Quote Originally Posted by gogo
My mind goes back and forth: Gay, or straight (or both?????) maybe i should hit a shrink. . .
Well, hitting shrinks is a good idea, but that's another story :-)

I don't think you're gay or straight, I think you're sub. I've had a lot of male subs over the years, and they often say "I'm not gay but I want you to fuck me or force me to suck you". And I used to think they were bi and couldn't admit it, but I've come to the conclusion that they're just submissive.

They want to be dominated by someone, sex doesn't matter. And when they're in the mood to want to be really degraded, being used by a man is the worst thing they can imagine. If they were really gay, it wouldn't have the same kick for them.

(I did once hear from someone who claimed to be a lesbian sub who wanted to submit to a man because it was the most degrading thing that could happen to her: but she never showed, so I doubt if she was genuine.)