i am with YOU on this one ID, if YOU will permit this humble sub to both think and post.


My respect for people has no relationship to whether they are dom or sub, but on the qualities they present. I have a personal anti-internet bdsm protocol fetish, although in chat I have seen that using the capitalisation practice helps, as would an easy way of determining if someone is male or female. I think politeness and courtesies should be extended to everyone, regardless of their sexual preference/role.

I notice that the person quoted called themselves a slave, perhaps that is the key. The difference between a slave and sub has been discussed elsewhere, so do not wish to go down that route, but would suggest that perhaps slaveboy, in taking slavery, was wishing to have the security of a tight and clearly defined framework to function within.

When I am in deeply submissive mode, I have had it pointed out to me, that I do sometimes slip into using some of the protocol, but that is as a voluntary expression of my intense emotions at that moment towards my Dom; it is not something which would feel appropriate outside of that situation.


Thanking any DOM/ME who has taken the trouble to read this sub's unworthy thoughts, whilst i crawl off, backwards of course, to find the ground a DOM/ME has walked on so that i may kiss it.

cariad