Why did you join this Forum?

[dzire2pleeze]

[COLOR="Purple"]You know, Rabbit, I don't think you could make it anymore friendlier than it is. I am a submissive, who was made to feel right at home. The people who stay, join in on the forum and participate in the chat over and over again are all warm, caring people. they have substance. they have depth.

Why concern yourself with "one-day wonders?" They are usually the ones that are playing games anyway. Wannabe Dom/Dommes or submissives, who are looking to have fun for a night.

Well it is relatively easy to be awesome for one hour or one day, it is much more difficult to sustain that endlessly. Especially when it is not who you are in the first place. Those are the people who do not return. Why sweat it!

Even though that does not answer your question, i just had to say it./COLOR]

[dzire2pleeze]

now really imaginative people will envision the color purple in my last post when they see the words "color purple"

[submissivewife]

LOL dzire2pleeze.....you are most definitely welcome here...don't worry, I'm quite imaginitive....lol

[dzire2pleeze]

~smiles~ thanks subwife. i enjoy the posts both you and your sister make. everyone (for the most part) here is so much fun.

[switchboy]

Like some of the others here I can't say that I "keep coming back", since I just joined!

However, I am finding I need a place to hang out and be among people with similar interests again. I used to do a lot more online chatting and so forth several years ago but a lot of those friends have slowly but surely stopped being online as often to the point where I'm missing the friendships and conversations I used to enjoy.

I have been visiting this site to read the stories for a while now and thought it looked like a fun place to post and become a part of, so I signed up. I'm hoping things work out well and that I'll meet some new online friends and just generally be among like-minded people whom I can talk with.

switchboy

[Timberwolf]

I can honestly say I haven't read a single story here (even if that is why the site was reffered to me) yet, though I'll probbaly get around to it.

I've been looking for a good forum on the subject, and this seems as fine as any. I suppose simply because it is nice to be part of some sort of community of like-minded people.

[Jim]

i joind this site to learn .. to better understand who i am and what i like ..
i am always looking for new ideas to put me more in control .. i am dominate by
nature and want to stay that way .. looking here to learn more about how i can be a better person .. while not loosing my identity ..

[submissivewife]

Switchboy, Timberwolf, and jim....you are all welcome to the forums thanks for posting and taking advantage of the forums....continue to make yourselves comfortable here.

[flybunnygirl]

Well I just joined this forum. Curiousity I suppose. But perhaps I should be careful as curiousity killed the cat right? Any hoo I'm here and I will probably stick around for a bit.

[Warbaby1943]

Hi flybunnygirl and Anyone who uses any hoo has got to be OK in my book. Stick around and join in the fun.

[flybunnygirl]

hehe thanks! I think Ill actually make a post and introduce myself a little here. Give you some back ground on me.

[YourThrone]

Why concern yourself with "one-day wonders?" They are usually the ones that are playing games anyway. Wannabe Dom/Dommes or submissives, who are looking to have fun for a night.

That is so true! I've joined few BDSM forums with one-day, one post wonders and each of those people are more into getting their jollies off than actually learning about BDSM. I joined this forum purely by accident, stumbled upon it and so glad I did. I'm basically looking to interact with people who are into this lifestyle, Get different viewpoints,diversed opinions on certain matters etc.

[Highbury93]

Hello I am new here. I am an eighteen year old male who lives in England. I joined because I guess I am curious. I doubt I'll post much, I'll probably be a lurker.

[Warbaby1943]

Well highbury93 welcome anyhow even if we don't hear much from you. You can have much more fun by joining in on the conversations. Try it, you'll like it.

[YourThrone]

Welcome to the forums Highbury,It's much more fun joining in on the discussions and posting but, as long as you have fun, That's all that counts regardless.

[dzire2pleeze]

Hi Highbury. I interrogated you tonight in chat and think you're a fine young man. Lurk and learn. ~smiles~

As you have already learned we are a friendly bunch.

[katie_21]

Cause all the cool kids were doing it.....

[debbieh]

This forum in particular? Cause it was the first one on my Google search... well that and the fact that I've always been interested in BDSM and where else do I go but the internet to express myself fully...

[YourThrone]

Welcome to the forums Debbieh, Hope you enjoy yourself.

[Argie Slave]

Hello!

I joined in order to find more people interested in the same lifestyle I am. I hope to learn a lot here! :-P

[maddie]

Argie Slave, I'm sure you'll find all sorts of useful information around here. There are some very wise people here.

[sweet&shy-submissive]

i want to meet new people interested in the same things i am and want to learn so much more about this amazing lifestyle...i can hardly wait

[Timberwolf]

i want to meet new people interested in the same things i am and want to learn so much more about this amazing lifestyle...i can hardly wait

Welcome to the forum, I'm sure you'll find plenty of like-minded people here.

[His Slut]

And what keeps you coming back?

These are two questions that I would like a response to. As I am going thru member profiles to check on birthdates I am noticing a lot of what I call one day wonders---people who join for one day and never return. So I am on a quest to find out why some members do this while other do not.

Maybe thru member input we can make this a more friendly place to new members.


Thanks

Well, I hope that I will NOT end up being one of the one-dayers. I joined because my Domhubby is a member and we are exploring *ahem* new things. As I've recently found out, I am a bit of a sub...comes from my very strict up-bringing, I think.

As for coming back...I'm still on day one, so I'll have to keep you posted on that one!

[wistan]

I was a long time reader of the stories, and tried writing a few myself. I was intensely curious as to whether they were any good or not, from a literary standpoint (I have a long standing fantasy of being a professional writer). I joined up to post my work so I could find out if people liked it.

I found the forum whilst idly exploring the site. I was rather shocked to find that other people like me really did exist, so I hung around to see what kind of things went on here.

[BeautifulOblivion]

I'm looking to get more involved in the lifestyle and I found this by searching out a bdsm erotica site. I saw that it had forums and after browsing for a little bit, I thought this community seemed very close-knit and helpful. =) I discovered that it would be a great place to start my exploration and get some insight and get a lot of my questions answered. And so far, I love it here. =) I don't feel afraid to ask questions (Although I haven't quite yet). Everyone just seems so nice and helpful! =)

[maddie]

Woo! Yay for more Texans on the forums! *waves at BeautifulOblivion

I'm glad y'all are enjoying the forums!

[melissa_luvsu]

Hi All,

Just to say I have been writing a story for some months now and I finally finished it in the last few days. It's called Pagan Princess and is about the life a Saxon girl who raises an army of warrior women. She falls foul of the occupying Roman army in ancient Briton. Something is not quite right in how it is presented as the words seem to go off the page and the illustrations can't be seen. Perhaps someone here knows what the problem is? If so please let me know.

Many thanks.

Melissa

[Ozme52]

Try PM'ing Rabbit1.

Welcome to the forum melissa

[MajesticFae]

I joined simply because I like people. =) It's interesting to get to know people of all different walks of life. As BDSM will hopefully become a part of mine, I figured I should get to know the people in it... not merely the superficial characters in the stories I am so addicted to.

I also joined with the hope of learning more about the lifestyle and in hopes of gaining a caring Master who can teach me how to better be myself. I'm open to new things and will try almost everything once.

So far, this place has been very good to me and I'm enjoying my time here a whole bunch. =) I've found a whole slew of new friends and I've only been here for a day! =) *jumps up and down and claps* Woo Hoo!