hi! my name is louise, i'm 27 and live in the netherlands i have been reading the stories for quit a while now and just recently found out there is a forum as well.
i have had sub-feelings for as long as i can remember, but have never linked it to bdsm, until 1,5 year ago. it was as if the world made sense again.
small problem though: i am married to a vanilla man who will never ever change... sigh... maybe there's more of you out there who are in the same situation? how do you deal with it?
there you have it, a small introduction in my very best high-school-english (ahum)!

grr louise