Actually - have you tried having your dom accompany you to the doctor? My girl has problems pushing issues with the doctor when she doesn't get answers - and she was also being ignored - MD would give part answers and brush her off.

When I started attending with her the communication went way up - not because I said anything - just because I was there with her.

Might be worth a try - in most places a patient has the option of taking someone in with him/her - the doctor should have no issues.