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    punishment box

    I'm making a punishment box does anyone have any ideas to add this box?

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    Do you mean a box of punishment tools, or a box in which to put the punishee?

    If the latter, I've occasionally thought that an excellent starting point would be a derelict one of those refrigerators that has a little built-in freezer on top with a separate door. I picture cutting a neck-sized slot in the partitions between the two, so that the occupant's body is in the main compartment (which should just about take someone scrunched up), and hir head is in the box on top. So you can open the lower door to attend to the body without hir being able to see what is coming (the insulation in the freezer skin will also make it hard to hear anything outside, so it functions as an isolation box apart from anything else), or open the upper door to ask if sie is sorry enough yet.

    What happens in the box is another story, but I'm sure you'll get lots of imaginative suggestions.
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    It needs speakers and an audio jack so you can play annoying children's songs on infinite repeat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
    It needs speakers and an audio jack so you can play annoying children's songs on infinite repeat.
    Oh ... Oz, that's just ... oh, my.

    You cruel, cruel man.

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    I was talking about a punishment box in which I would have a bunch of punishments to pick from like say my sub is being a very bad girl she would get to pick sumthing out of the box not knowin what it would be I mean I have some ideas I'm jus lookin for more

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    Quote Originally Posted by leo9 View Post
    Do you mean a box of punishment tools, or a box in which to put the punishee?

    If the latter, I've occasionally thought that an excellent starting point would be a derelict one of those refrigerators that has a little built-in freezer on top with a separate door. I picture cutting a neck-sized slot in the partitions between the two, so that the occupant's body is in the main compartment (which should just about take someone scrunched up), and hir head is in the box on top. So you can open the lower door to attend to the body without hir being able to see what is coming (the insulation in the freezer skin will also make it hard to hear anything outside, so it functions as an isolation box apart from anything else), or open the upper door to ask if sie is sorry enough yet.

    What happens in the box is another story, but I'm sure you'll get lots of imaginative suggestions.
    Maybe i miss understand but... wouldn't that be dangerous without air holes in the freezer section? After all it is punishment but i would think suffocation would not be a completely effective punishment in the end. Your break your toys you can't play with your toys after all.

    (And while it may be obvious that air holes, etc. would be needed to most... there is probably that ONE person out there it isn't obvious too... so better safe then sorry!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by leo9 View Post
    Do you mean a box of punishment tools, or a box in which to put the punishee?
    Step one, make a hole in the box.

    Step two, put your sub in the box...

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    I am sure airholes could be added to a box like this...

    So, do you want suggestions for punishments to put in the box or how to make the box?

    Personally, I think the sub should make and decorate the box and you then decide if it is worthy or not...

    One possibility, see if you can get a hold of a 100 sided dice or two 10 sided dice (hint - try roleplay shops). Use that to determine the number of strokes from any punishment (if it is two ten siders buy them in different colours - one determines the tens the other the units so a 0 and a 1 is '1' and a 0 and a 0 is 100 etc). Then you can put a load of cards with names of implements in it - crop, tawse, single tailed whip, paddle, hair brush etc. So, when punishment is required she picks out a card and if it is an implement she has to also roll the dice to see how many strokes with it.

    You can also use the dice to dertermine time of punishment - i.e. if the card has on it something like 'Stand in corner' or 'wear nipple clamps' or 'no cumming' the dice determines the number of days, weeks, hours, minutes etc depending on what the punishment is. You may have to adjust the dice roll for some punishments (i.e. nipple clamps should not be on for more than 15 minutes without adjustment) but you could get different dice (seriously, you can get 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 and 20 sided dice - use whatever combinations you feel appropriate).

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    Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
    I am sure airholes could be added to a box like this...

    So, do you want suggestions for punishments to put in the box or how to make the box?

    Personally, I think the sub should make and decorate the box and you then decide if it is worthy or not...

    One possibility, see if you can get a hold of a 100 sided dice or two 10 sided dice (hint - try roleplay shops). Use that to determine the number of strokes from any punishment (if it is two ten siders buy them in different colours - one determines the tens the other the units so a 0 and a 1 is '1' and a 0 and a 0 is 100 etc). Then you can put a load of cards with names of implements in it - crop, tawse, single tailed whip, paddle, hair brush etc. So, when punishment is required she picks out a card and if it is an implement she has to also roll the dice to see how many strokes with it.

