Forced heel wearing on a male

[Ballet9heelsM]

Hello I am a 50yo married male and married 25 years.Shortly after we married,my kinky wife,who also likes little bondage games,locked me into an outrageous pair of ballet heel boots.Those torture boots are not really made for walking and I was stuck for a whole weekend in them.Now my private life at home has been very often wearing heels(lowest being 5&#168,corsets and often hobbeled.I wonder if many other males have ever been in such situations,as it is not a common for a woman to want her hubby to wear such things?What do women think of such a situation,as normally women guard their precious heels as if it was gold??

Ballet9heelsM

[Ballet9heelsM]

From what I see,there are a lot of viewers of my comments,but no one seems to have the same situation as I am living.Probably think I am a perverted guy dreaming.Not the case.Still i would love to hear if someone have ever lived something close to what I am living.

[MsUther]

I dont think anyone finds you more perverted than the rest of us, we are all a jolly bunch of kinky people
Being a female, i have never been in your situation, but i hope someone here have and wants to share their experiences.

Welcome to the forum

[jennyfer]

As a woman, i certainly guard my heels as gold! But my Master has no desire to wear them and even if he did we wouldn't be even close to the same size.
I think they're an interesting an creative way to limit movement or even to make you more aware of how you move. I've never worn ballet boots, I'm pretty sure my feet are too small, but I should imagine they take a lot of skill.
Heels for me are just another way of looking and feeling more feminine, but I'd be interested to know from a male point of view what you get from it?
Is it just the bondage side of it you like? The implied femininity? or something altogether different?

[Ballet9heelsM]

Interesting comments from you,Jennyfer.Well I might try to answer from a man's point of view.From what I can understand from women and my wife,heels ,like they say are just a way of feeling more feminine,but there is a lot more than that.If it is just to feel more feminine,then normal heels should have the same effect,but when so many women wear very high heels to places they should go lower on heels,and then have very sore feet,can you tell me it is logical and there are no addiction behind it6.
For my part,it was my wife,who by the way,has been vearing outrageous heels since early teenage,who started making me wear heels.It was very contrary to my tastes then,there were a few arguments at first.As you know ,women can charm a man into doing just about anything.I am not really complaining here.As a man I grew to enjoy heels,mostly because they are so different and sexy compared to bulky male footwear.it is a mind feeling,not very logical also,but I believe a man or a woman can get to enjoy things ,no matter what gender they are designed for.Does that make sense?

[Ballet9heelsM]

MsUther,as a female you have the choice to wear whatever you like,wether male style clothing,which most women do wear when they feel like it,ot the sexiest of feminine things.You never have to think of them as forbidden to you.men are different,they have to stay in a very conservative mode so the women stand out instead of them.that is reality.If you were on our side of the fence ,you would see it from a totally different angle.
My wife confessed to me that she missed the sharing complicity she had with her other two sisters,and by convincing me to share some of her passion,it was like she was also getting that soft female side she had with her sisters.Not very logical,I agree but then,feelings are not always logical

[Ballet9heelsM]

Seems like I am the only male is such a situation.Well I was just curious about that.thanks to the two lovely ladies who placed their comments.I will consider myself unique.Ha! Ha!

[Ballet9heelsM]

I dont think anyone finds you more perverted than the rest of us, we are all a jolly bunch of kinky people
Being a female, i have never been in your situation, but i hope someone here have and wants to share their experiences.

Welcome to the forum

MsUther,
if the picture next to your name ,is you,I have to compliment you on your appearence.Seems you like tit torture and gags.I bet there is a lot we don't see on the picture.

[Timberwolf]

I find this an intersting thread, I can could see myself woking someting like this into my sub play, though I don't think it is something I would enjoy enough to do full time. But I admit, there is some interest to the idea of a bit of "feminization". Though how it would look on me I don't know, I think I'd make one hella-ugly drag queen if you went all out with it (and I'm not sure I'd want to go *that* far anyway). Wearing heels, I'd consider it but I don't know where you'd get them in my size, lol.

I have certainly come to appreciate certain qualities of certain women's shoes though. I think fashion, in itself, can be a very interesting form of bondage between partners. Dictating even a single item of clothing to wear, as a sign of your bond. Women's shoes on a man is as fine an example as anything else.

