Thanks you all for the advice. My wife has told me a few times that she just wants me to surprise her, but I don't think she would like to be called a slut or slapped across the face (maybe she would, I don't know). I think if I ask her to set a bit of a frame work and that I will fill in all the details it could work. Also thanks Denzark for the ideas, may not be ready for it right now, but it sounds like that could be a lot of fun in the future. I'll make sure to keep you posted on how it went.