First off, I am really enjoying this site! This is the first bdsm group I have joined. I am a 25 y/o sub, and for years have known what I want sexually, but was either afraid or not in the right relationship to speak up. I am here now as I have come out of my shell and want to become the person I have been hiding away! If anyone has advice/questions/guidance for me please share; it would be much appreciated <3