Thanks for the reply BBwolf. How disappointing this forum is.
I guess I shouldn't be surprised that most people aren't willing to talk about BDSM. Sad.
I disagree with your assertion that this format I've requested already exists.
Check the stories here. Not a single quality story with a transsexual or shemale as victim. The stories to be found elsewhere are all about men being "forced" to be feminine. That was nice when I was 14 and struggling with my identity.But as I go to work everyday in skirts, heels and pantyhose, have changed my name as well as my "sex" on all my legal documents, and did so because it better represents who I am, these tales just don't cut it for me anymore. They're for men who haven't came to terms with their fetishistic crodssdressing, not for genuine transsexuals. I've also seen many stories about submissive men who "get it" from a hung shemale. I can't say I get these. The hormone therapy, when done right, not only provide secondary female characteristics, (breasts, hips, facial fullness, soft skin, etc,)
but also, in my case certainly, cause one to lose the ability to function as "males".
As for your your question about about being male or female...
Where have you been the past 15 years?
Sorry, I'm not trying to be smart here, but I am neither of the above. See Judith Butler's "Gender Trouble". I don't believe in the gender binary. Many cultures throughout history did not force people into one or the other boxes. American Indians are a prime example. If you're interested in this, check out Leslie Feinberg's "Transgender Warriors". People like myself have existed throughout history.
I was raised as male but have lived full-time as female for most of my adult life. Being I get flirted with constantly by straight men and even the occasional lesbian, I can safely say that socially, I am not male. Intellectually and spiritually I also believe I am female. Biologically, well, I wasn't born with all the right parts. Hmmm, or maybe I was just born into the wrong culture. When pressed for a label, I identify as a male to female transsexual. However, It's not safe to identify publicly this way.
Men tend to be very sexually insecure. Thus it's not a good idea to let them know the woman they've been hittting on has a penis.
Some lesbians don't take kindly to this either though a few haven't minded. I am pansexual. I'm generally attracted to females or other transexuals, both mtf as well as ftm, but my bdsm fantasies often contain men.
I really get off best (I do orgasm, but not like either a man or woman) when my fantasy being fullfilled is non-consensual,. (wink, wink)
Again thanks for responding.