Tae'lyn,
It appears not if response to a thread I once posted asking that very question is any indication. I think it was "Can you be identified.
I just went back and read the thread. There was some interesting points, but it really just came down to "people may suspect, but would never know unless you told them, or they see you in the act" I think in this case it is probably just Trenchmeat feeling different than others at work and school, making it harder with the coworkers and peers commenting on whether or not he walks different.

To me it's also a bit of a mind game...when I'm doing a task in public and get into this kind of thinking (do they KNOW I'm doing X??) it adds to the excitement.
Trenchmeat, don't feel like you are the only person out there that enjoys a more sexually diverse behaviour, you are far from alone out there.

Silke, great way to think of it.

Tae'lyn