Quote Originally Posted by Solis View Post

The sheer uniqueness of these relationships makes open, honest, fearless, continual communication absolutely essential, and modestly more likely than you'll find elsewhere.

You don't need to say everything, or to decide everything, right now. But you do need to establish ground rules that foster trust and communication. By all means, create (and practice) safewords or circuit-breakers.

S.
Amazingly well said. Nice.