Welcome child. Iwould urge you to spend a bit of time reading some of the learning threads here. There is lots of good information to be had for the novice to the lifestyle. I would also encourage you to strike up a conversation with some of the other submissives here who can help guide and mentor you along in a safe manner. They can provide you with a wealth of knowledge and experience and, perhaps, help you to avoid some common mistakes. Take advantage of every opportunity to learn but above all, BE CAREFUL!