Quote Originally Posted by danman7 View Post
she is having trouble getting into a submissive frame of mind sometimes. She has a full time job that has a lot of pressure and responsibility. We have 2 teen aged kids, as well. She spends her day at work, being "in charge" and making a lot of decisions, etc. She then comes home and at least for 2-3 hours being the only parent present and therefore having to make the decisions and run the house and be in charge of the kids.

She is finding it difficult to then shift gears when I get home and be submissive to me.

You cannot possibly imagine how good it felt to read this bit of your post. My situation is a tad different from yours in that my marriage is vanilla...but with a 40-hour work week and 2 small children I'm with all day, my brain is on autopilot and working submission into that is sometimes incredibly difficult.

Thank you for recognizing it and taking this step to help her. I'm sure it means more to her than she can ever say.