    You can also use the dice to dertermine time of punishment - i.e. if the card has on it something like 'Stand in corner' or 'wear nipple clamps' or 'no cumming' the dice determines the number of days, weeks, hours, minutes etc depending on what the punishment is. You may have to adjust the dice roll for some punishments (i.e. nipple clamps should not be on for more than 15 minutes without adjustment) but you could get different dice (seriously, you can get 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 and 20 sided dice - use whatever combinations you feel appropriate).

    Damn roleplayer lol
    Yeah I used to be one too hehe. Fun times before sex and women came into the picture hahaha.
    I do love your ideas for sure. Might implement something like that myself..
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    I'm personally not a big fan of random selection of punishments. I think punishment should come directly from the decision of the dominant: "You did that, therefore this will happen." The danger with random selection is that it may result in a severe punishment for a relatively minor transgression; or vice-versa allowing the submissive to "get away" with something big while receiving a light consequence.

    In my opinion, there should be a distinct line between punishment and play, even if there are overlaps in the instruments/activities. Punishment is intended to ultimately correct an undesirable behavior, so it should be more logical.

    Now the random idea works well for me as a play tool. "Let's roll the dice and see how lucky you are ... oh, you poor dear."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
    It needs speakers and an audio jack so you can play annoying children's songs on infinite repeat.
    Thats hardcore.
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    Hold hard the breath, and bend up every spirit
    To [her] full height!" - Henry V William Shakespeare

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
    I'm personally not a big fan of random selection of punishments. I think punishment should come directly from the decision of the dominant: "You did that, therefore this will happen." The danger with random selection is that it may result in a severe punishment for a relatively minor transgression; or vice-versa allowing the submissive to "get away" with something big while receiving a light consequence.

    In my opinion, there should be a distinct line between punishment and play, even if there are overlaps in the instruments/activities. Punishment is intended to ultimately correct an undesirable behavior, so it should be more logical.

    Now the random idea works well for me as a play tool. "Let's roll the dice and see how lucky you are ... oh, you poor dear."
    Oh yes, in many cases the punishment should fit the crime so that it becomes more of a lesson. However, I feel the random element can make the punishment more 'interesting' for several reasons.

    1) It can be a help for a Dom who maybe feels they are pushing one type of punishment too much so that it loses its impact and/or they feel they are lacking imaginative ideas. In this case you can use random selection occasionally for punishment to vary things a little.

    2) If you have a contracted set of transgressions with a conconimant list of punishments (i.e. not obeying a direct order from Master - 20 strokes with the tawse) then some subs can start to 'play the odds' a little and transgress because they know they can take the punishment or because they enjoy the punishment assigned. However, if the punishment is random (even if only occasionally random) then they do not know in advance what the punishment will be until they select it. The not knowing adds to the trepidation and therefore makes them less likely to break the rules.

    e.g. If a sub breaks the 'disobeying a direct order' rule and knows that she will only get 20 strokes with the tawse then she may be more likely to break it because the punishment is known. It gets to the point where it becomes 'Ah, its only 20 strokes. I can handle that.' However, if the punishment could be any implement for up to 100 strokes or any other punishment (cum restriction, position, long term bondage etc) then they cannot guarantee that they will get a punishment that they can endure.

    3) I think the selection of the punishment by the sub aspect of this is an interesting tool. It puts responsibility in the hands of the sub.

    However, I do beleive that this tool does not need to be used all the time. I think a combination of contracted punishments (it says in the contract you have to have x punishment for this), Master whim (however, I feel that it deserves more than that so I am adding this...) and randomness (forget the contract, pick something out of the box) is the best option to keep a sub guessing.

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    is tickeling torment or pleasure? hmmm lol
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    Depends on the sub...

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    Quote Originally Posted by hime View Post
    step one, make a hole in the box.

    Step two, put your sub in the box...

    (sorry, can't help myself!)


