Some of mine I could keep this up for a long time

**Wedjat** · 12-02-2007

SBBE, I had something similar on that site. I didn't even really chat much but, as I've told Sir Russell elsewhere, I just got the feeling that a lot of the guys on there just didn't LIKE women very much. Interesting that you did too. Well, like he said above, to each their own (or words to that effect : ) I'm glad I didn't give up and ended up on here.

**samzum** · 12-03-2007

#1772 ..... sweeeeet vibrations ... thanks Sir Russell

**Pertez** · 12-03-2007

Ooh i missed this Thread Thank you Sir_Russel

**Logic1** · 12-04-2007

sometimes people just behave too strange to imagine for us normal people.
And as for a Dom/Masters not loving women... all I can say is "poor them" and their subs/slaves.

another great set Russel.

**Wedjat** · 12-04-2007

Logic1 and Sir Russell, it's heartening for newbies like myself to see Doms who don't buy into the mindset of some poeple on the on other site which shall remain nameless (oh well, collarme.com - I kind of hate to give them the recognition, though). I feel sorry for the sub/slaves, like you said, as well as those so-called Doms.

I also wonder if there was a tiny bit of tongue in cheek (have to be careful whith phrases like that on here : ) on the "normal people" comment above. If so, I enjoyed it!

**Logic1** · 12-05-2007

Originally Posted by Wedjat

I also wonder if there was a tiny bit of tongue in cheek (have to be careful whith phrases like that on here : ) on the "normal people" comment above. If so, I enjoyed it!

Well yes Wedjat. There was a tiny bit of tounge in cheek but I do consider myself normal.
Not like we cant function normally in the society and were not sociopats or something like that so yes we are normal.
but yes a tad tounge in cheek is there.

**Sir_Russell** · 12-05-2007

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We are the normal ones Wedjat The rest of the world is filled with folks that call us pervs or devos and yet wonder longly how it would feel to be us.

I have a bdsm virgin coming to visit tomorrow, one that I have mentored that wants a pleasure spanking and such. I am willing to help out the cause.

**StillBehindBlueEyes** · 12-05-2007

Sir Russell
Thanks for the pictures. I just love the second, the look on her face, the way she's holding her body, the two guys talking to someone else in the back ground.

Would you be so kind as to explain what you call a pleasure spanking and what you will do with the BDSM virgin? I'm very curious.
Sbbe

**Pertez** · 12-06-2007

Great Pictures Thank you Sir_Russell

**Nikita** · 12-06-2007

Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

Sir Russell
Thanks for the pictures. I just love the second, the look on her face, the way she's holding her body, the two guys talking to someone else in the back ground.

Would you be so kind as to explain what you call a pleasure spanking and what you will do with the BDSM virgin? I'm very curious.
Sbbe

Me too.

**Sir_Russell** · 12-06-2007

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A pleasure spanking is one that is not forgotten quickly by the submissive.

First a pleasure spanking can be done in many positions and I suppose with many variations of pleasure being applied. I love this form of pain / pleasure mixture as a way to ease a new submissive into understanding how the endorphin rush converts what normally is sensed as pain into intense pleasure. I personally insist on the submissive/slave wearing cuffs, this allows you to choose different levels of bondage for the submissive/slave to fit the Dominant’s mood and style.

Now you come to selecting what the Dominate will sit on, remember the best spankings are done over the knee and with the pleasure spanking I believe that you need that kind of physical contact with your submissive/slave. In my opinion the best spankings are done on a high stool so that the submissive/slave’s legs either dangle of just touch the floor. The truth though is that any way the submissive is over your knee will work from chair to bed.

My way of doing this is simple I place myself in a seated position with my left arm lying across my lap. I then place the submissive/slave over my knee so that my left hand is touching her clit and pussy my elbow is touching her breast. The Dominate may choose to have her tied or chained into position or left free. Funny thing is that I prefer her to be free because going over my knee willingly is one of the best signs of submission.

The newer the submissive/slave is to the life the more warm up time I spend with right hand massaging the checks as the left hand teases the clit and pussy. When the submissive/slave is beginning to get into it I start the first spank. Once again the more experienced submissive/slave is the less time is needed to get her aroused. I have had submissive/slaves that got excited over the spanks so that we started with them and then added the clit, pussy teasing. No matter where you are in this progression the arousal factor will add to this experience for you both.

Some variations on this are with plugs and/or vibrators inserted and running. Another is my favorite taking breaks while spanking to use the right hand to tease her anus this can be done with or without actual entry of a finger. I have to tell you that once her ass is glowing red I love to insert a finger lubed with her own juices.

No matter how you play this out when she is cumming I smack harder to cement the relationship of the intense pleasure with the spank. If she begins to climax with your finger in her remove it so that she gets the benefit of the spank as she climaxes.

