Quote Originally Posted by just_annie View Post
Hmmmm... this might be where we would clash. I refuse to address any one, especially as a sub, as Sir until they have earned a level of respect from me. If the word "Sir" does not come naturally into the conversation and from the depths of my soul when speaking to a Dom then to use it means I have to force it. Which feels as though it cheapens what the word means to me, something I refuse to do. Just as I won't use the word "Master" in addressing even my own Dom unless it comes naturally and builds from within. Again anything less cheapens the meaning behind the word to me.

That being said, from your posts and such Sir Russell, I'm quite sure if we were to ever talk in private "Sir" would be included in the conversation naturally.

as annie stated it has to come natural for her, its the same with me, i usually call the "Dominant" by his name, or i'll ususally ask what i may call him to keep down any hard feelings, if it doesnt come natural for me, i cant see myself calling a man Sir, or Master, Just because you call yourself Dominant, doesn't always mean you have earned that respect from me to be called "Sir" or "Master" the respect has to be earned and not just given because u see yourself as one way..same goes for my submission, his respect for me has to be earned earned in order to be able to call myself "his girl" or "his slutty angel".
I call my Dominant "Master" and it just feels right, deep down he has earned this respect from me and ive earned the right to be called his lil angel...*feels all mushy now* ekiies LOL.. ooohh but i also call him..."Sae" or "baby" giggles...but dont know if he wanted me to say that LOL..j/k