Do your parents or other members of your family know about your BDSM activities? If so, how did they find out? By accident? Did you tell them? Did it cause ructions? Did you eventually sort it all out or is there still a problem?

I live a block away from my mother, and my husband and I have our two girls living with us, so it took a while but I did tell my mom. She had figured a lot of it out, but it felt good to tell her so there were no more secrets. My mom is happy that my family is happy and we don't talk about details but she understands. On the other hand, I have not told my father, and don't know if I plan too. Both of my girls told their parents, one of my girl's mom is in the lifestyle so that made it really easy.