Also remember that during the spanking and anal play the right hand should be massaging her checks. This varying of sensations does much to blur the distinction of pain and pleasure. Also it extends the time the spanking takes.

Last thing on this subject is that there is no limit to the number of climaxes she can have this way. I use this as a form of reward and not for punishment. Don’t be surprised when she asks for that type of spanking. Also I insist on her only cumming with my permission allowing and teaching her the fine art of begging.

**Wedjat** · 12-07-2007

Always a pleasure to read about the pleasure spanking, Sir. *sigh* one of these days.....

As for the 'normal' comment - well, personally I have high aspirations to be a bona fide eccentric one of these days, so I'm not too worried about that : )

(oh, and my favorite pics of this last set were #5 and #8 - the corsets, doncha know.)

**StillBehindBlueEyes** · 12-07-2007

Thank you very much Sir Russell
It sounds wonderful, and extremely erotic.
I like the idea of the dominate watching you and there subbie.
Sbbe

**Sir_Russell** · 12-07-2007

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Funny how some subs fight who they are even after they know that they are submissive. I have seen this happen over and over but each time it intrigues me. Part of it is that I have found too many new submissives that were wanting to learn and scared to death at the same time.

I guess it doesn't help that I look evil. Course it also doesn't help that I love the training part of it all.

**jeanne** · 12-07-2007

Originally Posted by Sir_Russell

...too many new submissives that were wanting to learn and scared to death at the same time.

I thought that was all new submissives. It's a scary thing, you know? To give that much trust. But so worthwhile...

**Sir_Russell** · 12-08-2007

pretty jeanne,

No not all submissive are like that some know what they want and go for it but for whatever reason I am drawn to newbees that have the desire but also the fear.

**cadence** · 12-08-2007

I've dipped my toe into the waters and liked it so far.I know what I want now, but am very afraid to let go and be me.
I sometimes wish I could take it all back.

I think eventually Sir_Russell you will find the right submissive for you, and she will be one very happy and content girl.

**StillBehindBlueEyes** · 12-08-2007

Thanks Sir Russell
First in second row, Wow.

I can't imagine being so sure, that I ran toward my submission. I think that's why most of my fantasy is nonconsensual. I often wonder what I would do if suddenly the door was open to hubby dominating me. Would I give in and enjoy it or fight a bit so I would be conquered?
Sbbe

**Sir_Russell** · 12-09-2007

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I was not trying to say that it isn't a fight to let out your sub, but when you do find it at least have the courage to try it a little and then go from there.

I do understand the inner conflict and actually enjoy helping her release her sub and watching it grow. A Dom though can do nothing magical to cause you to submit, only you can make that decision. I have had subs tell me that I will never be able to have them completely bound where they can't free themselves and then within an hour begging for all the cuffs to be chained down. I should do a history about one time in particular.

I did make a mistake that night but stayed with her till she was okay. Would love to change the events in the history but then it would be a fiction and I am just not good at fiction.

**StillBehindBlueEyes** · 12-09-2007

Thanks Sir Russell #2 is one of my fav self play games.
I can imagine being faced with a Dom one on one I'd let go and enjoy. It's just one of those things you wonder about till you really get to face it.

**Wedjat** · 12-09-2007

I think I've got the courage to try it. I'd like to think so. Not sure myself how submissive I might be.

Liked the exercise equipment by the way. I was just saying I need to get into the gym more : )

**Sir_Russell** · 12-10-2007

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Today I lost my temper which happens rarely but too many things happened one after the other. Finally confronted by a resident friend, he says, that would not tell me who he was or why he was in one of the buildings. He tried to ignore me which was the last straw, scared the hell out of him and then he went out side quietly.

**Wedjat** · 12-10-2007

I should have said sooner, but these last couple of sets have been extremely hot. : )

I wanted to say in response to your post a few days ago that I don't think you look scary. Sexy though! : )

Also,although it was done in stages, I just finished all 60 pages of this thread!

**myri_SN** · 12-11-2007

Originally Posted by Sir_Russell

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I don't think I have posted this here. I wrote this to answer a lady that decided that a Dom must be a control freak.

Control Freak or Dominant

Hi Sir-Russell,

i think this is the best description of both i have ever found

**orchidsoul** · 12-12-2007

Oh what lovely images you've tantalized us with!!!!!!!!!!
These are some of the hottest to date.

Sorry there seems to be a little upset in your life of late.
I hope all works itself out well.

And damn! Your description of the spanking sounds so delightful!
Lucky girl...

**Sir_Russell** · 12-14-2007

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Things have been okay mostly orchidsoul, I will make the most out of this way of life here.

I think each of us goes through periods where we need to vent so that we can go beyond what has been bothering us.

I know that things have to get worse sometimes for things to get better and I believe I haven't seen the bottom yet but I am seeing the sun climbing higher into the sky of my life.