Hello Bound to be and to our home.

As has already been said, take your time and enjoy. Don't be in a hurry to put a label on yourself, and very few of us are 100% pure anything. Oh - and don't worry about joining the scene, it is not compulsory! Some people enjoy it, some don't - if you do then join it, if you don't - well then leave it well alone.

It really is all about finding out what is right for you - there are no rules, except obviously respect for other people.

I hope you enjoy reading the threads and the stories and as minxy said - no question is too daft to ask.

You might wish to post in personals, I don't know who successful it is, although do know that most replies are made in private massages or emails, so do not take no posted replies as a bad sign. However if you really wish to meet someone here you need to become active in the threads, let us get to know you - a little like going to a party, as someone said recently.

Look forward to seeing around here and in chat.

cariad