Hi Julie, welcome to the forum. May I suggest you place an ad in the personals, after first reading this thread. http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1375

May I also suggest you have a good look around, make a few posts & introduce yourself to us.

I personally don't place much emphasis on personal ads, if I was looking to meet someone I'd get to know them gradually as a person before considering starting a D/s relationship.

Your age & weight mean nothing, what matters is you as a person. How serious you are about this, whether you're a born sub, etc. etc.

All Doms are different & look for different things. Unfortunately from what I hear there's a shortage of good ones available- but you only need one!

Good luck in your search, take your time & don't settle for less than you deserve. This should never be rushed.

Tojo