humiliation

[Nikita]

my most humiliating adventure was when my lover piss in my ass in private[

Would you describe the feelings of humiliation when he did that? Also, how did it feel when he pissed in your ass?

I'm curious as I've read that others have done this, but they never explained or shed light on it further. Thanks in advance.

[kamuishima]

The most humiliating thing my boyfriend ever forced me to do was to striptease in front of his friends. But what made it even worse was the fact that I still had the butt plug and dildo inserted in me from the day before and I was wet. I don't like to striptease in front of strangers since my physical attributes are very different from normal individuals (I am a hermaphrodite). Some of the guys freaked while the other guys started to grope me. I felt a like a common cheap whore. In the end my boyfriend patted me on the head and left me with his friends to do what they like with me. It was one of the worst humiliating experiences of my life.

[Mistress M]

The most humiliating thing my boyfriend ever forced me to do was to striptease in front of his friends. But what made it even worse was the fact that I still had the butt plug and dildo inserted in me from the day before and I was wet. I don't like to striptease in front of strangers since my physical attributes are very different from normal individuals (I am a hermaphrodite). Some of the guys freaked while the other guys started to grope me. I felt a like a common cheap whore. In the end my boyfriend patted me on the head and left me with his friends to do what they like with me. It was one of the worst humiliating experiences of my life.

But was it also the most satisfying?

[servent_o]

My most Humiliating thing was wen my Weife (Mistress} took me to the Tattoo Shop and told the Femal Tattoo Ladie tat i am Her slave and She wants my SRN Number tattoode an my Ass and Private property above my Shaved Dick in Red. Then the most Humiliation was ,she wans her initials Tattoot on the head of my Dick.My Weife wet outside with the Artist wen the came back the artist told me to stripe my Weife Handcufs me and the Laught the hole time.

[Nikita]

My most Humiliating thing was wen my Weife (Mistress} took me to the Tattoo Shop and told the Femal Tattoo Ladie tat i am Her slave and She wants my SRN Number tattoode an my Ass and Private property above my Shaved Dick in Red. Then the most Humiliation was ,she wans her initials Tattoot on the head of my Dick.My Weife wet outside with the Artist wen the came back the artist told me to stripe my Weife Handcufs me and the Laught the hole time.

That sounds like a hot humiliation experience. Did it hurt when you got tatooed on the head of your dick?

[servent_o]

Nikita yes it hurt, the moore it hurt the moore the laught.Next She wants Nippel Rings on Me and a Prinze Albert instahlt just cant wait Ha.

[Nikita]

Nikita yes it hurt, the moore it hurt the moore the laught.Next She wants Nippel Rings on Me and a Prinze Albert instahlt just cant wait Ha.

I had some trouble with the last 5 words. Did you say 'installed just can't wait. Ha?'

Does that mean you want to be pierced? It sounds like you enjoy pleasing your mistress and will do whatever she tells you. Is that correct?

If that is correct, you are a lucky sub and your mistress is having a grand old time with you.

[servent_o]

Yes Nikita She is my Wife(Mistress) and she has my Signature an Her Slave Contract.I am her to serve in al forms.My Mistress told me to tell you,wen she is don with the Pierceing She sends you a Picture from Me.Her Slogan Males ar her to serve Females.

[kamuishima]

But was it also the most satisfying?

No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.

[Mistress M]

No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.

That is unfortunate. It was beyond what you were willing to submit to. I assume that now you know how to handle potential situations like that.

Humiliation in D/s and it's connection to self-esteem is difficult to dissect because of the very fine line that connects the two. The objective of responsible D/s is to be aware that the humiliation in play does not spill over into real life self-esteem.

[jennyfer]

The most humiliating thing I ever did was fall down a manhole. I'm guessing that's not what you're looking for though. I wasnt even naked, or being groped by teenagers or anything.

[disturbed]

The most humiliating time was when a cousin sister of mine made me masturbate in front of her friends. As i came they started clapping.

Coming to think of it now, it was also very pleasurable

[Qmoq]

Cor, I like this thread. I've nothing to add, except to respond to an earlier post wondering whether these threads are ignored - they're not if they're this good. Grins.

Well, I would like to do one thing - laugh heartily at jennyfer's comment!

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[Blue_Monday]

Someone mentioned earlier having a lover piss on their ass. I've done this in private and really enjoy it--I've been both the pisser and the pissee. :-) It's always been in the shower, so it's not really humiliating or dirty for us. It just feels warm and very intimate, and playful, like kids who aren't shy about using the toilet in front of each other.

My favorite little humiliation is having my bf come on my breasts. We did this just today in the shower--I knelt down and jacked him off onto my soapy chest. It's not genuinely humiliating, it just feels like kind of a dirty, slutty thing to do. Right up my alley!

[katie_21]

hmm...well I've never really considered this part. I guess cause it's almost impossible to humiliate me lol.

(I do that enough by myself!!)

[Tojo]

hmm...well I've never really considered this part. I guess cause it's almost impossible to humiliate me lol.

(I do that enough by myself!!)

Shows how little you know missy.

Tojo

[Nikita]

Cor, I like this thread. I've nothing to add, except to respond to an earlier post wondering whether these threads are ignored - they're not if they're this good. Grins.

