 4
Harems (serving w/other subs):NO
Harnessing (leather):yes 3
Harnessing (rope):yes 4 (plus)
Choosing food for sub:no 2
Choosing clothing for sub:yes 2
Head (giving fellatio):yes 5
Head (receiving fellatio): yes 5
High heel worship:no.0.
Homage with tongue (non-sexual):no 1
Hot oils (on genitals):no 2
Hot waxing:yes 3
Housework (doing):hell no. haha 1
Human puppy dog:no 0
Humiliation (private):yes 3
Humiliation (public):no 0
Hypnotism:no 0
Ice cubes:yes 4
Infantilism:no 0
Initiation rites:no 2
Injections:NO
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:yes 4
Interrogations:no 1
Kidnapping:no 2. well, 3.
Kneeling:yes 3
Leather clothing:yes 3
restraints:yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior:yes 3
Licking (non-sexual):yes 2
Manacles & Irons:no 3-4
Manicures (giving):no 1
Massage (giving):yes 4
Massage (receiving):yes 5
Medical scenes:no 1
Modeling for erotic photos:yes 4
Mouth bits:no 2
Mummification:no 2 (curious tho')
Nipple clamps:yes 5
Nipple weights:no 3
Oral/anal play (rimming):yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking:yes 3
Orgasm denial:no 2
Orgasm control:yes 4
Outdoor scenes:no 2
Outdoor sex:no 3
Phone sex (serving Dom):no 3
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):NO
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):NO
Piercing (permanent):no 2
Prison scenes no 0
Pony slave:no 0
Public exposure:no 2
Pussy/cock whipping:yes 3-4
Pussy worship:yes. I adore my sub.
Riding crops:yes 3-4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.):no 2
Rituals:no 2
Religious scenes:NO
Restrictive rules on behavior:yes 3
Rubber/latex clothing:yes 3
Rope body harness:yes 3
Saran wrapping:no 3 (curious)
Scratching – getting:yes 3-4
Scratching – giving:yes 4-5
Sensory deprivation:yes 3-4
Serving:yes 2-3
Serving as art:no 0
Serving as ashtray:NO
Serving as furniture:no 1
Serving as a maid:yes 2-3
Serving as toilet:NO
Serving as waitress/waiter:yes 2
Serving orally (sexual):yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised):NO
Serving other Doms (unsupervised):NO
Sexual deprivation (short term):yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term):NO
Shaving (body hair):yes 4-5
Shaving (head hair):yes 0
Sleep deprivation:no 0
Sleepsacks:no 1
Slutty clothing (private):yes 3
Slutty clothing (public):yes 3
Spanking:yes 4
Spandex clothing:no. not a big BonJovi fan. 1
Speech restrictions (when, what):yes 3
Speculums (Anal):no 0
Speculums (vaginal):no 0
Spreader bars:no 4
Standing in corner:yes 3+
Stocks (adjustable):no 3-ish
Straight jackets:no 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on):yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by):yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing):yes 4
Strapping (full body beating):no 3
Suspension (upright);no 3
Suspension (inverted):no 2
Suspension (horizontal):no 2-3
Supplying new partners for Dom:NO
Swallowing semen:yes 4
Swallowing urine:NO
Swapping (with one other couple):no 0
Swinging (multiple couples):NO
Tattooing:yes 3. Not as part of a game, though.
Teasing:yes 5 (grin)
Tickling:yes. yeeeeeesss...
Triple penetration: yes 4 (w/dildo's etc)
Uniforms:no 3
Including others:no 0
Vaginal dildo:yes 5
Verbal humiliation:yes 4
Vibrator on genitals:yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others):no 2
Voyeurism (your sub w/others) NO
Video (watching others):no (not together) 2-3?
Video (recordings of you):no 3
Water torture:no 3 (4?) (intrigued)
Wearing symbolic jewelry:yes 4
Whipping yes 4
Wooden paddles:yes 4
Wrestling:yes 3 (in good fun, not serious)

[wingsofanangel]

I've been away.. but coming back re-reading this and seeing your answer Sir Russell.. I still got happy lil chill bumps on my neck ..

-giggles-

thanks again.

[Sir_Russell]

Xanthos
Your kinks differ quite a bit from mine but that is what makes the life so large.

I think well of you as a Dom since you adore your sub/slave great part of the life that far too many miss

[Xanthos]

Sir Russel,
the compliment is greatly appreciated.
I made a conscious choice not to read Mysc's list before I filed out mine, and although I'm always a bit conservative when scores are concerned it actually looks okay. It's nice to put these lists together!

[zasvig]

this is a good stuff ill be filling one out tonight and giving it to my mistress