how to humiliate female sub?

[his_girl_l]

Spank her over your knee and check how wet she is. Then tell her how naughty she is for getting so turned on. So of course she needs another spanking. Then another for being so naughty and dirty for being so turned on by it. And so on and so on......

[his_princessx]

don't give him any ideas!

[openlyrefined]

I like where this is going, DarkHorseSr!!

Have her drink several large glasses of water over a short time. Don't let her use the bathroom. Dress her in short tight shorts take her to the mall shopping still not letting her relieve herself. While at the mall have her drink more water, ect. After a time you can guess what will happen. When she does wet herself make her still walk around the mall shopping.

hopperboo, I have had this discussion with many people on this & other forums.

When she does wet herself make her still walk around the mall shopping.

That seems a little...TMI. Not everyone in public wants to "play" this too.

I’d be willing to bet most people don’t even notice when someone wets themselves. It’s the aftermath they notice.
1) How many people have you actually seen publicly urinate whilst walking in a mall? Probably none. Ever.
2) How many times have you seen people who have already wet themselves?

I think a common misconception is that we aren’t responsible adults.

Humiliation, does not have to be sexual & obviously we wouldn't be dressing in full harness for a force fuck buttake in the middle of Santa's village.

[mrlibido]

Cane and belt her ass and thighs very hard. Then, go with her to nudist beach. At evening, go to with her to some private non-bdsm party and order her to make a striptease in front all the people.

[TexasGhost]

Have her go to a grocer store and purchase a cucumber and nothing else but some ky jelly for lubricant is a good one an been said in this post already ,how'er add a twist to this .Once she gets back have her return it ,with reason the cucumber is to small an its the wrong lub.

[MstrShimoda]

Have her grow her armpit hair for the summer...that should get her attention

[piper8189]

A very safe public humiliation is making the slave ask for specific items at an adult bookstore. Make her introduce herself and say that her master sent her, and then have her ask specific questions about butt plugs, etc. For fun you can make her ask (while keeping a straight face) about their return policies on sex toys.

Much less of a threat of involving people who'd rather not be exposed to your perversions, since the clerks at most porno shops have seen it all.

i'm new to all of this and my Master just did this one to me today...very humiliating for new subs...trust me

[TxEric]

Have a private party with some of your Dom friends. Simply have your sub serve drinks and snacks on a silver tray. She is of course naked with perfect makeup applied and wearing her collar. She is instructed to allow anyone ( male or female ) at the party to do anything they like to her. Do NOT tell the guests. Then you may observe how bold they get as the night goes on. You may punish her later for any slow service or for being a slut who allows anyone to have her, etc.

[maryrobyn]

My sub once was about 56yrs old. I gave her a huge enema, plugger her up & made her put ona tight dress & she looked pregnant. Then took her in public, made her go into drug store & buy KY jelly & also pack of cigarettes. Then outside she lit a cigarette & smoked it while going to car a block away. She was humiliated on several levels, pregnant & over 50 & smoking too. Also had to buy lube. The we rode around for an hour & finally home for her to run to bathroom!

[graptolite]

Make her go to a webcam site like camfuze.com and show her boobs.

(she doesn't have to show her face, so it is anonymous.)

You can also make her show ass or make her ask for money to show boobs so that she feels like a cheap slut

Grapto

[MasterJames92]

How about taking for to porn shop and having her suck off who ever is there

[Misschief]

Whisper sweet nothings in her ear while you are penetrating her...Then blend in praises about her being your good girl, a great slut, and tell her what a whore she is for letting you fuck her any way that you want. Don't forget to remind her that she is Your whore!

Fairly close to what I had in mind.. Why everyone feels as though humiliation needs to transpire outside the house is both interesting and frustrating to me.. Something as simple as arousing a sub and then verbally deriding her/him about said arousal sounds perfectly conflicting (humiliating/arousing) to me..

[ksst]

Collar, leash..

[iucundavi]

It really depends on your sub....if she enjoys spankings/canings/etc., then make it more psychological. I like the idea of intermingling humiliation with adoration while using her body.

[ksst]

I think there are good ways to humiliate and some not so good ways. If he were to call me a stupid idiot in front of my friends (which he wouldn't) that would be bad humiliation, and not arousing at all. It would just make me want to kick him in the shins.
When he ties me up naked, standing up, and gets me so aroused without touching that I am running rivers down my legs, that is all together good humiliation.

[Oldskool454]

My sub enjoys being made to wear a plug and told to go shopping or run errands. I made a bra for her that had exposed nipples and made her wear that on several occasions and prohibited her from wearing a jacket so her nipples were very visible.
I force her to undergo ass training at random times when the thought occurs to me, more often than not when I know she would rather not, like going to a school concert for her kids, the more inappropriate the better it seems.

As far as domestic situations, she has been made to act as a foot stool for me while I watch TV, any complaints or whimpering resulted in some riding crop corrective measures.

She has been kept in a dog kennel in the corner of the living room with a ball gag and hood on for extended periods of time, or in a closet confined and restrained while I went about my usual household tasks or watched TV.

