Crying?

[cariad]

Pleased to hear that you have your safeword now.

To me, tears are an expression of the depth of emotion you are feeling, and that emotion can be good or bad. So on that basis, I am pleased to say that I also cry 'good tears'. I hope this is normal, because I would like to think of other people feeling so wonderful, and pleased it is the case for you.

Now all you have to do is help him to understand....guess time will help, when you have reassured him repeatedly that you are fine. The problem then might be explaining that not all tears are good ones....sighs.

It is lovely to read between the lines of your post and see your obviously powerful and loving relationship.

cariad

[Tojo]

Nice one Oz.

I firmly believe if we all cried a bit more often we wouldn't be half as messed up as we are. Regardless of whether we're happy or sad, & preferably with someone holding our hand while we do it.

Tojo

[frankee]

Nice one Oz.

I firmly believe if we all cried a bit more often we wouldn't be half as messed up as we are. Regardless of whether we're happy or sad, & preferably with someone holding our hand while we do it.

Tojo

Tojo,

i definately think You're right about that that. So why is it that i rather cut off my right arm than cry or let anybody see or hear me cry for that matter. *scratches head and looks very confused*

[Tojo]

Tojo,

i definately think You're right about that that. So why is it that i rather cut off my right arm than cry or let anybody see or hear me cry for that matter. *scratches head and looks very confused*

Well if you ever find out frankee, let me know eh?

I went for years without shedding a tear myself, it was a relief to find out I could even feel sad, let alone have damp eyes.
I can't talk about it in public, but I think you know me well enough.


Tojo