Feedback from new subs?

[Tojo]

Yeah geez did you read the whole thread Warbaby? I just had a bit of a look to be honest.

Tojo

[Warbaby1943]

Yeah geez did you read the whole thread Warbaby? I just had a bit of a look to be honest.

Tojo

Tojo,

Yeah I read the entire thread. Even followed the links it offered. I can't dispute most of what was said but, as stated earlier, I do not consider myself an adulterer for having visited a professional. I wonder how others feel about that statement. Maybe I'll start another thread with a question along those lines.

[Neil]

Well I'm new here, and you guys seem great. I've joined a couple of other BDSM sites in the past but they all seemed very cliquey, not too friendly to newbies and in some cases quite hostile to switches so I never ended up staying for long. I was pleased at the warm welcome I got here and feel that when I find my way around more I'll end up learning a hell of a lot, and making some good friends.

• What do you expect from a dom? It is a power exchange.
• Do you feel comfortable enough to ask these questions without fear of being judged?

I don't think I fully know what I expect as I'm not that experienced. I know I expect to be cared for, to be pushed to my limits but never over them, to be able to talk openly about everything and to retain some small level of choice. Beyond that I don't really know?

Yes. And to anyone who is fearful of being judged, remember; your own judgement is the most important.

[Warbaby1943]

Well I'm new here, and you guys seem great. I've joined a couple of other BDSM sites in the past but they all seemed very cliquey, not too friendly to newbies and in some cases quite hostile to switches so I never ended up staying for long. I was pleased at the warm welcome I got here and feel that when I find my way around more I'll end up learning a hell of a lot, and making some good friends.

I just recently joined and I also found these people very friendly and most helpful.

If you have questions which they can help you with, all you have to do is ask. Enjoy.

[frankee]

As a new sub, things are going great for me. That's not to say that there hasn't been a few hiccups along the way. For instance, one time W/we we're online chatting and my Domme asked me a question and i replied in a manner that was not pleasing to Her. She corrected me of course but when i hesitated to answer correctly again, She refused to speak to me and left Her computer for what seemd to me to be an eternity. At first, i sat there thinking, 'what just happened?' , then it dawned on me, i was being taught a lesson. i hate the silent treatment more than anything else (which i never told Her), but She knows me well enough, to know that would get my attention and give me a firm kick in the ass. lol
At times i know that i frustrate the hell out of Her and She does have Her hands full with me. i am very stubborn but She takes it all in stride and knows how to handle me. (but secretly i think She likes my fiestiness lol).
So, i am very grateful for Mistress' patience.
This Forum has been great and look forward to learning from all the experienced ones.
frankee

Proud sub of Mistress Cindy

[Warbaby1943]

frankee, I think you'll really like it here. It is a great place for like-minded people.

[wkcbitch]

It would be nice to hear back from a few more subs new to the lifestyle.

How it's going? What's good or bad? Are we supportive enough & not too overbearing?

I often wonder what happens to the ones we answer questions from & wonder if they're OK.

Have you found that perfect Dom/me?

I for one really appreciate the thanks I get- you guys are all special. Remember without subs, being a Dom would be pretty damn pointless....


Tojo

First of all thank you for the inquary! I have only been a sub for a whild now and acutally have a hard time with submission. And I get in my punishment for it. You see though, I like getting the punishment and sometimes push buttons to get it. But then my master gets upset because I am trying his patients. I like to submit too but at times i feel alittle frisky!

No one has ever been too pushy or rude. I greatly like this place.....I feel comfortable here. And I agree if it weren't for subs...doms would have a lot of pent up aggression. LOL, which i adore!

[submissivewife]

. You see though, I like getting the punishment and sometimes push buttons to get it. I like to submit too but at times i feel alittle frisky!

I've see this on a few occasions....actually left her house on a few occasions because I knew she was in for it......*giggles* (should see the smile on her face later )

[wkcbitch]

I've see this on a few occasions....actually left her house on a few occasions because I knew she was in for it......*giggles* (should see the smile on her face later )

Master likes it too!! The smiles later that is. LOL!

[submissivewife]

Master likes it too!! The smiles later that is. LOL!

I bet he does!

[wkcbitch]

I bet he does!

LOL!

[bedlam_racin01]

i am a sub as well as new to the scene, i have done some bondage and punishment an sub mistress with a friend who has since moved away and have lost contact with her, i just found this site today and hop ei can be more active in the scen ethan i am now.


My name is cole and pm me anytime

cole

[submissivewife]

Welcome Cole (I just love that name). If you are seeking a Mistress post a personal...i'm sure you'll find some to interest you.

