Is it true.......?

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

this is How do you know revised!

Okay so i am 19 and have known of my "submissiveness" since 7th grade and i am a virgin by choice (waiting for the right master), and i read in these stories of this "shift-of-atmosphere" when a dom and a sub meet without previous knowledge of either's sexual preference.......is this "change" real, and if so how does it feel......

many thanks

[rainbi]

I think your question is asking whether upon meeting someone you can both tell one is sub and one is dom, leading to a shift in atmosphere.

From personal experience, I've had times where both people have let something about their character/past experiences leak, leading to a knowing moment...

The Dom/sub meet shift in atmosphere sounds like when any two people meet and there's that click as you realise you have common ground, even if it is as yet unspoken.

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

See i am extremely perceptive of everyone around me, but when i am attracted to someone i get confused between what is actually there and what i want to be there....... so i am unsure if what i am seeing in this guy at my work is actually a connection like that of which i described above........

[rainbi]

What makes you think it is? Does he talk to you in an assertive way? Is he your boss or a colleague?

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

Well he and i only work part-time in different departments and i have only talked to him a few times nothing much..... there is always a giant group of people around, but the first time i said anything to him, he tried to take my pen and i held onto it, thinking he was someone else, so i told Him that he could have it and he barked in a half play half-serious "I don't want it"...... luckily he was smiling so i laughed to............... i see him once a week but i dont ever really talk specifically to him, just in general to everyone in the room...... but then last week we locked eyes, something i rarely do, and there was this look in his eyes that i can only describe as "smoldering" and bizzarely "commanding" almost like he "knew" about me...... There are a bunch of other things that can and can't really be explained, but i don't want to bother you with the petty things..... he just has this domineering air about him that may or may not be misleading when it comes to his sexual preference