Thanks for the update guys- we don't get enough of this sort of thing, which is after all the 'meat in the D/s sandwich'

I've actually been toying with a punishment for lisa this week, but it seems just talking to her is enough keep her on track.

The problem is she's in limbo for a few weeks until school starts. She can't even really start a fulltime job. She's bored, has no money & really no life.

She's been playing an online game for hours at a time & been a little lazy some days.

I said I will punish her if all else fails, sort of thing- but didn't tell her how.
I also said I'd hate to do it & that she means a lot to me.

I found by just 'sitting down' & talking to her, being honest about my expectations & fears drew her attention to her behaviour.

This is so great this stuff- I get a ridiculous amount of pleasure just chatting with her, getting her pics & putting her desktop on the PC when my wife's asleep....

Each D/s relationship is different & unique, it's great to see when someone has the courage to talk about theirs.


Tojo