Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Tom, I hear what you are saying about jealousy and I have a definite opinion on that. It's also part of how we're brought up and goes hand in hand with my arguement about the 'one true love.'

Because we're brought up to believe in one true love, what if someone else gets to him/her first? Then we're left out in the cold, lost, and bereft of hope.

Zero-sum game strategy. You win means I lose. But that way of thinking, isn't the only games theory strategy. In life I try to play win-win strategies, and have found that when my winning doesn't mean you lose, jealousy goes away very quickly. When you practice win-win gamesmanship within your life, polyamoury quickly becomes not only preferable, but viable.


P.S. There is also tit-for-tat, (a favorite because I'm fond of tits)
You lost me there. I think I'm going to need some examples.

If there's a threesome couple living together, (one man and two girls, all hetero) and the man finds one of the girls is better looking than the other, (not a very unique situation) and she gets more atention than the other. Both real and percieved. How is this a win-win situation for the woman the man doesn't feel is as sexualy attractive? She might have other great qualities, but we all want sexual attention.

Just as you point out, you like tits. Women with bigger tits gets more attention from men than women with smaller tits. That's been scientificaly proven many times.