Well, I would like to do one thing - laugh heartily at jennyfer's comment!

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Pardon my question Qmog, but does "Cor" mean?

[Mistress Florence]

Cor is an English exclaimation like 'gosh' or 'golly'.. like 'cor blimey, that was a really good session Mistress' for an example

[Qmoq]

Thanks Florence! Yes, that was the context in which I used the word. Gadzooks, I do like using words like that.

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[Warbaby1943]

My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control. Maybe she knew this would happen but I had no idea it would. I had a lot of new experiences that day but cumming like that was very humiliating.

[playme]

Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----

after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.

[playme]

oops accident double posted

[orchid]

i used to find it really humiliating when my Master would have me fellate him infront of His friends but now i quite enjoy it!

[gagged_Louise]

My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control.

Warbaby 1943: Yes, I see how messy and humiliating that could be - just like that in this schoolboy position.
Being into crossdressing myself and letting that help my submissive side, in a wide sense, one of the more humiliating things I could think of (and not humiliating in a sweet way, nothing I'd want to see happen) would be if I were playing around, dressed en femme with panties, skirt, filled-in bra, lipstick etc with two or three others - guys or ladies. And then, as I'm getting stiff and erect - I try to avoid that happening all of a sudden - one of them would sort of break the rules and say in a cold, nasty tone "Yeah, look at that slaveboy, how you turned him on" and seizing my crotch. It's part of the game then that you want to be seen as a woman, you want no reference to anything else, you want to be fucked and caressed, made to surrender and treated as a woman, vene if it's harsh. "Dirty little whore" would be no problem , but never "slave boy" in that state.

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----

after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.

Now in my view something like this is not what I'd think would be
the focus or lynch pin that secures the bond between
D/s-Master/slave.

This sounds more like a one way situation to boost
the master's ego and possibly reaffirm his own image
in his mind and not really doing much justice in the true sense
of a D/s relationship.

I'm not saying you're anywhere at fault in this Playme, I just happen
to think your master was off the mark in what his overall aim was.

It doesn't sound like he was giving you much to feel good about
yourself in serving him and that has to be a part of things as well.

I believe there has to be a sense that although someone assumes
the sub role they also need to gain something in return and not be
there solely to validate a master's role in his mind or those who
might view his actions.

I stress this again that I'm not faulting Playme in this in anyway,
just an opinion that I think she didn't get what she sounded to
be worthy of receiving in a D/s-slave realtionship.

I'll even go so far as to say that this type of activity has its
merits and can be enjoyed by both provided both are receiving
some benefit from it and it's not done with solely the master
in mind.

[playme]

Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from. But surly I digress... sorry
I've moved well beyond serving myself up to those who delights have only risen to a height that is easily derived by use of such hmmmm "childish" games.
It was a far greater decesive moment which formed the bond that will forever hold me and keep me deeply committed and endeared to remain with the One I am in service to today.
As maybe you've picked up if you've read any couple of my previous posts -- I feel I am mose keenly aware than some of what diferences there are between good and evil, right and wrong, being under respectable control and subjected to forceful inflictions of abuse.
The irony is that it took going through the bad experiences to gain the depth of understanding how good the good really is.
It makes for a complete new mindset and a more comfortable willingness to give myself freely and willingly up to the One I know without doubt I can trust not to do me wrong in prcess of doing His things.
It's not about games and power and being held reign AT ALL. .
Point blank, bottom line it's about respect and trust and that is all.
The rest is left to what ever I am required to give of mysef to see His pure pleasures be taken as ever as He may so desires to have me take them.

I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from.

I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.

Thank you as well Playme for sharing a part of what's inside your
heart through your posts here.

For being brave enough to see through clear eyes and know even
in D/s that caring and compassion go hand in hand with
honor and obedience.

[Misato36]

The most humiliating thing that my master did to me included his best friend. My master had told me to get myself ready in his room which I did by stripping myself and then starting to fondle myself. My master always liked me prepared for him. Several minutes later he came and told me to blinfold myself. I complied and allowed him to cuff me to the bed post. He then told me that he would return in five minutes and would fuck me but that I would not be allowed to talk to him. I agreed and five minutes he returned and fucked me senseless. I was surprised because he was very rough and harsh. He would usually arouse and play with me but he did no such thing this time. After he finished he took off my blind fold to reveal not my master but his best friend. My true master smirked and explained that I truly belonged to him and that he could do whatever he wished with me. I was humiliated because I felt violated.

[Silke]

...yet again my question - did you enjoy the humiliation or did you feel violated as you said? The scenes you describe are really hot...I'm just wondering whether you got anything out of them. Somehow it doesn't sound like that to me from what you say, but I might be waaay off on that. I'd love to know more - thanks for sharing yet again.

[sarahgetswet]

My most humiliating adventure to date, has been the once or twice when my Dom has me remove my bra, and he unbottons my blouse to just below the boobs, and has me bending over and reaching in stores, so anyone nearby can get a glimpse of my breasts.

Actually, it's humiliating because I only have mosquito-sized breasts, and am in my 40's, so to me, it's like: who the hell WANTS to see my little bumps???

me me me - i love small breasts