Dominants: Who am I? How did I get here?

[Lisais mine]

how did i get here? (and btw, this is a thread from the CRYPT!)

Well, I was always interested. i remember reading some icky parts of the DSM IV and feeling terrible that they got me all excited....

My first bondage expereince i was 18, and my then girlfriend was on her period. didnt want me to eat her , so i tied her to a recliner with silk ties and did it anyway...

then i got married to a woman- another dominant personality. bad decision, but we made it work for a while, though it was never good...we didnt have sex, we westled till someone got raped....

so then we split up (long story) and i got involved with a younger girl, who happened to be into the scene a bit, and she opend me up to the idea of being a Dom.. but we didn't have alot in common. She did spark my interest in bdsm, and i couldnt resist delving into things with both feet.

Lisa (who has been a friend for years) finally mentioned to me that she was interested in bdsm. soon after, we began talking about things, getting to know each other, and in october of 2008 i collared her- the rest is more fit for a porn shoot than the scope of the question though

[Jennifer Williams]

how did i get here? (and btw, this is a thread from the CRYPT!)

Well, I was always interested. i remember reading some icky parts of the DSM IV and feeling terrible that they got me all excited....

Most people seem to go through something like that.

My first bondage expereince i was 18, and my then girlfriend was on her period. didnt want me to eat her , so i tied her to a recliner with silk ties and did it anyway...

then i got married to a woman- another dominant personality. bad decision, but we made it work for a while, though it was never good...we didnt have sex, we westled till someone got raped....

That sounds exhausting. I can see how you got worn out.

so then we split up (long story) and i got involved with a younger girl, who happened to be into the scene a bit, and she opend me up to the idea of being a Dom.. but we didn't have alot in common. She did spark my interest in bdsm, and i couldnt resist delving into things with both feet.

It is too irresistible to do it any other way, I think.

Lisa (who has been a friend for years) finally mentioned to me that she was interested in bdsm. soon after, we began talking about things, getting to know each other, and in october of 2008 i collared her- the rest is more fit for a porn shoot than the scope of the question though

That is when you know you've got it right!