New games/training ideas

[antebellum]

I am a young male dominant that recently got into this lifestyle concurrently with my pet, a young female submissive. During our playtimes I've experimented with the likes and dislikes of my pet, but now that I have a general idea of what she likes (spanking most of all, but also rougher oral, choking, nipple clamps, hot wax) I want to come up with a little variety so spice of the sessions. Some play/training ideas and scenarios would be nice, as spanking just by itself, while eminently fun, is a bit unoriginal.

[Ozme52]

Make her count, thank you, ask for another.

[Mastrovenice]

Keeping it fresh is a challenge, but a fun one. Do some research (together or separately) by reading stories and watching some of the better porn out there (almost anything from Kink.com is good) and making note of things that interest either or both of you. Make her describe some of her own fantasies and take notes on how you can actualize them. I usually have a few ideas of where a scene will go and what I want to play with, but then let it flow as we move through it. Create a training manual that includes goals spread across a number of sessions, like increasing stamina, or pain tolerances. Withhold her spanking and use it as a reward for pleasing you in a method of your choice. Focus on some of the mental aspects of BDSM.

As for spanking, try different implements and tools. And don't forget about your needs and desires as well. After all you are the Dom!

[SubmissiveDoll]

Ask her. Better yet, ask her to write you a short story or two, of scenes that she would like to play out. Take a bit of what she writes and add your own flair.

[hiiro]

Orgasm denial?

[WyldWyl]

Find a buttplug and insert it.
Start spanking and counting back from 50.

If she drops it, do however many strokes are left with something more painful- a cane if you've got one, but a hairbrush would do too, anything that makes it more painful than fun.

If she keeps it in, she's allowed to cum.

[snowflake]

feels you could add on still.. maybe a thin leather cord around the neck .. each time she make it a bit tighter ..pulling it with your hand that may be on her back..

Hope Sir or Master doesn't read this .. blushes

My opinion
Hugs
snow

[Ozme52]

feels you could add on still.. maybe a thin leather cord around the neck .. each time she make it a bit tighter ..pulling it with your hand that may be on her back..

Hope Sir or Master doesn't read this .. blushes

My opinion
Hugs
snow

Bull!! Yes you do!!

[OwningXposed]

My pet finds articles for me to read and know what she is thinking, and articles to please me.

I like this little piece. Expand on it as you will.

Monday – masturbation Monday. Have to masturbate on Mondays but needs permission to cum?
Tuesday – Titty Tuesday. Must wear nipple clamps once a day for 10 minutes, with a picture. or Cleavage day.
Wednesday – Wet and Lubed Wednesday. Pussy and ass need to stay well lubed and wet?
Thursday – Half naked Thursday? Free reign, but must provide a picture to Masters Email.
Friday – Fantasy Friday. Must write a fantasy story.
Saturday – slutty Saturday. Pets toy request for the day or week?
Sunday – Discipline for Sin Sunday. From list sent to Master’s Email? This is the day for Pet to confess her wrong-doings of the week.

A little tamer than choking, but it is ideas.

[snowflake]

Bull!! Yes you do!!

giggles who innocent me .. never .. smirks and hides

[SubmissiveDoll]

I'm with Snowflake... we're all innocent! *cough cough* Seriously... would I fib?

giggles who innocent me .. never .. smirks and hides

[Slave Manager]

Have you thought about using Ginger Root as a butt plug as you spank.You & she will injoy it.

[usbabe]

my Master requires a daily journal of my thoughts during masturbation. He stores up my fantasies and will put them to use as He pleases. Sometimes what comes out of my head surprises Him and pleases Him as well.

[Master Sergeant]

I like the schedule for the week idea. It gives you both a stating place and it can be expanded upon as time goes by. During the weeks activities, you can jot down how you will modify each task for the coming week. The pictures she sends to you will make a private portfolio for you both to enjoy later and they can be modified or improved as you grow. It also provides her with a way to earn rewards and punishment for her efforts as the week unfolds. Great idea.