    ITS MY SUB IN A BOX!
    bah i had to do it also..damn internet!

    i dont like the random punishment because the sub gets to choose nothing in my world..now having a bag/toy box or whatever and having the sub watch as you blindly reach in a grab the first thing you lay you hand on might do just as well as having them choose something, plus it lets them have the feeling of you deciding their fate ( kinda of )

    Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
    Now the random idea works well for me as a play tool. "Let's roll the dice and see how lucky you are ... oh, you poor dear."
    now i also really really like that idea...now i gotta figure out how to make some dice
    Last edited by dillinja; 09-04-2008 at 06:57 PM.

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    go to a role playing site. as in larp, vampire masquerades has sum pretty dice. black ten siders red numbers + a rose instead of a 0 hehe im a nerd. u can get a huge bag 4 5dollas on ebay. idk. i hav a thing 4 small things. hahaha.

    one of my fav ways to punish is to strap him to a wall and make him say 'please hit me' before, then 'thank u' after each strike. i count but the fact that he has to ask + thank adds to the torment. ^_^
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
    It needs speakers and an audio jack so you can play annoying children's songs on infinite repeat.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
    Oh ... Oz, that's just ... oh, my.

    You cruel, cruel man.
    Quote Originally Posted by LadyAznTiger13 View Post
    Thats hardcore.

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    If you can't find dice to buy, make some spinners - cut out cardboard shapes with the right number of sides and stick a penciel in the middle.

    But you can get loads of different size dice if you look.

    I am seriously worried that there are too many nerds on this site... my dark secret may well end up revealed...

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    i was thinking some large dice with pics on em of what i was gonna do. Had to be something custom made..im like the McGiver you dont want to know

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    Oh... you mean like dice with a picture of a hand, slapper, pingpong paddle, heavy paddle, flogger, and a cane on it.

    The other one of course is for indicating the number of strokes... 10-60... and of course, you can roll that one multiple times.

    All that said... is this a punishment box or a play box? Because as has been noted before and elsewhere, and I agree, punishment should not be fun for either party.
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    when we're role playing i find tieing my man-puppy with leash to the leg of a chair, gagged with his hands in socks and mitts then tied on, then sit just far away enough that he cant reach me. then i watch tv. if i'm feeling evil i watch a porn. or meaner yet i'll put on blues clues or some other assinign kiddy show. its the only punishment he really despises, but i dont use it alot. he'd rather be caned because its contact atleast and n his headspace all he wants is loved, pet + played with. . . . . i know this must be an odd one. . has anyone else done it?
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    Stop... you are making me shiver...

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    If One is too busy/broke/cheap/lazy/in a hurry to go get special dice, You can always just write numbers on slips of paper, mix them up in a bowl and draw them out one at a time.

    i think it's even better when the slave has to do it, wondering nervously all the while just what the point could be as they write and snip and fold away... *smile*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
    Now the random idea works well for me as a play tool. "Let's roll the dice and see how lucky you are ... oh, you poor dear."
    You can get loaded dice in novelty shops, I have one in my toy bag that rolls a six nine times out of ten. The fact that it's so blatantly loaded is part of the fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dillinja View Post
    i was thinking some large dice with pics on em of what i was gonna do. Had to be something custom made..im like the McGiver you dont want to know
    Use your desktop publisher and printer. Lay out the net of a cube (six squares arranged like a Christian cross) and paste suitable pictures on each face, print it on cardboard, cut it out with tabs on the sides of the squares and fold and paste it into a cube.

    The advantage of making your own, as well as having exactly what you want on it, is that if there's one thing you like best you can glue a little weight inside so that the one you prefer comes up most often. Or you can glue a =big= weight inside, so that the first time you roll it your victim can see that you're not playing fair, and what can sie do about it? :>
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    someone should make a boardgame lol. like that mall game from years ago. . . that would b funny as hell! eh. idk. my brain hurts..

    roll a dice to see how many times u gotta spin around b4 taking a shot of jager... wait, thats my drinking game

    a blindfold, gag, and headphones i know from experience is amazing when gettin a beatin.. idk how it becums sensory overload at the same time its sensory deprovation but wow thats so fun!
    yet scarey. (i dont like being blinfolded much)
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