Why did you join this Forum?

[Tojo]

Well all the best of luck Natalie, hope you find one as nice as me!
Or as evil as me if you prefer....

Camellight, you're doing fine- a forum is just like a bunch of guys & cute girls getting together, asking questions & getting to know each other.

Hang on- it is a bunch of guys & ......

Enjoy.

Tojo

[slb_b2000]

Helllllppp everyone? I am a newbie to the lifestyle and trying to understand this wonderful Man I met online, and we are 900 miles apart although it doesn't feel like it when we are on the phone. Anyway, I am trying to get over the jealousy I feel when he talks about his past experiences with women. He feels like I am judging him and is upset and I being new am trying to not make him feel that way? Help me, I am sick to my stomach that he is so hurt, and how can I make him understand?

[subdude05]

Welcome slb_b2000, here you will find lots of usefull information, feel free to ask any questions in the forums, im sure someone can help.

Good luck finding what you are looking for,

Subdude05

[bad_duck]

Well i joined to learn. you see my girlfriend and i are very intrested in bdsm and want to learn safe ways to proceed in the experiance. can you give us any pointers.

Bad_Duck

[Aesop]

We can try. What kind of pointers are you looking for?

[subdude05]

Welcome, Bad Duck, i know of lots of threads in knowledge base and general talk that deal with safety and rough guidelines, and theres loads of stuff for and by people who are new to the scean.
Good luck and most of all have fun.
Subdude05

[little_rose]

Hi,
Just wanted to reply to the original question-
I joined the forum cuz i was looking for fiction on the net, which i found in the extensive library, yay But, in doing so, I somehow stumbled across the forum. I don't post much at all, but i love the fact that loads of people do, and also there are some regulars who contribute loads. It's great that there is a whole wealth of topics and obviously lots of interest in it;0
I keep coming back- because I have not found another place where people are so open about their sexual tastes, and where it is OKAY to be different, and explore that difference. I love it here.

[submissivewife]

little_rose I am glad you are comfortable here. I too took a while on getting around to posting much here but have been having fun since I decided to go for it.....I love it here as well.

[Tojo]

Helllllppp everyone? I am a newbie to the lifestyle and trying to understand this wonderful Man I met online, and we are 900 miles apart although it doesn't feel like it when we are on the phone. Anyway, I am trying to get over the jealousy I feel when he talks about his past experiences with women. He feels like I am judging him and is upset and I being new am trying to not make him feel that way? Help me, I am sick to my stomach that he is so hurt, and how can I make him understand?

Easy girl- this stuff is meant to be fun! Just slow down & get to know him a bit, before jumping right in.

If he doesn't like you being jealous, maybe he shouldn't talk about other women??

If you want to know things, you'll have to give us a bit more information & ask specific questions. All relationships are different, regardless of what the so-called experts may say. You just have to find what works for you- that's something you have to work out with your new chap!

All said & done, it's not worth getting sick over.

Tojo

[EnolaGay]

Just to see what other people are "into" im new to the whole community. And didnt realise there were names for subs and dommes. And that certain things I like were fettishes. (sorry about my spelling its awful) So im a bit too innocent when it comes to talking about it, im hoping you guys will be kind and patient.

[Tojo]

Hi & welcome EG- thanks for introducing yourself.

I'm sure there's a few patient people here, just ignore the ones that aren't.

Don't be afraid to ask questions, or PM likely people, we're all learning.

Enjoy.

Tojo

[submissivewife]

Just to see what other people are "into" im new to the whole community. And didnt realise there were names for subs and dommes. And that certain things I like were fettishes. (sorry about my spelling its awful) So im a bit too innocent when it comes to talking about it, im hoping you guys will be kind and patient.

Welcome to the lifestyle EnolaGay. Don't be afraid to share your fears and ideas. Many are here to help you out and answer your questions.

[Ozme52]

No worries EG. I'm sure before too long you'll become comfortable here. If you've looked around, there's not a lot of impatience here, so join in. Before too long you'll be "dabomb" here.

[EnolaGay]

I like the "dad joke".
I had a flat mate called Bertie Basset but we had to chuck him out becuse he was up to....
allsorts!
That was my dads favorate joke for a long time, it makes me smile.

[subdude05]

Welcome EnolaGay, dont worry about your spelling, mines awfull too.

Have fun

Subdude05

[_ID_]

Joined to learn more. simple as that.

[HDuesler]

I came to this forum because I am pretty new to the lifestyle and I am trying to educate myself. It also helps to see I am not alone. I see a lot of myself in many peoples stories. I could also use some one to talk to who understands my thoughts and feelings as well as who will give me sound advice.

[Tojo]

I'm all ears HDuesler, PM me anytime you want-

Tojo

[submissivewife]

HDuesler and IDCrewDawg- don't be shy there a many here who are very willing and able to answer your questions. Enjoy!

[Aesop]

Welcome to the forums folks.

[ticklish]

I joined to learn more about this lifestyle. I had heard of it before, but never really understood it. I keep coming back for the online friendships.

[Tojo]

Welcome ticklish- yes those online friendships can be reallll nice.


I've been interested in this stuff most of my life, & still don't really understand it!

Hope you have a great time here.

Tojo

[Uncle_Ed]

Hi!

In the words of the Bishop:

I'm here to let my altar ego run loose.

[cariad]

Why did I come in the first place - because Uncle Ed kept talking about the place.

Why have I stayed - because he has made it past 150 and I have not. I am not going to let him have that one over me. And having a lot of fun in the process.

[Krafty]

I joined to learn more. Not sure I want to go real time, but exploring like this I think I can handle. Hope this helps

[cariad]

I joined to learn more. Not sure I want to go real time, but exploring like this I think I can handle. Hope this helps

It was lovely to meet you in the chatroom Krafty, and we all look forward getting to know you better, and maybe sharing experiences as and when you are ready.

Play safe, be true to yourself - and remember you can always say NO!

cariad

[Silke]

Hiya Krafty
Nice to meet you! Hope you find something interesting while you're here - it sure is a nice and safe place to explore.

Silke

[submissivewife]

Krafy hope you enjoy as you explore.

[Aesop]

Welcome to the forums Krafty.

[Avarice]

Hiya! I joined this forum a few times... Chickened out a few times... And now I'm pretty sure I'm gonna stay :3

I'm in a relationship with a guy (he didn't TURN me from lesbianism, I just ACCIDENTALLY became attracted to his dick... and him <3) who I'm very much in love with. We're getting married just as soon as we get our house, in fact!

It's because I felt like I was cheating on Creature that I kept leaving, but I am very much into BDSM and he is only to an extent... But I don't want to force my fetishes on him when he's not ready/comfortable, so I figured that this would be a safe and friendly place to at least discuss it =) The people here seem very warm and funny, which is beyond awesome.

I'm rambling, sooo... In a nutshell... I came here to roleplay, chat, and make friends