Quote Originally Posted by munajadida View Post
This is something I've been concerned about lately, since my husband and I are trying. I know that he's going to be terrified about hurting the baby with vanilla sex, let alone anything rough. We'll definitely have to work through things as they come up, since it's not really a subject that's often considered.
If he's truly terrified about continuing on with sex if/when you become pregnant, perhaps it's best to have him come with you to a doctor's visit and speak to your ob/gyn about his concerns...I'm sure your doctor will be more than happy to put his fears to rest. Once he's more comfortable with that aspect, then maybe you could try incorporating small things here and there but honestly, I have to agree with prior replies stating it's mostly mental....it really is.

Good luck to you!