Well we have sex about five days a week, sometimes more. And I want it as much as Him, it certainly never felt like a sacrifice. My friends always bitch about how boring their sex is, how they don't feel like it and orgasms are rare, I always orgasm and have no qualms about initiating sex myself, so while that makes me feel lucky it also made me wonder if there is something abnormal about me, lol. Then again normal is way overrated, lol.
I was always taught that sex during menstruation is dirty, unsanitary and that men are repulsed by that, so with all my other boyfriends it was a definite no no. My husband changed that, it doesn't bother him and it even turns him on. It doesn't even stop him from going down on me. My period is no longer a barrier for having sex, but it depends from month to month. Usually my libido goes slightly up and some months I am horny like a little rabbit, but every now and then its so painful that I have no desire at all.
p.s. I think Tom's wife would agree that his ego/brain is part of his charm. And it would be boring to discuss things only with people who agree with us and don't challenge our thoughts.