so..what is a real Dom like?

[LaMarrKee]

Lass- D/s is always a 2-way street. anything one-way-only is abuse. But if you feel your needs are being ignored or overlooked- TALK to him. Honesty and Communication are the only things that can make D/s work, in my opinion. you subs may Suspect we read minds at times, but honestly- We don't. So when you have a problem or a fret- say so. Don't make us surmise and guess- Tell us. Things work Much smoother that way. Feel free to contact me if you wish me to expand and expound on this; otherwise, I wish you well. Just remember Honesty (even if it has to be Brutal to be clear). Communication (Talk To- not At. And the louder the volume, the lest the listening, usually. If you can manage those 2 things, most other things can be worked out. Best of luck.

[Darkviperj]

I totally agree with LaMarrKee there, slave/sub/pet/wife/gf/toy regardless of what you are, it's always a 2 way street, a Dom is there to care for you as much as you would care for them, if someone can't take the time to listen to you, they aren't worth your time, but if you don't try to talk to them its just as bad. I hope things work out for you