[Ballet9heelsM]

Timberwolf,
Thanks for your input on the subject,I can understand your concern on trying to find heels in your size.If you have a long foot,the web has plenty of heels in large men's sizes,the problem comes when you have a wide foot,then it is very hard to find heels.I have a very narrow foot so when I get the right size,they fit ok.
Still heels will restrict anyone's movements and where you can go in them.Like you said,in bondage,heels can be used to limit one's ability to move freely.
Even if I have years of training in wearing such outrageous footwear at home mostly,I have great respect when I see women wearing them everyday and I can understand why so many complain of tired feet.
Thanks again for your input.

[MajesticFae]

Wow. Ballet boots. Those amaze me. I'm not even comfortable in normal heels. I have weird feet though and they don't fit so well into normal heels because normal heels aren't wide enough right below the toes for my feet. But kudos to you! =)

[Ballet9heelsM]

Hey majesticface,
just saw your profile and you are still very young and have lots of time to learn to handle heels.Mind you my heels are not the average daily footwear and managing them is more like to prevent falling on my face.I would say tame them more the word,which allows me to move around the house as long as I don't have too much standing work to do.But they are outrageously facinating footwear just the same.Hope you get to handle heels well as you get older.

[gagged_Louise]

Many subs turn on to boots or ballet shoes (quite different but both kinds are very feminine). I remember about five years ago reading a post on an internet board from a guy in Canada who was hooked on the fantasy of dressing up in a full ballerina dress - tutu, ballet shoes, tricot stockings, the lot - and then being bound and gagged. I can see the fascination, but still think it was exquisitely weirdo

[Ballet9heelsM]

Hello gagged_Louise,

I do agree with you that a full grown male all decked up in a ballet outfit,can appear weirdo.
Also the facination for heels by subs,I believe it is the total restriction very high heel wearing can do.Me,even if I am not sub,the first feeling I got was a sense of vulnerability.Makes a person feel unsteady and limited in movements.For a male that is something we never worry about as our clothing and footwear allows us all the flexibility we need,not so with heels.Guess that is why some men are so facinated with heels.Do you agree??

[less_is_more_2005]

Hi This is an interesting thread. I'm male and I love wearing heels. Several years ago I had the pleasure of being led around a huge dungeon party (hundreds of people) wearing 6-inch heels, pink thigh-high stockings, handcuffs, and a parachute with leash attached. I felt so vulnerable. If you've never walked in high heels with your hands cuffed behind your back you might be surprised at how difficult it is and how vulnerable it can make you feel.

I attracted a lot of attention. Most of the women thought it was hysterical to see me struggle in the shoes. Lots of people offered comments and advice on my technique but most of the people just laughed. It was an excellent humiliation scene. One of the best I ever had.

I doubt I'd enjoy wearing them all the time, but I'd sure like to wear them more often than I do.

[Ballet9heelsM]

Hi This is an interesting thread. I'm male and I love wearing heels. Several years ago I had the pleasure of being led around a huge dungeon party (hundreds of people) wearing 6-inch heels, pink thigh-high stockings, handcuffs, and a parachute with leash attached. I felt so vulnerable. If you've never walked in high heels with your hands cuffed behind your back you might be surprised at how difficult it is and how vulnerable it can make you feel.

I attracted a lot of attention. Most of the women thought it was hysterical to see me struggle in the shoes. Lots of people offered comments and advice on my technique but most of the people just laughed. It was an excellent humiliation scene. One of the best I ever had.

I doubt I'd enjoy wearing them all the time, but I'd sure like to wear them more often than I do.

I see you had a very sexy kinky experience,something to remember.Believe me I do know how it is like to wear 6¨heels and even much higher and with the hands behind your back.I have spent many hours with my arms in a singleglove,so that is worst than just hands tied behind.Walking in outrageous heels is agony then.If you have spent a few hours in 6¨heels,try a full weekend,that is an experience.
It is true women like humiliating a male trying to handle heels.They are proud of being good and experienced in heels while we are not.It gives them the feeling of power over us then.My first time in heels was for a costume party my wife took me,both dressed as hookers.I was in my first heels,5¨spike strappy sandals for a full evening.it was quite a shock.Strangely most of the women there commented on my heels more than the outrageous costume,intrigued that I could stand and walk in such heels.They would have had more fun laughing at me if I had fallen on my face in them.Anyway it was still a memorable evening.I am happy you shared your experiences with me,great.

[less_is_more_2005]

You're making me jealous! I think I'd really enjoy going to a costume party dressed as a hooker. Oh well, somewhere there is a Domme with a great sense of humor that will get tons of entertainment out of me