All of the above are ideas or thoughts that she has expressed though and I put into action for her.

[brace [EDQ]]

Have her get a bra that is at least 3 cup sizes too large. Have her wear it with water balloons in to fill in the remaining space and a tight top. Your call whether you want the balloons to show or not. Then take her out in public where the guys can stare at her enhanced boobs.

Tie a string from each hand, under the hem of her skirt, then up to her waist. If she lifts her arms, her skirt goes up. Then take her shopping.

Hooker heels, such as http://www.thefashionpolice.net/wp-c...-jar-shoes.jpg . Of course, the "tips" section would have some coins.

Give her an enema in private. She is to hold it until you give permission. As the cramps set in, she will eventually be reduced to begging and pleading to be allowed to poop. Different enema additives may speed the process.

[Conner]

I like where this is going, DarkHorseSr!!


hopperboo, I have had this discussion with many people on this & other forums.


I’d be willing to bet most people don’t even notice when someone wets themselves. It’s the aftermath they notice.
1) How many people have you actually seen publicly urinate whilst walking in a mall? Probably none. Ever.
2) How many times have you seen people who have already wet themselves?

I think a common misconception is that we aren’t responsible adults.

Humiliation, does not have to be sexual & obviously we wouldn't be dressing in full harness for a force fuck buttake in the middle of Santa's village.

This is very true... I've wet myself before because I have overactive bladder (this also makes this particular kink very interesting for me) and no one noticed til I mentioned it. I was at work when it happened. So yeah...

The public butt plug idea is appealing to me too, I've considered doing that myself but I haven't worked up the nerve. Bet she'd like that.

[sexisubi]

Oh, have her be nothing but your "cock whore" and have her suck your dick all day but she isnt allowed to cum... or have her name her different areas something else, like what is your mouth for.. what is your yada yada yada... and have her respond the same way each time in perverted ways like for the mouth question to worship her Doms cock or something such as... or you can have her sit in the corner and have her mouth open the entire time so you can slip it in when you want... oh and off the head topic haha! you could also hogtie and gag her in the living and leave her for your viewing pleasure.

[Sirdred]

The perfect humilation task is when her response is a shiver and a red face. One thought I had was to send her to a pet store to by a dog collar and then have it engraved with her slave name or initials.

[Warmaster]

To preface the following, I will state that ALL my girls KNOW the safeword and are Secure in the knowledge that using it will bring things to an Immediate halt without exception.
Also, I know them very well, their Limits (Soft & Absolute).

Humiliation/Embarrassment is something that can be as subtle as simply reminding Lhana she has a great-looking ass (she's never really been comfortable in short skirts) in public and such never fails to get a good Blush and giggle.
When going out, they all wear very high heels that lock securely around the ankle with small chromed padlocks. People see the 'flash' and immediately notice when they look down that none of the girls can remove their footwear...ad there's NO mistaking the statement made.

Yes these are 'light' methods, but make no mistake...when a good number of folks notice locked-on footwear, attention focusses and the results are impressive.
Also, such runs no risk of arrest or similar hassles.
Add in sheer blouses, no bras, and skirts short enough to guarantee they flash their asses unless they are VERY mindful of such--and such 'light' methods can deliver a massive payoff.
If your girl/girls start getting wet enough that it starts down their legs, so much the better.
Have your car seats stain/scotchguarded, same with sofas and such. After a good bit of fun in public, some women are wetter than a waterslide at peak summer hours.

It doesn't need to be Blatant, and it's mainly in the head, thus for the best results, plan your tactics around her Triggers.

[Sirs_GoodGirl (Whyteknyght)]

from Warmasters preceding post on this thread:

When going out, they all wear very high heels that lock securely around the ankle with small chromed padlocks. People see the 'flash' and immediately notice when they look down that none of the girls can remove their footwear...ad there's NO mistaking the statement made.
Yes these are 'light' methods, but make no mistake...when a good number of folks notice locked-on footwear, attention focusses and the results are impressive.
Also, such runs no risk of arrest or similar hassles.
Add in sheer blouses, no bras, and skirts short enough to guarantee they flash their asses unless they are VERY mindful of such--and such 'light' methods can deliver a massive payoff.If your girl/girls start getting wet enough that it starts down their legs, so much the better.Have your car seats stain/scotchguarded, same with sofas and such. After a good bit of fun in public, some women are wetter than a waterslide at peak summer hours.

HOW did you get ahold of my "dream diary, Sir??? Actually...kudos to you indeed as I'll be adding the simply incredibly sexy idea of little padlocks for heels....you are a genius and I cannot wait to send this to my Master in the hopes that he may think me worthy of such humiliation. I actually groaned with lust reading this post! And yes. I'm one of he ones you need to scotchguard against. As for a waterslide mention, that would be flowing down my thighs.
*Shivers and moans*
Truly, you Sir are one of the Good Ones.

[dandom999]

I'm looking for some ideas to humiliate my female sub most of the stuff out there is for male subs does anyone have any ideas?

How about buying your bondage equipment at petsmart, and bring her along for a fitting