[Silke]

Hiya Cole and to the forums.

[wkcbitch]

Welcome Cole! I am new too. I enjoy it here. EVERONE has been so pleasant and nice. Enjoy your stay here! (by the way my name is Kari)

[wkcbitch]

Welcome Cole (I just love that name). If you are seeking a Mistress post a personal...i'm sure you'll find some to interest you.

I want one too!

[submissivewife]

I want one too!

*giggles* if that is so sister dear, POST IT IN THE PERSONALS! But I think you are just being ornery!

[wkcbitch]

*giggles* if that is so sister dear, POST IT IN THE PERSONALS! But I think you are just being ornery!

It is a consideration though!! A pleasant thought...maybe I will be someones mistress someday.?

[Tojo]

Yeah well just look at subwife's avatar wkcbitch- you just never know what kind of evil persona you may end up with here.

Just remember to ask Master first....

Tojo

[wkcbitch]

Yeah well just look at subwife's avatar wkcbitch- you just never know what kind of evil persona you may end up with here.

Just remember to ask Master first....

Tojo

Ty Tojo...and I do have permission to have a mistress....and I do hope to end up with an "evil persona".

[Warbaby1943]

Ty Tojo...and I do have permission to have a mistress....and I do hope to end up with an "evil persona".

You go girl and good luck with your quest. Wow, I think I wish I had known you and your sister when I was much, much younger, I think I would have forgone my own submissive tendencies for twins like you two.

[submissivewife]

and I do hope to end up with an "evil persona".

end up? You are already there!

[wkcbitch]

You go girl and good luck with your quest. Wow, I think I wish I had known you and your sister when I was much, much younger, I think I would have forgone my own submissive tendencies for twins like you two.

TY! I am going to work on it.....guess I am discovering new things about me! Yeah!

[wkcbitch]

end up? You are already there!

Yea! So watch out BRAT!!!

[dzire2pleeze]

I have yet to formally introduce myself, but - for over a month now - i have taken advantage of and enjoyed the information in the forums. Those that i have spoken to, mostly on technical issues, have graciously assisted me. Not once was i made to feel like the computer illiterate i am.
Having had only one dominant, i am relatively new at this. Nevertheless, I believe that i came to this life with a submissive spirit that lay dormant until my former dominant reached into the depths of my soul and defined me. For that I am grateful.
I am also appreciative of the dominant, who, in passing, referred me to this site. I have entertained myself with the stories and had great conversations with some (notice the word some) of the people in the chat room. Actually, most of the people. Not everyone can be perfect. ~smiling~ not even me.

Anyway, i suppose this is a formal introduction (albeit in the wrong place), but I wanted to let others know that I am here and now you are stuck with me. I will not disappear. The end.

dzire.

[submissivewife]

dzire2pleeze hope you enjoy....Thanks for your introduction. It's great when you have a mentor to help guide you along. For that I am eternally grateful to Sir for teaching me and being my friend. Enjoy!

[submissivewife]

Yea! So watch out BRAT!!!

[wkcbitch]

I have yet to formally introduce myself, but - for over a month now - i have taken advantage of and enjoyed the information in the forums. Those that i have spoken to, mostly on technical issues, have graciously assisted me. Not once was i made to feel like the computer illiterate i am.
Having had only one dominant, i am relatively new at this. Nevertheless, I believe that i came to this life with a submissive spirit that lay dormant until my former dominant reached into the depths of my soul and defined me. For that I am grateful.
I am also appreciative of the dominant, who, in passing, referred me to this site. I have entertained myself with the stories and had great conversations with some (notice the word some) of the people in the chat room. Actually, most of the people. Not everyone can be perfect. ~smiling~ not even me.

Anyway, i suppose this is a formal introduction (albeit in the wrong place), but I wanted to let others know that I am here and now you are stuck with me. I will not disappear. The end.

dzire.

Hello Dzire, I look forward to getting to know you. I to am new to this lifestyle...(sadly, I will mention we ended our relationship this morning) and feel I still have more to learn to. It is glad to meet you I hope you enjoy it here. Everyone is very pleasant. (just watch out for subwife )

[Warbaby1943]

dzire2pleeze hi and You'll enjoy it here. Glad to have you aboard.

[submissivewife]

Hello Dzire, I look forward to getting to know you. I to am new to this lifestyle...(sadly, I will mention we ended our relationship this morning) and feel I still have more to learn to. It is glad to meet you I hope you enjoy it here. Everyone is very pleasant. (just watch out for subwife )

that's not nice to say about your sister!