I do BDSM for my own kinky pleasure and satisfaction, nothing less. Which means for me, this is the One True Way: exactly the way I'm doing it.
The mail could somewhat have been written by myself. I do enjoy the Master/sir/Mistress bit, and I feel it right to use a capital first letter. But thats about it. And the most important thing to me is to be attentive and normally respectfull.
But thats what I prefer for myself, what other people do is entirely their business.

And the last two sentances said it all, to me.